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ChnLove.com Navigating ChnLove: Tips for Finding Love in China

I totally agree with the previous review about ChnLove. This website is known for overcharging its clients and taking advantage of their naivety and weaknesses. However, there are ways to beat them at their own game. My advice is to move to China and find what you are looking for. It may be easier to find love in other Asian countries where women can leave freely with less hassle and paperwork, but from my experience living in China for a few years, I found that it's mainly for men.

One thing to note is that any messages that you send trying to make personal contact while in your country are not delivered. This includes email and phone numbers, Skype for video, and other forms of communication. I used to write some poetry and they said they would use it and sell them, so I stopped. Also, most of the clients don't speak English anyway.

I arranged to meet a lady at the downtown Beijing agency on my first holiday trip, but she used an old picture and had a boyfriend who rang while she was with me at the agency. They ended up getting married afterwards, so it was no loss. However, I learned my lesson and asked for a tour guide translator to spend time with while I was there. We had a great time sightseeing, and there was no funny business at all. Beijing has a lot to offer by way of cultural history, wining and dining, and other attractions.

One thing to be aware of is that a lot of the girls on ChnLove are dinner girls, and some are even hookers who work the streets. I discovered this when living in Guangdong, so I stopped using the site. Instead, I met other ladies through friends who were single mothers, as Chinese men traditionally do not show interest in divorced women.

I find the women in China to be petite and friendly, but it's important to choose wisely. Remember that you have more to offer, and things can turn sour once settled in your own country later. Live with them for some time to get to know each other, travel, and have some fun. But don't complain that you got ripped off because you should really know better and do your homework.

Naturally, there needs to be an investment, so go and look after it there before you return happily married. Just make sure you clear up any bills before you leave if you are going to rely on teaching English. I met someone by chance in a restaurant who could speak a little English, and we started by passing notes across the table. Lucky for me, she had been taking English classes. Later, when we developed a relationship after about half a year, I offered her to move into my apartment, and she did after six weeks of humming and harring. We didn't tell her parents straight away.

Now, living in Australia, we have a beautiful daughter and a son on the way. I did this all on my own, so it is possible. I even completed the tail end of a BA while living there. I learned some Chinese before leaving and took a phone with translation on it, way before Apple and Samsung became popular. So, if you're looking for love in China, my advice is to do your research, be cautious, and take the time to get to know someone before making any big decisions.

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ChnLove.com CHNLove Review: A Total Scam Site - My Experience & How I Got My Money Back

So, I wanted to share my experience with CHNLove, and let me tell you, it was not a good one. This site is a total scam, and they don't give refunds to people who use their fake site. I had to work really hard every day to tell them that their site sucks and should be banned from the internet. I even had to follow legal protocol and inform my legal advisor of what had gone on and how much I had spent on this site. He set to work issuing a motion to log it in the court in America, but it was quite hard to do this motion because they hide their address and other details. So, I contacted CHNLove customer services and asked them simple questions, which they refused to answer. All I needed was for them to reply, so I hacked their IP address, which led back to a server in America.

The notion was set at the Courthouse in that town where the owner of the server was summoned to the courthouse. He refused to disclose CHNLove details such as address and names of the owners, so I opened a case for them to release their address. The motion was ready to go ahead, but it was adjourned for a week or so till they could slot the hearing. CHNLove emailed me immediately as they knew that they were next to go to court, which was already set in The Royal Courts of Queen Elizabeth II in Hong Kong. The court system in Hong Kong is run by The UK, so that bit was easy.

The email offered me a full refund if I stopped legal action, which I kept going as an incentive to pay me everything I paid on their scam site. They sent me a dodgy form which had 4 statements at the bottom, and they wanted me to sign it with a proper signature. I sent a digital signature, but they declined that. So, I scribbled out some of the statements that I didn't agree with, and they sent a fresh application form. I emailed them to tell them I don't agree with their statements, and they never got back to me.

I emailed the customer service, and they replied back to me saying they want the form filled in properly and they wanted it complete and sent to them before the 25th November. Otherwise, I would forfeit the refund, and it was like 2 days till the 25th. So, I waited and emailed them and said it's ok we will let the courts refund me with several million once I sued you! By the next morning, the refund was in my PayPal account.

Now, I have to be honest with you. I didn't book any courts or there was no lawsuit. I called my bluff, and they fell for it, and I got a refund with a little fuss. So, follow my lead, do what I did, and you will get your money back. Excuse is tell them this is a fake site, and you are going to take action and convince them. Make it as real as possible. Heed my warning, don't take NO for an answer, and beat the scammers. If you need any help, just comment, and I will try to help. So, good luck people in your claims!

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ChnLove.com Navigating ChnLove: Tips and Pitfalls for Meeting Chinese Women Online

ChnLove is a site that is used by many matchmaker agencies in China. These agencies are in it to make money, and ChnLove has little control over how they use the site. I have used the site myself and have visited China to meet some of the ladies from the site.

The agencies make money in a few ways. Firstly, the women who come to them to find a western husband pay them to "represent" them. Secondly, they receive a cut of the fees that the men pay to send an EMF letter, watch a video, have a "live chat", and so on. Finally, they make money from providing a translator should a man decide to visit China and meet one or more of the ladies he's "met" online.

There are a couple of things that guys should be aware of when using ChnLove. Firstly, some of the profiles are completely fake. The agencies post profiles of super-hot women to reel in the men, then do a bait and switch. If she looks too good to be true, she's probably a fake. Secondly, chances are slim that you're actually corresponding with the lady when you exchange EMF mail. A good sign that you're being played is if the woman rarely or never answers pointed questions, or keeps making excuses not to exchange information for direct contact.

If you are fortunate enough to communicate with a real woman that you're interested in, and decide to go visit her, hire your own translator! The agencies will try to charge 2 - 3 times the going rate for translation services. You can search out translation services for their city on the Internet.

I wouldn't suggest going to China exclusively to meet the "woman of your dreams" that you met on ChnLove unless you've had video chats with her apart from ChnLove, you'll already be in China for other reasons, or you plan to meet several women and are ok with chalking the whole trip up as a "travel experience". I did travel to China and met several women I'd met on ChnLove and had had video chats with. All in all, the experience was fine.

Be aware that many Chinese women, especially those with kid(s) under 18 are seeking our a western man who will become their ticket to a better life. She may well be willing to get a job and work, but her main goal is a better life for the kid(s) - not necessarily an undying love for the guy. One thing I've done to try and discern this is to suggest that we could live in China, instead of the USA. This helped he weed out a couple ladies.

Overall, ChnLove can be a good way to meet Chinese women, but you need to be aware of the pitfalls. It's important to do your research and be cautious. I did marry a great Chinese lady that I met through a different site. It hasn't been easy, but she's definitely a keeper! Good luck to everyone.

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ChnLove.com earns a trustworthiness rating of 58%

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We found clear and detailed contact information for ChnLove.com. The company provides a physical address, 2 phone numbers, and email, as well as 3 social media accounts. This demonstrates a commitment to customer service and transparency, which is a positive sign for building trust with customers.

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ChnLove.com ChnLove Review: High Costs and Restrictions Make Communication Difficult with Lovely Ladies

I've been using ChnLove and their other sites for about 11 weeks now, and I've spent around $6000 talking to over 20 lovely ladies. The problem is that the site severely restricts contact with these ladies. You have to go through the site for all communication, and any attempts to communicate directly with the ladies are blocked. This means that you have to pay around $7 for every message you send and receive (the guy pays both ways), and you can also do live chat at $1 a minute. However, I've found that the timer for live chat is often incorrect, and I've been charged for longer periods than I actually talked for. I've complained about this several times, but they haven't addressed the issue.

I managed to arrange for one of the ladies to visit me after spending hundreds of dollars communicating with her. However, a few hours before she was due to arrive, she sent me an email (another $7) saying that she decided to have a friend meet her instead because he was going to give her a birthday party and didn't want me to meet her after all. I'm not sure if this was all a set-up or if she was even real. For weeks, she had been telling me how much she loved me and couldn't wait to meet me, but it all turned out to be bull.

I also have another lady who was supposed to come visit me, but she keeps saying that her friend is in the hospital with pneumonia and getting worse. I've had to pay more money to inquire about this, but I'm not sure if it's real or just another string-along.

The cost of using the site is also quite high. It costs $7 for a photo and $14 for a short 15-second video (which they censor), and $7 a minute if you want to talk to them on the phone. They also censor certain words and phrases, like "make love." It's frustrating because the ladies on the site are some of the best you'll find anywhere, but the cost and restrictions make it difficult to communicate with them.

I'm staying on the site because I'm hoping to get the contact details of one of the ladies I've been talking to. After 90 days, I can request their contact details if we've exchanged at least 10 emails each way and the lady agrees to it. However, I've read online that this doesn't always happen.

It's also frustrating that the ladies don't have to pay anything to use the site, and I have to keep explaining the high cost of communication to them. Three of the ladies even offered to pay for some of the credits I use, but the company wouldn't allow it.

Overall, I'm enjoying talking to the ladies on the site, but the cost and restrictions make it difficult. I'm hoping to get the contact details of one of them soon, but we'll see if that actually happens.

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ChnLove.com ChnLove Review: A Complete Scam or Legit Site to Meet Chinese Women?

So, I recently joined ChnLove, which is one of the sites offered by QPID Network. At first glance, it seems like a great site to meet real Chinese women. However, after spending some time on the site, I realized that most of the women on there are probably not who they claim to be.

I received hundreds of letters from women who were interested in marrying me, having sex with me, and falling in love with me. It all seemed too good to be true. And it was. After doing some research, I found out that many of the women on the site are paid to monitor multiple profiles and respond to all the correspondence. This means that the women in the profile may not be the ones you are actually talking to.

One of the first things that tipped me off was the fact that all the women on the site were beautiful. I mean, really beautiful. It seemed unrealistic. And it was. Most of the women are chosen and paid for their photos based on their looks. And they are all thin. I mean, come on. That's not realistic.

If you look closely at some of the photos, you can see that a few are natural, but most got the photoshop treatment. And when additional photos are included with their introduction/admirer letter, they either are just repeats of the same photo or they look way different than the ones in their profile.

Then there are the stupid comments left on my message wall. And how can they say they read my profile and then ask questions about subjects they would know the answer to if they really read my profile? It just doesn't make sense.

I paid to chat a couple of times, but it was a complete waste of money. I wasn't on the chat board for more than half an hour and it consumed almost all my $100 worth of credits. And who are you going to complain to? There's no one to complain to. It's a complete scam.

One gal took forever to reply. It was like she was purposely burning up my time. When I told her she seemed distracted, her reply was that she was trying to translate. I doubt it. They probably get paid on a commission basis which would explain why they try so hard to get your attention. You are their paycheck.

There might be some legit women on the site, but I haven't found any yet. The women I see as fake are the ones that don't mention you or anything about your profile. They throw a generic letter about themselves to every man that views their profile. "I'm a simple girl. I get on here looking for serious man for much love. Maybe you are this man, yes?" It's just a complete waste of time and money.

I've spent several hundred dollars on this site and I regret it. Check the internet. You will find more complaints. The praise reviews are obviously sent from QPID to post. I found a Prosecuting attorney that got burned and was working this the Attorney General for a refund and to bring charges against the company. There are other poor souls. Don't feel sorry for me. I came here with eyes wide open.

I'm campaigning against this company and hope others will help me put a hurt to their wallet by exposing them to unsuspecting men. I hope the sickos that troll their sites never read this.

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ChnLove.com Chnlove and Sister Sites: A Complete Scam! Don't Waste Your Time and Money!

Chnlove and their sister sites are a complete scam! I highly recommend staying away from them. The poor Chinese girls pay money to upload their profile, and the men around the world who think they are talking to the girls on the pictures are being scammed! It's a complete and utter waste of time and money.

The person you are actually talking to is not the Chinese girl on the profile, but the translators who work for the agency. And most of them are men! Not even women! I was shocked when I found out that the person I was talking to was actually a man pretending to be a girl. These men act like a profile girl and do sex chat to clean up your wallet! And, the poor Chinese girls you really want to meet have no idea you exist!

Expect to spend thousands of dollars fast! It takes 10 emails to get contact info, 30 days to chat to get post info, and 30 more days to get their email and number. You spend 60 days on the site and get a random fake contact information from the same office. And still, you don't meet the girl you want to meet.

Because of them, so many people who have the potential to meet their dream partners never get to meet them! They just suck your money out, and this is their business model. They scam both sides of the game!

For those who have been victimized by Chnlove, start shooting out complaints to all your local agencies to put them behind bars and shut their sites down. Google your local internet fraud sites.

Again, don't talk to these [censored]s who are trying to do sex chat. I played along for a whole week. LMAO~

Tip: Go to China and meet a nice person for yourself. Stay clear of Chnlove; they are a can of worms that will eat you out.

A Philippines agency was caught and is now in jail and shut down. I became friends with the manager of this particular agency, and we kept in touch. She quit because she could not take the deceiving of men anymore. She says all the women in profiles are real, but they hire women to pretend they are these women and just lead you on to spend as much money as they can out of you. Some women you do actually talk to, but you have to ask the right questions right away to figure this out.

The police found out through some foreign men coming to them, and the owner was arrested and thrown in jail and awaiting court as I write this. All the former employees have told them of the scam, and that the orders to do this come from the QPID Network head office in Hong Kong.

This is a good time to now make this a huge issue and get these [censored] shut down as the poor women that actually want to meet someone are also losers.

My friend was asked to open her own agency, and they said if she did, she had to do this scam. This was from QPID management in head office.

I have called Visa to get them to do a fraud investigation and remove their name from this website, which is really how to hurt them. But Visa tells me they do not consider this fraud as I willingly agreed and paid. But is that not what fraud is? Someone tricking you out of your money? Clearly, Visa is aware of the issue, but again, profits before what is right for their clients. So Visa and Master Card are just as bad as QPID. I wish someone would do an expose on both Visa and Qpid.

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ChnLove.com ChnLove Review: Major Red Flags to Watch Out For in Finding a Chinese Wife

I've been using ChnLove for over 5 years now, and I have to say, there are some major red flags to watch out for. As many others have mentioned, if you decide to meet a woman you've been communicating with on the site, she may disappear if she isn't actually the woman in the profile. This has happened to me multiple times, and it's incredibly frustrating. One way to avoid this is to ask the woman to come meet you instead. If she refuses, she's likely not the woman in the profile.

I do believe there are some legitimate women on the site, but the majority of them are actually translators posing as the women in the pictures. They do this to generate income for themselves and the company. I know this because I've contacted some of the women in the profiles directly, and they had no idea their profiles were being used. In fact, one woman I spoke to had been happily married for over two years when her profile was refreshed and used by a translator to generate income. When I contacted the agency about this, they denied that she was married, but I had proof. They eventually deleted her profile, but they never contacted her about it. It's clear that the agency is more interested in making money than in helping people find genuine relationships.

Another red flag to watch out for is if you receive identical letters from the same woman more than once. This means she's not legitimate. If you receive identical letters from two different women, that means a translator is posing as both of them. Additionally, if a woman's replies become shorter and more generic the longer you write to her, she's likely not the woman in the pictures. Translators get paid for each letter they send, so they want to send as many as possible in as little time as possible.

It's also suspicious that so many of the same women seem to be on the site for at least 20 hours per day, every day. I keep odd hours due to my work, and I've noticed that many of the same women are on the site all the time. It's hard to believe that they're actually spending that much time chatting with men.

Overall, I think there are better sites out there for finding a Chinese wife. ChnLove may have some legitimate women on it, but it's clear that the agency is more interested in making money than in helping people find genuine relationships. I've deleted my profile and won't be giving them any more of my money. If you're looking for a Chinese wife, I suggest finding a site where you can get the woman's address and email her directly.

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ChnLove.com ChnLove.com Review: A Costly Scam with No Honesty or Standards

I have been using ChnLove.com for years now, and I must admit that it is mostly a scam. However, due to the limited options available, I kept hoping that I could find a few honest ladies who were at least 40 years old (I am 56). Unfortunately, I have spent hundreds of dollars on this site, which is very expensive. For instance, you have to pay $7 per letter, $7 per 10 minutes of chat, and $7 per minute phone call. Moreover, you must exchange 20 letters with a lady to qualify to request her address, and when you finally get it, you have to pay $200 for it!

The agencies that work for ChnLove.com are privately owned, and they are located in different cities in China. Unfortunately, there is no honor with these agencies, and there are no standards set up by the actual ChnLove.com website to hold them accountable. The private owners of the agencies get paid from your letters, chats, and phone calls. Therefore, they recruit many attractive women for photo sessions and set up profiles. Some of the women might actually be real, but I do not think these women know that their profiles are being used by the agency to phish for men!

As a member, you think you are getting "Admiration Letters" from quality, attractive women, but in truth, it is an employee of the local agency 98% of the time! I have seen the lady who wrote me a letter online and chatted with her. I could see from her words in chat that she did not even know who I was, and supposedly, she just sent me an "Admiration Letter" that same day! I had many examples of this kind! Also, you get "Admiration Letters" from the most gorgeous women from that city's agency, many of whom are very young, under 25! I mean, they are gorgeous! However, it's the agency hoping you will reply to the "Admiration Letter" ($7) or try to chat live with the lady ($7 for 10 minutes).

While you are online, just going through profiles, you will get bombarded with live chat invites from incredibly beautiful women. Years ago, it was just kind, seemingly real invites, but in the past two years, the invites are most of the time invites with one-line highly sexual comments. You know Chinese women don't talk like this! These agencies are desperate for more money! As soon as you click on that invite, you are charged $7! How do I know the live chat is bogus? Well, many times I would check to see if a lady was real. I would click on her chat invite as I had received an "Admiration Letter" from her earlier! She would not even know who I was! If the ladies of that particular city are real at all, they have no idea how their profile is being used by that agency! It is a 100% scam!

These last years, I know their game very well, but I kept trying to find that one mature lady that really might be real. It is a shame I have always been so attracted to Asian women! It has been a waste of time! However, I am on to a new site called ChinaLoveMatch, which was recommended by people here at Site Jabber. I will try it out and see how it goes. You would be better off than using ChnLove.com by trying a site that has a $25-40 monthly membership and allows you full access to letter writing, chat, and getting the ladies' contact info. You probably have a 30/70 chance of finding a true lady. Just be careful and be methodical to check all her actions/answers for truth. A true Chinese woman is honorable, I still believe, but the Chinese businesses are like any other country, all about the money and getting it anyway they can! They have ZERO honor! ChnLove is a true 100% scam, take it from a man who lost hundreds and hundreds there over several years!

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ChnLove.com ChnLove Review: A Total Scam - Don't Waste Your Time or Money

So, my buddy told me about this site called ChnLove and how he's been chatting with a lady from China. He's even booked a trip to go see her! I was a bit skeptical, so I decided to sign up and see if it's legit. Let me tell you, it's not. This site is a total scam.

Here's how it works: everything you do on the site costs credits. Want to read an email? That'll cost you credits. Want to reply? More credits. Want to call them? You guessed it, credits. Even if they call you, it still costs credits. It's ridiculous.

After signing up, I received a ton of admirers. I clicked on one and saw that she claimed to be in the same state as me. I was excited, thinking this could be easy. I paid for some credits to reply and mentioned that I was in the same state. She said she was on a work visa for three years. Seemed legit, so I decided to let her call me. The call lasted two minutes and cost two credits. I didn't have time to exchange details, so I added more credits and she called again. This time, I gave her my mobile number and two email addresses. She read them back to me and they were correct. I thought, "Great, I can talk to her for free now!" But nope. She claimed she sent me a text and an email, but I never received them. She said there was something wrong with her phone and that the email might take some time. Really? From the same state and country? I told her I wasn't adding more credits and that I'd wait for her text or email. But surprise, surprise, I never heard from her again.

If this site wasn't a scam and she really wanted to meet me, there wouldn't be a problem. But it is a scam, and I wasted my money. If you use this site, you'll waste your money too.

And to ChnLove, don't bother with your excuses. One of your employees messed up this time by saying they lived so close and still nothing happened. If you seriously think you have an excuse for this one, it better be a good one, including a refund. I've already contacted VISA and sent them a link to this page so they can see all the reviews. They also told me they won't be fooled by the "good" scripted reviews that are obviously written by your staff who can't speak English.

I talked to my friend, and he's seen some things that don't add up in his conversations with his lady. He's backed out and removed himself from the site. Don't waste your time or money on ChnLove.

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ChnLove.com ChnLove Review: A Big Scam for Men and Women Looking for True Love in China

I've been doing business in China for quite some time now and I travel there several times each year. I've made a lot of friends in the past 10 years and most of them are wonderful people. I was looking for a Chinese wife and decided to use ChnLove (chnlove.com). I spent several thousand dollars on letters and chatting, but eventually, I found out that the agencies are nothing more than big scam artists.

They convince girls to join and often pay for professional photos to be taken and posted. Then the translators are paid to write letters and chat with men pretending to be the girl. The biggest giveaway is if you mention coming to China, at the last minute something always comes up and they are busy or if they show up the girl knows nothing about you and they have another older lady that is the bait and switch girl.

The last time I went from Guangzhou to Shenzhen to meet a girl, two of my friends went along and we trapped them in just such a game. The girl was nice and we actually spent 5 days seeing Shenzhen and getting to know each other. She was shocked when I showed her the letters the agency had sent and one day actually got online and chatted with someone that was pretending to be her while she sat next to me. It was very funny because after challenging the chatter she finally admitted she was not the girl.

The girl tried to get her profile removed but two weeks later they still had it up and called her to tell her another guy had sent her flowers, funny they charge almost two hundred dollars for flowers that cost about thirty in China. I filed a complaint with the main office and finally the agency removed the profile but they called the girl and complained about fines and penalties. The main office is still "checking on the Complaint" and have asked for letters and screen shots of the chats as proof. Needless to say I will get nothing from them even though I provided the girl's phone number and told them to call her and look up the archive of the chats for the day the translator admitted they were a fraud.

Obviously someone needs to get an attorney and file a class action suit against the main agency and seek some serious damages or shut them down. Many of my friends in China advise against the site and know people who have worked as translators for the agencies for experience in English, they all say the same thing, "It's a big scam both for the women and the men. They often charge large fees if a contact ends in a marriage to a man they met on the site.

The really sad thing is there are a lot of honest people that could find great partners if the agencies were honest about their communication, but they mostly use it as an excuse to defraud men and women looking for true love. An easy way is if they will not give you a photo of them holding a notepad with your name on it --- Run.

It should be obvious also that successful girls and women in China can easily find a suitable husband. Never fall for the line they had a bad experience with a Chinese man and want nothing to do with them anymore, it's a lie. Most would prefer a Chinese husband, but like all countries some do find different ethnic groups more attractive. I happen to love Asian women, always have and always will, I will find a suitable Chinese wife but not on this site.

You will find the minute you challenge them they get angry or find some reason to stop communicating. My advice is to join QQ international and use their services to find someone in China. They will immediately want to video chat so you can see each other and the cost is zero. Stay away from this site like it has social disease because it does, but it affects your bank account.

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ChnLove.com Membership - and fraud

1 day ago purchase just 150 points to try out site then I was charged 399.00 and now my bank card won't work. I have filed fraud with my bank.
The customs service is no help not to mention bad connection. We were disconnected and I called back with no answer.
They need to refund the error charge.

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ChnLove.com It's a fraud

Please, stay away and be careful. This website is run by fraudsters and you should be aware of this.
I am absolutely sure that those women are recruited by the website management for one purpose - to take as much money as possible.
I am glad I didn't invest thousand dollars in this crap, but I personally know a guy who came to China to see "a girl of his life" and at the airport was met by her "friend" who said that this girl of his life broke her leg and is now at the hospital and he can't visit her.
It's an old scheme, many men fall on that.
Don't be fooled by this website, guys.

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ChnLove.com Extreme huge scam please read and be aware !!

The whole objective is to get contact information and eventually meet, right? Dont expect any meaningful success, the women that are writing you sometimes 10 times a day and cant live without you and then want to 'love-call' you on a daily basis, are the sites scam agents who do have a 'somewhat remote' relationship with the real girl, but will lead you astray with major deception simply to sell non-genuine. Fake letters and chats. When you finally get to the point by their well posted 'contact information' deception policy the same girl who was writing you 10 times a day and hanging on your every word suddenly writes you once off the site and disappears. The same girl who couldnt make it another day without hearing your voice in 'love call' service you pay $10/min for, all of a sudden after you exchange contact information doesnt have a phone, or its broken, or it only works in ukraine/thailand(Idateasia.com) and then the $1000's you just spent on this misrepresented girl is suddenly worthless. After you have earnestly gone through the maze, it usually takes some months and paypal and american express are generally unhelpful/powerless towards resolving your dispute. Beware of prerecorded videos and scam-cams that start and you end up having to pay for, even though you never authorized the camshare and clicked to get out of the video, again their scam agents just trying to sell more video chat for which you pay 3x a regular chat and when you ask them to touch their nose or something, they become defensive but charge you just the same. The scam chats are plagued with promises to make a journey to you which takes months to develope but in the end although you prepare in anticipation, the real girl never actually gets on a plane. Dont think that the admirers really admire you, its all a part of their huge fraud and scam to entice you to engage in very fake and phoney letters and chats. You wont be able to resolve your grievances with the site even though you repeatedly show them screen dumps of their scam and over charge operation. Approach here with extreme caution, on these qpid sites, they are trained experts and highly skillful scam agents who knowingly take advantage of your sincerity and vulnerability, entrenching you in meaningless relationships and leaving you with nothing. Please contact me if you want to know several specific and well documented examples. Lets get together and class action against this huge scam. ))

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Nov 03, 2018 6:12 pm EDT
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are there any class action lawsuits currently against charmdate?

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I have to say that this post confirms exactly what I have suspected almost from the start, which for me was only about a week ago. I was smart enough to pay for credits only through PayPal, and a total of less than $50.00. That way I didn't expose my bank and credit card details. Because it's such a small amount, it's not (yet) worth the time and hassle of contacting PayPal or the website's "Customer Service" (lol) Department to demand a refund on the basis of fraud. However, I hereby reserve the right to reverse that decision at any time in the future, based on what develops.

My suspicions were raised on both the China site and the Ukraine/Russia site when after viewing dozens of women on each one, I noticed that many of the photos used the exact same locations and props.

For example, in China, does EVERY home have an identical staircase? Does every park have exactly the same blue bamboo pole to hold onto? Or in Ukraine, does EVERY home include a large double bed covered in a white quilt, with a brown leather-covered storage chest at its foot? Does every kitchen have the same style pot on the stove? Does every dining table hold the same white china tea set? Do all the women wear exactly the same clothing, shoes or boots? Despite that, there were at least 3 women who seemed more sincere and believable, with whom I initiated some site-based correspondence. It would be nice if one of them turned into a real, face-to-face relationship, but I'm not holding my breath.

It's sad, even morally reprehensible, that there are sites like this that rip off men who are already vulnerable and hurting emotionally. MGTOW! (If you don't know what that is, Google it and search it on YouTube.)

I would be happy to add my real name to a class-action lawsuit against these perps, even though I've lost only a small amount of money. This behavior is so disgusting, even in the way it exploits at least some of the women, and it violates all principles of respectful human interaction.

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I can only agree with the above statements. Charmdate is total scam. No real contacts possible, nor they are desired by the "girls". They split the work between truly beautiful girls (models) and truly frauding writers ("translators"). Stay away.

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ChnLove.com Scam alert! Avoid!

These people are money hungry thieves! I wasted so much money on ChnLove and never met a real live human there. All I received was robotic messages. I tried to contact some girls myself and received the same replies! I wanted to get all the money I wasted on this scam but their customer service refused to refund me. Stop scamming innocent people!
Avoid this site like a plague! Most of the profiles here are fake, you need to pay for everything and you will definitely regret you ever used ChnLove!

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ChnLove.com Online dating scam site

I had a problem with a lady whom, after spending nearly $3000 on her, had forgotten that I had spoken to her mother only a week earlier, and even accused me of talking to another ladies mother. (I wrote another review about this previously) She wouldn't give me her phone number, or even call me because she was "afraid I might find out her phone number". Again, this woman was "Vicky, Profile # P272064
After complaining to CHNlove, or Qpid about this "fraud", they did Nothing for me. absolutely did not care at all. SO, I contacted my credit card company and had the charges reversed claiming fraud... Qpid THEN contacted me at first telling me I had to call my credit card company to reverse the reversal...Following this?... Anyway, They finally said if I reverse the reversal of charges on my credit card, they would grant me 50 credits. The charges got reversed (again) and I paid my debt, but...Qpid did NOT give me the 50 credits they promised me... They Lied. They only care about getting money, even though they tell you they care about your experience. SO, Whether the ladies are "real" or not, is one thing... the fact is..Chnlove and Qpid will not care about you if there is a problem...and they Lie... I have written proof of it...SO, Keep that in mind if you go there. And NOW, because I complained to them about it, they are terminating my membership... after I spent nearly $8000.00 there. Some of the ladies are real, but the company itself is where the real SCAM is! They only care about making money. Now that they got their money... they terminated my membership... While I was still talking to a lady of interest... Its BS.

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ChnLove.com Price charged for love calls either from ladies or to ladies

The price of phone calls either to or authorised from ladies to gentlemen is charged at 1 credit per minute (cost of 1 credit in NZ$10.00), .
I recently, authorised, (mistakenly), for a Chinese lady to call me anytime,
so a phone call was received at 4 pm afternoon, my time.
After explaining that it was CHN LOVE calling and the Ladies reference number, I proceeded to ask the lady her name . It took me 6 minutes to establish she had no grasp of English language and by that time, operator was intterupting phone call by telling me i had 45 seconds to end this call, as my credits were running out.
So to sum things up, I did no even get the ladies first name, she could not speak any English, but no interpretor was present, and it cost me the equivilant of NZ$60.00 for the 6 minute phone call.

While on the subject of CHNLOVE.COM. the site issue you with bonus popints, each time you use a credit to write to a lady in China.
That is fine, you redeem 10 bonus points instead of a credit if you reply to a letter you have received. Suffice to say, that you are only offered this alternate way of paying for new contacts, which makes the bonus points worthless, if you have chosen one lady and write to her exclusively

Think CHNL9OVE.COM is a complete Rip off treating men and women as cash cows to add value to their site, and alternately to the owners pockets.

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ChnLove.com Fake ladies

I was a member of www.chnlove.com for about a month and now I'm officially done with this terrible scam website! Most of the girls I met there were obviously fake. I'd like to tell about the girl I recently spoke to. She has really nice photos and look like a real model. Well, they all do. But the worst part was that she didn't speak like a woman at all! She told me about her business and fancy cars! She also said she was quite famous and very rich. So then I asked her what was she doing on Chnlove. I also asked her how was she able to run her business if she was always online. She said that this was the only way for her to find a real man, that all her previous husbands were after her money. What a sad story. And the best part was that three other girls told me the same story! Fakes! Stay away from this terrible website!

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ChnLove.com Fraud!

The two ladies I met on Chnlove website told me that they were coming to the USA soon. One was going to Chicago to see a friend. The one I was really interested in, wanted to meet me in real life and she was planning a trip to New York. Several weeks later they both changed their minds. After they told me about their plans I wasted tons of money on messages. They said that they were really sorry but still wanted me to write each day. A complete scam! Then I made a little research and found one of them on Facebook. She actually had a boyfriend and a different name. So these thieves actually stole some girl's photo and used it to create a fake profile on Chnlove! Terrible!

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I agree with the majority of these comments. I was in China and went to two particular cities to meet a lady, and upon arrival I was informed that they had to go to another Province for an emergency or work. Before using this site I urge everyone to read the requirements to meet on a date for a lady. They have many requirements, then you must pay the agency the money, plush an interpreter, and of course the cost of the date. It is all about money and they do not care about western men, just their money. This site is a fraud.

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ChnLove.com Complete Scam!

I found a nice girl on ChnLove and we become very close. But the whole thing was very expensive, so I told her I couldn't afford to keep writing so often and she agreed. The prices are really high! $10 to read a letter and another $10 to send a letter. I thought I found a loophole as she had a sister in my country. I asked her sisters phone number. She could not find it. Later she said she wanted to keep her sister out of it. That was strange, because we knew each other for months and I thought became very close. I made a little research and found her on Facebook! She was actually married and even had kids! I spend thousands of dollars on her! I was scammed and robbed!

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ChnLove.com Date site

This site has taken over NZ$3, 000:00 for providing no service except online "chats" & emails thru' their site. Any attempt to make contact is thwarted by their translation security! Al the photo's, any thing sent or received cost's the client credits which he must buy first. Credits are very expensive. A call from the so- called online girl is charged to your credits! I made several complaints to them. I have their email replies. They claimed that after 10 "letters" I would be given contact details. Then told 90 days! Perhaps not all their girls are involved which gives them a very good facade of operating a legitimate date site. Constant offers of pornographic "chats" are sent to my inbox! These girls attempt to offer online camera sex! All being charged credits. When I refused they create delays etc all costing credits while you are online. They girls will cause delays when you are trying to stop chats! I thought the woman was genuine at first! She tried to go along with me but now I realize she was just part of the scam! I was joined onto three other date sites by Chnlove.com without my permission. Including LATAM.COM, ANASTASIA.COM & ASIANDATE.COM. When I opened an introductory email in my inbox it went to one of these three date sites. Also a Ukraine date site would pop up. To prevent their accessing further funds I blocked my cards ASAP. However on the first occasion on one of these sites they withdrew seven amounts of NZ$24:76! And smaller amounts of NZ$4.56! I was unaware until I left the site & checked my account! They have never informed me of their accessing my information via ChnLove.com! I can forward the emails as I am unable to upload them. If you provide me with an email address I will forward my emails sent as enquiries to ChnLove.com.

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