My server by the name of Maria S (Va location) made a very unsettling remark regarding how fast and how much food I ate, saying "Oh, you really cleaned your plate" and started laughing, I am struggling with my weight did not find that comment pleasant, funny neither appropriate. She then said, "the food was so good, make you want to slap your grandmother", both of my grandparents are no longer on this earth, that comment made me feel uneasy and sad as I started to think about my grandparents. Maria completely ruined my experience at the Cheesecake Factory. I was eating with a guest, Maria took my bankcard and charged my guest food on my bankcard after she already separated the checks, she was not paying attention being so busy laughing and making inappropriate comments nd acting very jittery. My experience there was horrible, I will not be back there ever!