Asiandate.com
Reviews and Complaints

I have been treated as #, trash, rubbish and garbage by the website operators of asiandate.com for over the last 2 weeks.
They have banned and not allowed me to communicate with my beloved 23 years old future wife.
They have locked and blocked my dating account on their website.
I can not log onto my dating account because it is saying incorrect password.
Nearly all of my e-mail correspondence is in my dating account.

I want to cancel my subscription and I don't want to use this terrible site any longer. AsianBeauties is absolutely terrible and full of scammers, there is no way to meet someone there.
I was on AsianBeauties for over a year and did not meet anyone. There are many old profiles, people who just want to make fun of others and etc.
I used a lot of dating websites and can say that AsianBeauties is one of the worst. There is no customer service to help. And as I already said I want to get my account cancelled but I can't do that because they don't reply. I keep getting spam messages from AsianBeauties and I want to stop that as soon as possible, I'm already sick and tired of this.

Yesterday I purchase credits because I wanted to read and reply to two emails send from two ladies. After reading each email, I proceed to send my replies. The site did not send me a confirmation email for the replies.

How I'm suppose to know if they were delivered if you don't even send me a confirmation email for the replies?. I'm sorry, but I have a bad feeling about this. If my replies were not delivered to their destination, I will conclude that the site is ripping off people.

I will appreciate any help with this matter.
Thank you;
Luis Alberto

This place is full of girls which are interested only in money! Joined AsianDate about two months ago and immediately received some messages from nice ladies. We were chatting for a while and they started to ask questions about my work, budget, monthly income and how much do I spend here and there. Later one of them told me that she had some problems and really needed some money and asked me if I could send her some. Later another girl asked me the same. This place is an absolute fraud! People, do not believe them and don't send them your hard earned money, it's a 100% scam!

All of you guys stay away from this place! These are photographs of the models! They will never answer your questions when you ask them about their lives! They will try to get you to go on chat! Which cost do you six credits a minute! They put stupid little gestures to make sure that the time continues to grow! They will talk about all kinds of things! Then when you do get all of a girl they will push hard goes love calls! Those things are a minimum all the hundred credits which could mean $50 for 10 minutes of useless talk! When you talk to more than one of them! You'll get almost the exact same little short note! And then your email we'll get inundated with 18-year-olds 20-year-olds all telling you how much they love you! How could they love you have they've never met you? If you try to complain to their sole call customer service! You will get recited their mission statement! They will ignore any of your complaints about their women! They give you the spiel how they will diligently protect your rights is one of their customers! How they only have respectable women looking for love! They are nothing but frauds design only to make you spend your money. We've no hope of ever connecting With these women. More than likely you might even be talking to a guy because I suspect that only a few people oversee a certain amount of these fake profiles. And I believe they have a database with all of these little letters pre-written. They only add your name. If you confront these women they will tell you how they have spoken from their heart. I told Juan how I believe she work for these people. She said I said hurtful words. But yet then the next when I get she's talking about how much he loves me. Don't fall for guys I am telling you please don't get caught in this fraud. You'll only get a case of blue balls. I'm sure you guys know what I mean take care and protect yourself and God bless you all Ken Boland if you want to ask me something here kboland.[protected]@gmail.com

I've wasted thousands of dollars on this site and now I feel ashamed of myself. The only way to get contact info is from a phone call and I have done many calls with "ladies". And I must say it is not cheap. But when you call they slow down their speech enough to use up all the credits. And all the girls are fake, so their provided information is fake too. And naive men are ready to pay big money just to hear lies! Don’t use AsianDate, there is not a single girl there that is searching for relationships. They are there just to rob poor men like me! These people get paid and they are paid because we give them money! I think those of us who have been scammed badly should compile our evidence, and then file criminal complaints. I want to see them out of business! They will pay for all the things they’ve done!

It is impossible to cancel the subscription and even if you cancel the membership they will still charge your card every month! I signed up few years ago, met a girl there and thought that we well be together forever. But she was fake and when I discovered it I decided to cancel my subscription. Recently I noticed that some money disappeared from my bank account. I contacted my bank and they told who charged my credit card. Of course they returned my money, but yesterday someone from the bank called and said this website has been trying to charge my credit card again. I deleted my entire account and now I hope they’ll leave alone. Don’t use AsianBeauties!

I really love Asia, so as a single person, I decided to find true love using this site. I became very close to a boy from Japan, his name was Hiroki. We used to chat every day and felt that I'm falling in love. But I also thought that there is something strange about him. Something kept telling me that he is too perfect for a real person. As a test I created a fake profile and posted fake picture of a model. I waited a couple of days and decided to send him a message. He replied fast. He said that I was very beautiful and he felt in love with me ( with my fake account, actually). As the conversation developed I asked what movies he liked and what music he listen to.her favorite song was. Of course he told me everything. Well, I was chatting with him for several days from my real and fake profiles. Then, I decided to tell him who I really am. Then he told me the whole truth about this site. He said that site has a group of people who get paid for chatting with people like myself. He felt horrible and told me that he very sorry. But that was not the worst part. The worst part was that he was actually a girl. Yes, I was chatting with a girl and was in love with her! I felt so humiliated. Don't trust that site, they are true liars.

I've been recently getting invites from beautiful "photos" from this website. I have not included my photo or any bio-character-data so when they "wrote" a letter saying they like me, my character and the usual bs, I knew this is a scam site. My advice about the sites that CHARGE BY CREDITS (you pay for these credits) to open a letter, view a photo/video, translations, meeting etc - FORGET IT YOU'RE BEING CONNED.
Look at the pictures, they're good for entertainment only but don't dip into your pocket for them, ever.

When problems arise contrary to agreement policy there is no response 90% of the time or recourse offered, particularly when it comes to overcharging. I personally have been overcharged £300, less than a year of very modest use, by AsianDating failing to: credit full amount paid for 'points' purchased; first time messages received are to be free to read when 90% of the time you will be charged; the promised free three minutes 'chatting' at the beginning of a new day is not often given; site is heavily censored that will abruptly cut messages that have been paid for, causing money and time to be lost; messages containing any numbers, in any language, (ex: ages, number of family members, dates or times) or the words 'number', 'contact', 'Post office', 'address', anything to do with social networking, are all obliterated with dots, making messaging very frustrating and almost unreadable, particularly for a non-English speaker.

In addition, written letters will appear normal, as written, when sent and the same when reviewed later in history, but will be heavily censored when received. The bizarre thing is (for a Dating Site, I would think) the words censored are for sexual content, the sexually explicit terms used between two adults thought to being private! Pictures attached will be blocked for any kind of sexual exposure, which can cause the whole message never being delivered without notice or knowledge; still appearing as "sent". It is a struggle, frustrating, irritating and prohibitively expensive to communicate on this site. One never knows what is being received, through editing and censoring, or if anything is actually "sent" at all. You are left with the feeling that AsianDating is doing everything possible to actually keeping people apart. If you want to make phone contact or email you will be near the $100 mark.

Finally, the AsianDating women appear to be recruited from certain fields of endeavours: young models, actresses, teachers, nurses. Stewardesses, business owners and university students. Which leads me to believe a majority are commissioned and trained to keep the callers online (they all are madly in love with you); it is an extra income for them, a part time job, to scam the callers. A point that has never been denied by the women when asked. Also, the women all look fabulous which has a lot to do with AsianDating photo shopping.

In conclusion: you will be kept messaging at rates of $16 for three minutes (easily a $100 a day) for weeks, months or years without ever finding out where this woman actually lives or how to make contact with her, other than messaging online through AsianDating. Yes, you can pay hundreds messaging before you are given an opportunity to pay another lump sum to email or telephone (through an interpreter) or book a trip through the site costing over a thousand. In the end, there is no conclusion to the promise of meeting "beautiful Asian Women"; it just goes on and on and on.

I met my wife on AsianBeauties.com. They were totally truthful. Their charges are realistic given their service. They maintain nice offices in good buildings in the center of the city. When I was there, I saw a continuous staff of about a dozen persons, several of whom are translators. The owner is not rich, seems upper middle class, a gracious host. Everything was handled professionally, and within the context of Chinese culture. I think a lot of the complaints are coming from people who did not go clear through their process. From our experience, the company is totally legit. They provide a valuable service at a reasonable cost, professional, and they follow through on everything. We've been married two years now, very happy.

I recently found the website www.asiandate.com. It was mentioned that the registration was for free, but after I filled the form and indicated my card’s number, these ### charged me for $30. Also the moderators didn’t communicate and there wasn’t any contact info. I want to warn that this site is scam, so avoid it or you will lose money. Share this info and inform other people as well.

This Asian Beauties (AsianBeauties.com) website requires that you purchase expensive credits. You must pay 10 credits to open/read every letter, and pay 10 credits to respond to every letter. 10 credits = about $5.00, or more!

If you continue correspondence with female members, you continue paying $5 (or higher) for every read/respond letter. ($5+$5=$10) You never stop paying the Russians who operate this website.

When Asian female sends letter with extra pictures attached, AB website permits you look at 1st pic free, then PAY 10 credits ($5 or higher) to open/view each additional picture.

If you try to insert your direct email, or personal address into your letter, the AB website has computer software which censors/blocks personal information. AB does not want you to exchange email/phone/address with the female members, because you are not allowed to communicate with the girls off the AB website.

When you ask for their personal email/address/phone, the girls will not provide it, and you will be told excuses, that they wish to communicate with you only on AB, where, of course, you keep paying credits to the Russian administrators.

In addition, the local Chinese translators may very well not provide/transfer your personal data/information to the girl when they do English–Chinese translation so the female may read your comments.

On the video/chat box online, you must pay 1 credit per minute just to send a text message with no cam. Or, you pay 2 credits per minute to see girl on cam. Credits cost between 40 to 80 cents determined by how many you buy in bulk in one transaction. One hour = 60 minutes X 40/80 cents = $24 to $48 per hour for text box, or $48 to $96 per hour for girl on web cam.

(All the Anastasia websites for Russian/Ukrainian/Asian, and AmoLatina websites operate on these same PAY always policies.)

ONLINE, you type message, PAY, transmit message, PAY, girl reads message, PAY, girl thinks response, PAY, girl types, PAY, girl transmits, PAY, you receive/read, PAY, and keep on PAYING every minute. You burn through your bank account, and Russian administrators go to luxurious nightclub and eat caviar/drink expensive vodka thanks to you!

On scam-report websites, some former AB male members report spending $$$ hundreds, even $3, 000 worth of credits, and never make progress with these female members toward a serious relationship.

On Asian Beauties, my personal profile received several hundred letters from pretty Chinese females. I couldn’t open/read them, because AB would charge thousands of dollars to do it, and thousands of dollars to respond to these nice women.

Two Chinese women claimed to have wealthy daddies, to be affluent, and offered to come to USA, buy me a house/car if I’d be their husband! Wow! I was getting ready to write them a letter of interest, inviting them to make the trip here at their expense. And I reviewed the profile of a stunning Chinese girl who said she was here in Los Angeles. We exchanged 1 letter.

Then I noticed that I stopped receiving email from AB website, or notifications of new letters. I tried to log in, and was rejected. Tried to call their Customer Support with difficulty, sometimes on hold for 1 hour. Then I talked with Christina, Customer Support Manager in Russia. She was unable to provide explanation for why Ruslan, the ‘Risk Manager, ’ deleted my account. I wanted to talk to Ruslan over telephone, but he was never available, and didn’t telephone me later even though Christina promised he would.

Instead, Ruslan transmitted multiple emails asking me to photocopy both sides of my credit card, the back/front, and photocopy my personal ID, which could mean passport or state ID, and send both to him via email or fax to prove my identity to him!

What? Does this sound like an attempt to rip off my Identity, and tap my Credit Card until wiped out? Bank of America Customer Care and I both thought it did, and I certainly wasn’t foolish enough to comply with Ruslan’s request.

Now that Ruslan deleted my membership, I’ll never find out if those Chinese girls were serious, or bluffing, about buying me a new house! And Ruslan and Christina never explained why I was dropped.

My suspicion is that I wasn’t spending enough money, not responding to the hundreds of letters. Some AB girls wrote me eight or nine letters trying to prompt a response from me.

So maybe AB drops frugal male members who are reluctant to blow big $$$, and spend just a small amount, and are highly selective in answering the females.

I just don’t know, but I really wanted one of those rich Chinese girls to buy me a Beverly Hills mansion, and now I have to keep living in my tiny apartment instead!

This Asian Beauties website requires that you purchase expensive credits. You must pay 10 credits to open/read every letter, and pay 10 credits to respond to every letter. 10 credits = about $5.00.

If you continue correspondence with female members, you continue paying $5 for every read/respond letter. ($5+$5=$10) You never stop paying the Russians who operate this website.

When Asian female sends letter with extra pictures attached, AB website permits you look at 1st pic free, then PAY 10 credits to open/view each additional picture.

If you try to insert your direct email, or personal address into your letter, the AB website has computer software which censors/blocks personal information. AB does not want you to exchange email/phone/address with the female members, because you are not allowed to communicate with the girls off the AB website.

When you ask for their personal email/address/phone, the girls will not
provide it, and you will be told excuses, that they wish to communicate with you only on AB, where, of course, you keep paying credits to the Russian administrators.

In addition, the local Chinese translators may very well not provide/transfer your
personal data/information to the girl when they do English--Chinese translation so the female may read your comments.

On the video/chat box online, you must pay 1 credit per minute just to send
a text message with no cam. Or, you pay 2 credits per minute to see girl on cam. Credits cost between 40 to 80 cents determined by how many you buy in bulk in one transaction. One hour = 60 minutes X 40/80 cents = $24 to $48 per hour for text box, or $48 to $96 per hour for girl on web cam.

(All the Anastasia websites for Russian/Ukrainian/Asian, and AmoLatina websites operate on these same PAY always policies.)

Online, you type message, PAY, transmit message, PAY, girl reads message, PAY, girl thinks response, PAY, girl types, PAY, girl transmits, PAY, you receive/read, PAY, and keep on.PAYING every minute. You burn through your bank account, and Russian administrators go to luxurious nightclub and eat caviar/drink expensive vodka thanks to you!

On scam report websites, some former AB male members report spending $$$ hundreds, even $3, 000 worth of credits, and never make progress with these female members toward a serious relationship.

On Asian Beauties, my personal profile received several hundred letters from pretty Chinese females. I couldn't open/read them, because AB would charge thousands of dollars to do it, and thousands of dollars to respond to these nice women.

Two Chinese women claimed to have wealthy daddies, to be affluent, and offered to come to USA, buy me a house/car if I'd be their husband! Wow!, I was getting ready to write them a letter of interest, inviting them to make the trip here. And I reviewed the profile of a stunning Chinese girl who said she was here in Los Angeles. We exchanged 1 letter.

Then I noticed that I stopped receiving email from AB website, or notifications of new letters. I tried to log in, and was rejected. Tried to call their Customer Support with difficulty, sometimes on hold for 1 hour. Then I talked with Christina, Customer Support Manager in Russia. She was unable to provide explanation for why Ruslan, the 'Risk Manager, ' deleted my account. I wanted to talk to Ruslan over telephone, but he was never available, and didn't telephone me later even though Christina promised he would.

Instead, Ruslan transmitted multiple emails asking me to photocopy both sides of my credit card, the back/front, and photocopy my personal ID, which could mean passport or state ID, and send both to him via email or fax to prove who I was!

What? Does this sound like an attempt to rip off my Identity, and tap my Credit Card until wiped out? Bank of America Customer Care and I both thought it did, and I certainly wasn't foolish enough to comply with Ruslan's request.

Now that Ruslan deleted my membership, I'll never find out if those Chinese girls were serious, or bluffing, about buying me a new house! And Ruslan/Christina never explained why I was dropped. My suspicion is that I wasn't spending enough money, not responding to the hundreds of letters. Some AB girls wrote me eight or nine letters trying to prompt a response from me.

So maybe AB drops male members who are reluctant to blow big $$$, and spend just a small amount, and are highly selective in answering the females.
I just don't know, but I really wanted one of those rich Chinese girls to buy me a Beverly Hills mansion, and now I have to keep living in my tiny apartment instead!

This Asian Beauties website requires that you purchase expensive credits. You must pay 10 credits to open/read every letter, and pay 10 credits to respond to every letter. 10 credits = about $5.00.

If you continue correspondence with female members, you continue paying $5 for every read/respond letter. ($5+$5=$10) You never stop paying the Russians who operate this website.

When Asian female sends letter with extra pictures attached, AB website permits you look at 1st pic free, then PAY 10 credits to open/view each additional picture.

If you try to insert your direct email, or personal address into your letter, the AB website has computer software which censors/blocks personal information. AB does not want you to exchange email/phone/address with the female members, because you are not allowed to communicate with the girls off the AB website.

When you ask for their personal email/address/phone, the girls will not
provide it, and you will be told excuses, that they wish to communicate with you only on AB, where, of course, you keep paying credits to the Russian administrators.

In addition, the local Chinese translators may very well not provide/transfer your
personal data/information to the girl when they do English--Chinese translation so the female may read your comments.

On the video/chat box online, you must pay 1 credit per minute just to send
a text message with no cam. Or, you pay 2 credits per minute to see girl on cam. Credits cost between 40 to 80 cents determined by how many you buy in bulk in one transaction. One hour = 60 minutes X 40/80 cents = $24 to $48 per hour for text box, or $48 to $96 per hour for girl on web cam.

(All the Anastasia websites for Russian/Ukrainian/Asian, and AmoLatina websites operate on these same PAY always policies.)

Online, you type message, PAY, transmit message, PAY, girl reads message, PAY, girl thinks response, PAY, girl types, PAY, girl transmits, PAY, you receive/read, PAY, and keep on.PAYING every minute. You burn through your bank account, and Russian administrators go to luxurious nightclub and eat caviar/drink expensive vodka thanks to you!

On scam report websites, some former AB male members report spending $$$ hundreds, even $3, 000 worth of credits, and never make progress with these female members toward a serious relationship.

On Asian Beauties, my personal profile received several hundred letters from pretty Chinese females. I couldn't open/read them, because AB would charge thousands of dollars to do it, and thousands of dollars to respond to these nice women.

Two Chinese women claimed to have wealthy daddies, to be affluent, and offered to come to USA, buy me a house/car if I'd be their husband! Wow!, I was getting ready to write them a letter of interest, inviting them to make the trip here. And I reviewed the profile of a stunning Chinese girl who said she was here in Los Angeles. We exchanged 1 letter.

Then I noticed that I stopped receiving email from AB website, or notifications of new letters. I tried to log in, and was rejected. Tried to call their Customer Support with difficulty, sometimes on hold for 1 hour. Then I talked with Christina, Customer Support Manager in Russia. She was unable to provide explanation for why Ruslan, the 'Risk Manager, ' deleted my account. I wanted to talk to Ruslan over telephone, but he was never available, and didn't telephone me later even though Christina promised he would.

Instead, Ruslan transmitted multiple emails asking me to photocopy both sides of my credit card, the back/front, and photocopy my personal ID, which could mean passport or state ID, and send both to him via email or fax to prove who I was!

What? Does this sound like an attempt to rip off my Identity, and tap my Credit Card until wiped out? Bank of America Customer Care and I both thought it did, and I certainly wasn't foolish enough to comply with Ruslan's request.

Now that Ruslan deleted my membership, I'll never find out if those Chinese girls were serious, or bluffing, about buying me a new house! And Ruslan/Christina never explained why I was dropped. My suspicion is that I wasn't spending enough money, not responding to the hundreds of letters. Some AB girls wrote me eight or nine letters trying to prompt a response from me.

So maybe AB drops male members who are reluctant to blow big $$$, and spend just a small amount, and are highly selective in answering the females.
I just don't know, but I really wanted one of those rich Chinese girls to buy me a Beverly Hills mansion, and now I have to keep living in my tiny apartment instead!

Sincerely, JOE Duffy
Los Angeles, California

AsianBeauties.com is just one of many East Asian dating sites, out to take advantage of Western men.

Probably at least 99% of dating sites featuring East Asian women right now, are crime rings.

The scam begins with the images on the ads. Yes, wait until you find out how misleading the images are.

How can you tell if the woman in the photo is a genuine or fake East Asian woman? I will teach you what you need to know.

Dr. Ing Gon Kim, owner of the Apkujung Feel Aesthetic Clinic and one of Seoul's best-qualified plastic surgeons. How can we discern whether or not, we are looking at a genuine East Asian face?

"Koreans are born with small eyes, wide and flat faces, and flat, low noses. What they would like are larger eyes, narrower and more oval-shaped faces, and higher and narrower noses."

Wow, that's interesting, Dr. Ing Gon Kim! I notice that almost all the women featured on AsianBeauties.com, have the plastic surgery faces! Thanks for that information.

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=3587669

Soo-Young Chin, assistant professor of anthropology at the University of Southern California. When I was growing up, the East Asian kids I knew had small eyes. But on AsianBeauties.com, the women have big eyes. What can you tell us about East Asian eyes?

“When I was studying in Korea, I saw a lot of women with double lids. I asked one woman why, and she said it was because her whole generation was born that way. Obviously her mother had had it done to her at birth, and never told her. Well, she’ll figure it out when she has kids of her own.”

Soo-Young Chin, that's really helpful. East Asian parents can give their children plastic surgery, even as newborns. This will surely help our readers. Thanks.

http://www.salon.com/2000/02/16/asian_eyes/singleton

Shin Yong Ho, you are a renowned Korean cosmetic surgeon. You head a hospital which claims it had performed cosmetic procedures for a third of Korea's A-list celebrities. The Chinese media reported, that you said that 95 per cent of the celebrities in Korea had gone under the knife. There have been sightings of East Asian celebrities on East Asian dating sites images. This has brought up much suspicion. How genuine are the looks of these celebrities?

"In the Korean entertainment industry, cosmetic surgery is a pre-requisite to entering showbiz. Just at the hospital I work at, a few hundred celebrities have had work done."

Interesting. I guess there aren't really any East Asian celebrities, who have kept their genuine East Asian looks. They'd have to use their talents and personalities to be noticed, ha ha. So these dating sites really are using photos of fake celebrities, to appeal to lonely Western men who don't know any better. I mean, Western men seem to more often be attracted to Western women. So images of East Asians, with lots of Western features and colourings airbrushed in, are used as bait. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, Shin Yong Ho.

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/entertainment/view/1080109/1/.html

Luigina Webb, you are the author of An Australian's Economic and Social Guide to the New Korea. Well, when I was growing up in Canada, all the East Asian kids had brown skin. But on these dating sites, for some reason, the women are quite fair. How is this possible?

"99% of Korean moisturisers appear to contain some kind of whitening agent. Without even noticing (much) my skin color has CHANGED (slightly) FREAKISHLY. There are really not that many varying shades if you want to buy cosmetics in Korea, and most brands only stock two colors (if that) ; WHITE, and WHITER (not kidding)."

Luigina, that makes perfect sense. Thank you.

http://luiginakorea.blogspot.com/2011/08/korean-skin-bleaching.html

BBC Leicester's Tony Wadsworth, you put together a piece that spotlighted the use of skin whiteners in Asia. Do you have anything to tell us?

"In Japan all skin creams contain a lightening agent."

Oh, really. That is very useful for our readers. I really appreciate it, Tony.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/leicester/content/articles/2007/09/26/skin_whitening_feature.shtml

There we have it. Please avoid these crime rings, operating as East Asian dating sites. Dealing with a culture you are not familiar with, you really need to do your research. Most likely, the men getting scammed on these sites, are chatting with hired employees. The employees look nothing like the women in the images. They could even be men, for all you know. The dating site employees play games of make-believe romance with the men. They want you to keep spending money on the site, until you figure out you're being scammed.

This just in. I've been given a set of images, to help us study what the fake and genuine East Asian women look like. Before = genuine. After = fake.

http://www.maydaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/angie560.jpg

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VK5f8gfTNKU/T3o2HLaIWsI/AAAAAAAADsk/HixVWUD-kw4/s1600/dawn-yang-plastic-surgery.jpg

http://img10.imageshack.us/img10/6577/aiotsuka.jpg

http://funnysexy.ph/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/korean-cosmetic-surgery.jpg

http://funnysexy.ph/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Korean-Cosmetic-Surgery-02.jpg

We hope you've enjoyed our consumer advocate show. Protecting the people from AsianBeauties.com. That's it for now.

Avoid the above mail order bride dating marriage services. You can read about the scam at Site Jabber, Teakdoor, Classifeied 1000 and Scambook (etc.)