Believe the name of the forum. If you are not one of them, Lipstick Alley is not meant for you and you will not enjoy it. Try any forum where the asphalt morbidly obese simians with cotton ball heads shellacked in 40 pounds of watermelon scented grease to grow their Brillo pad hair and moisturize their 700 pounds of flesh- FBAs/AAs/ADOS-aren't in abundance. They are miserable, cry about every made up -ism you can think of as to why the rest of the world is repulsed by them. Every thread is them crying about how they've been wronged by everyone else on earth or them projecting their inferiority complex and malcontent onto Caribbean and African people. They are misery in all of its lack of glory. There is just something not human about them and you will never be able to click with them nor should you try.
Lipstick Alley is their jungle to run. Let them enjoy their fried chicken and hot Cheetos in peace while swimming in their pools of moldy hair grease. If you are not one of them, you have nothing in common with them- only with actual constituents of humanity who have plenty forums of their own for you to peruse.
Recommendation: Stay away if you aren’t AA/ADOS/FBA