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I've never met this guy, Patrick Southern, but I know his type. And, sadly, I know a wonderful, a really amazing woman, who was his victim for years. He led this woman on... lied to her time and again, then gave her an incurable STD, and continued to use her in every possible way - sexually and so much more.
Mr. Southern abused a friend of mine emotionally, and then, recently, he cruelly cut her out of his life in a heartless manner. I almost can't believe I am writing anything online about this at all...but I found these reports about him, and I cannot remain silent about this horrible excuse for a man. To think, he is a soldier, banking on that and using his position in the military to prey upon decent, loving women. No. I cannot be silent any longer.
My friend, "E, " spoke to me many, many times over three years about her intense love for, and her loyalty to this guy, Patrick. I always had a very bad feeling about it. I told her to stay away from him, but I could see that she trusted him and relied upon him, and there was little I could do.
I suspected that he might cause her harm but never did I think he would set out to destroy this beautiful teacher's career, to try and ruin a loving, giving life...something she fought valiently to rebuild after life's circumstances threw her curves that would have derailed even the strongest of us all...he set out to and then sent other women to engage in activity that caused my friend to attempt suicide. Patrick Southern did this...and so much more.
I think he may be a sociopath. As an M.D., I can't say this sure, but his behavior patterns fit. I've been trying to research him online, and now I see that he is quite possibly a charming narcissist. I can only attest to the fact that he skillfully used a friend of mine for sex, and then knowing her fragile mental state, he apparently set out - intentionally along with is young, and very naive new girlfriend, on a path that he knew would destroy a talented, loving woman, a decent person who showered him with love - and hung on his string - for over a decade.
I was lucky enough to walk in the door at the right moment - thank God - and I was able to revive my friend after her suicide attempt last month. Still, the emotional harm Patrick has caused her along with the loss of her career, and her self-esteem, well, the damage may be more than any of us can deal with.
Now, I am also worried about Mr. Southern's new girlfriend, about any woman, in fact, who might come in contact with this man, this Patrick Southern - Army helicopter pilot.
Please, beautiful, empowered women...say no to this man. From all I know, he is heartless and cruel beyond measure. As women, we must know our own worth. No man is worth your life, no matter what lies he tells you.
If you meet a new guy and he tells you a wild story about an ex...by all means, check out the story first. Call that woman - yourself. Don't simply believe everything a guy tells you just because he's wearing a uniform.

Ladies, let's use our heads. Please. If you meet Mr. Patrick Southern, tell him he owes an enormous debt to a beautiful woman in Kentucky, and until he does the right thing...you're not giving him the benefit of the doubt.

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Update by WebMD
Sep 05, 2011 1:12 am EDT

Brenda...Thank you for making such a thoughtful comment. Believe me, I willl do everything in my power to help my friend survive this guy, as will many others. Yet, it seems so unjust that the man who used a woman and negligently have her an incurable disease, then callously abandoned her should go out of his way after that, maliciously encouraging the actions that have now caused this woman to also lose her job, a career that she work incredibly hard to earn.

Now, only this guy Patrick can help her to be reinstated, and even after all she has done for him for more than a decade, he refuses to lift a finger. He even appears to be taking great pleasure in the harm he's caused an innocent person. I do know that time heals many wounds, but this guy is still a cruel son of a gun, if you know what I mean.

I feel most sorry for the beautiful young woman he's currently snowed with his lies, as she is likely to face a similar situation to my friend's when Mr. Southern tires of her. Thank you for being out there listening.

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Aw, crap. I just cannot believe the absolute idiocy some women will fall for. I've been online for 5 minutes and I have already found 6 separate complaints from women against this Pat/Patrick Southern (Patrick Dean Southern) character. I know someone he screwed over royally, and I just want the idiot to stop hurting people.

What does it take to educate you, lovely, fair sex? I'm talking to you women! I am writing because I am sick at heart for one of my dearest, most beautiful female friends. I am tired of being the strong shoulder this friend has cried on for over two years, starting when this ###-wipe lived in South Florida. Apparently, he moved on to Iraq and she convinced me to join her in I feeling sorry for him. Good grief - now, I completely see the scam this guys is running. While I still find it astounding, my gal pal is still willing to talk to this jerk. I think she may even believe that he's coming back to her - that's how well this con artist dupes his prey.

I write this after recently learning that this total jerk-wad did, if fact, knowingly, transmit the herpes virus to my girlfriend. So, now what do I do? I did not choose this ###. She's still in shock, and I just want to say to my fellow "gentlemen, " that if you meet this jerk Patrick Southern out there in Tampa somewhere, please punch his lights out for me - for all of us. This is the guy who has given the rest of us a bad name. He thinks it's OK to deceive as many woman as time allows him, give 'em herpes, and he still swear up and down that he's some hero, a military man, or that consequences don't apply to him.

Well, guess what ###, you're full-on-dead wrong. You are garbage. I don't wish you on my worst enemy, not even that heartless wench who broke my heart in college. To Mr. Patrick Southern, who cares if you know how to fly helicopters? This does not give you the right to destroy innocent, beautiful women, to commit a crime in spreading your herpes. Perhaps you deserve to die alone, miserable, and with inflamed herpes sores covering every inch of your flesh.

What goes around comes around, so watch out soldier-boy, that big dick isn't going to help where you're headed.

A concerned male friend of a beautiful woman destroyed by the criminal - Patrick Southern.

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Update by crushed1
Jan 22, 2011 12:45 am EST

I hesitate to post this, but I feel that I must warn other women who may find themselves in my position. I was a victim of a womanizer - an evil, sadistic, possibly sociopathic man. His name is Patrick (Dean) Southern. He used to live down here in South Florida, but after he found out he had Herpes, and had given it to several wonderful women, none of whom realized the risk, he took a job with Blackwater or Presidential Airways or DynCorp International, I don't even recall now which one specifically...but this man literally "fled the country" and risked this life in order to evade the wrath of 8 women he was simultaneously dating, or "f&%#king, " to be specific. Sisters - let me be just blunt. This man is an idiot, and ###...he's really only looking for a wealthy older woman (who reminds him of his mom) to "keep him in the style to which he has become accustomed." Yes, he actually said this to me. Can you imagine?

Don't be just another victim of Patrick (Dean) Southern. He's absolutely - positively - NOT worth it. I'm so sorry to admit that I had to find out the hard way - and yes, he is an asymptomatic Herpes carrier - and he does not care if he gives you Herpes. You do. If you have unprotected sex with this heartless womanizer - you WILL get Herpes. I'm trying to help - nothing more. You DO NOT want this incurable disease. I am trying to warn the next victim. I once cared for this man deeply. But, seriously. Save yourself the trouble.

Update by crushed1
Jan 22, 2011 12:48 am EST

I hesitate to post this, but I feel that I must warn other women who may find themselves in my position. I was a victim of a womanizer - an evil, sadistic, possibly sociopathic man. His name is Patrick (Dean) Southern. He used to live down here in South Florida, but after he found out he had Herpes, and had given it to several wonderful women, none of whom realized the risk, he took a job with Blackwater or Presidential Airways or DynCorp International, I don't even recall now which one specifically...but this man literally "fled the country" and risked this life in order to evade the wrath of 8 women he was simultaneously dating, or "f&%#king, " to be specific. Sisters - let me be just blunt. This man is an idiot, and ###...he's really only looking for a wealthy older woman (who reminds him of his mom) to "keep him in the style to which he has become accustomed." Yes, he actually said this to me. Can you imagine?

Don't be just another victim of Patrick (Dean) Southern. He's absolutely - positively - NOT worth it. I'm so sorry to admit that I had to find out the hard way - and yes, he is an asymptomatic Herpes carrier - and he does not care if he gives you Herpes. You do. If you have unprotected sex with this heartless womanizer - you WILL get Herpes. I'm trying to help - nothing more. You DO NOT want this incurable disease. I am trying to warn the next victim. I once cared for this man deeply. But, seriously. Save yourself the trouble.

Update by crushed1
Jan 22, 2011 12:53 am EST

I wish. I really do.

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SWicket
Tulare, US
Jul 26, 2011 1:20 am EDT

I can't believe all of this about the man I love. He has told me about some of you that are trying to besmirch his good name and reputation because he was too much of a man for you. He also told me that I am the only woman he could ever love. After my divorce, I was so thrilled to find a good looking young man that found me desirable.
We have been inseparable, except when he is away on his business trips to Europe and South America. He told me what his business is, but I can't remember all of the silly details.
Although, I have to admit, he sure is tan for traveling around in Europe and he never undresses in the light. And my vagina really itches all the time. Funny, it never used too!
Wait a minute, I think maybe he is using me.

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Glad not to be you
Clewiston, US
Jul 23, 2011 10:25 am EDT

I do not believe that anyone male or female should treat the opposite sex like crap either physical or emotional abuse and eapecially by not telling them that they have a diseases then leaving it up to them as to if they want to take that chance or not but, in this day and age where there is so much information about the risks of unprotected sex, dieases, and HOW NOT TO BE AT RISK if you choose not to take those percautions then it's not if you will get one of those diseases it's when and then you can not blame anyone but yourselt when it happens. In this case he knew he had herpes. What if he did not know yet or was just a carrier and did not show signs of the disease again making him not aware of the problem and again you make the choice not to protect yourself then again you can not blame anyone but yourself. If the guy your with won't have sex with you because you demand protection before you know if the relationship is going to last any amount of time then it's not really worth it. Now there is no relationshop you don't want anything to do with him but now you in a sense will be in a relationship with him for the rest of your life. Kinda makes that choice to have sex wasn't worth it.

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Tampa, US
Jun 08, 2011 1:21 am EDT
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Amen, brother. I think this a-hole is now dating someone I know. When will women learn?

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Sparky711
Belleville, US
Mar 16, 2011 7:32 am EDT

Yes, I agree 100% with the women here. YOU MUST USE COMDOMS! To risk sex without condoms is inviting serious heath issues or even death. I do know that if you have sex with some one that has AIDS they must tell you they have it. Not telling you is a crime. Not sure if it's a state crime or federal crime. I'm not sure about herpes though whether it's a crime or not. If not, it should be. Safe sex is mandatory, period! As a man, I am free of any sexual diseases but I find it disgusting to see some of these guys who would even think of giving any disease like these to vulnerable women. I'm sure they must have had a terrible youth with mothers, aunts, sisters, etc.etc. and now they are thinking of getting even and thinking that all women are somilar to the ones they had as a young child. I agree, there are an awful lot of rotten women in the world but the same goes for men. My advice to all you women. Demand safe sex regardless of what they tell you in advance. A word to the wise is...

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Orlando, US
Feb 12, 2011 1:54 am EST

I am livid. This picture is of me and the man I loved and was used without our permission. The idiot who posted this is totally insane! There really should be a low aganist this and I am going to do everything in my power to make her pay.

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Cranky Old Lady
Mills, US
Jan 28, 2011 8:01 pm EST
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Thanks for the warning he's way too young for me & iam not wealthy enough for him.So I am safe.Besides I Look out for number one & you should have to by Protecting yourself & using condoms.They Sell Them Everywhere.Not trying to be mean just being honest.Theres many men out there just like that man, & They are Everywhere &they are just out for a good time & You need to Protect yourself & Not Play into their games or Jump into bed with them too quickly So you can Avoid STD'S Now you will have to share that information with every man you sleep with in the future, Unless you have learned a lesson?So which is worse buying Condoms before you get a STD Or Buying Condoms to Sleep with a man in the future that may actually Love You enough to want to have a future with you?Good Luck!

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papasha
Kirkland, US
Jan 22, 2011 12:48 am EST

haha THAT letter sounds like a scam

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