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Ladies,
Larry Bryant, National HIV advocate, is a womanizer and a cheater! He has no discretion when it comes to his choice in a woman. By that I mean all the women that he dated (simultaneously) are very different, live all over the country, and are from all walks of life. So, if you meet him and say to yourself, "wow, I must be special because he want s to settle down with me and open his heart for the first time", don’t fool yourself as it is all part of his game. He meets you and within a short time the words of love, fidelity, trust and commitment are rolling off his tongue! But in 2009, Mr. Bryant's lies caught up with him and all 13 woman he was seeing found out about what he was doing and saying TO ALL OF US!

One of us put pen to paper and sent him the following letter:
Dear Larry,
This letter is collaboration by all THE WOMEN! You see, we came together and added bits and pieces of our dealings with you! Who are all the women?…read a little further, you’ll see.

How do you sleep at night knowing how you use women, fill their heads and hearts with your crap? And you don’t think women talk and compare stories, Larry? We are not stupid! Your BS about wanting to belong to someone/something, finding “home” with each one of us, having the ability to open your heart for the first time, never feeling this way before, wanting us to TRUST you , saying I love you before the first week of dating is up, only one I care about is one, you”….BS, BS and more BS.

How could you think we wouldn’t figure you out when we are all looking at the same exact written words from you or hearing the same messages!?

Considering so many of us overlap, it is probably hard for you to recall what you said to whom! You have been a busy boy!

You don’t get it! Why do you think you are alone now? I’ll tell you. It is because you wouldn’t know the truth if it fell on your head! You throw around words like “completely honest and open”, please, you are full of it! “My dreams might not come true”, no they won’t because all you do is LIE! Don’t you see, you LOST EVERY ONE OF US because you couldn’t and didn’t tell the TRUTH! NONE of us want anything to do with you…so stop sending emails, messages, and calling…we aint interested! And now, your lies have come back to bite you in your ###! Difficult for YOU to trust people, dear, it is the other way around!

And you need to stop lying about going to church and catching’ the Holy Sprit! Don’t lie about having a relationship with God! You are playing with fire there and if you continue, not only will you be playing with it but burning in it for eternity! Don’t lie about GOD! Don’t!

You are not missing your heart…you can’t miss what you never had!

Please seek some professional help! You need to talk to someone that can help you get to the bottom of your self loathing and dishonesty with yourself and everyone around you! And while you are at it, go see a dentist, because your breath, DAM it could wake the dead!

Signed,
All the women you have lied to!
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So ladies, take heed! If you are approached by this Casanova on Facebook (he trolls it for single women) or any other online site, you have been warned and made aware of this playboy's lines!

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Update by anonymous
May 20, 2009 9:05 pm EDT

Looks like outing cheaters is in...read on...damn Gabby, u r almost as bad as LB!

I am happily married to a pretty famous athlete and I am quite successful myself. I have known Gabrielle for probably as long as I’ve known my husband. I often heard disgusting rumors about her, but dismissed them. I am not one to get caught up in gossip, as my husband and I are often subjected to it ourselves. In any case, the rumors would not even affect me if they were true, as long as they had nothing to do with me. I have heard about Gabrielle being very promiscuous, but that never bothered me. She was always very pleasant when I came into contact with her and that’s all that mattered. She seemed to be working hard at her “success” and I respect ambition. Rumors flooded even throughout her marriage with Chris. Her affairs with so many…young, old, married, divorced…were no secrets. Boris, Darren, Jason, Derek, Jamie, Hill, Ludacris and the list CONTINUES!

Again, it had no affect on me. I certainly did not agree that she was the mistress to several married men, but it was not
my life. I felt as though Gabrielle was searching for something she would never find and I often felt sorry for her. Two years ago, while attending the NBA All-Star Weekend in Las Vegas with my husband, I ran into Gabrielle there as well. At this time, she was telling me about a man she had been interested in, but i didn’t pay much attention to it. About a week later, I heard a rumor that she was romantically involved with Dwyane Wade that same weekend (while might i add, his wife was there). What I found ironic was that…Dwyane was not who she had been telling me about. Again, I let it slide.

For the following year, Gabrielle continued to do as she pleased, I saw her on several occasions with a variety of different men. The rumor of her and Dwyane continued as well. This past year, the news seemed to be that Gabrielle and Dwyane were officially a couple. Although I knew in my mind that Gabrielle was not settled in this supposed “relationship” with a man who is a decade her junior, it was not my concern. I no longer felt sorry for her, but rather for Dwyane. He seems to not know any better. I can understand that he is newly single and is more than likely exploring his options. But to hear that he has assumed Gabrielle as his girlfriend disappoints me. I have met Dwyane a few times as well through my husband and he seems like a true gentlemen, someone with traditional values…but who has become caught up in the “celebrity world”.

The reason for my article is not because I am thaaat concerned with Gabrielle or Dwyane or anyone else mentioned here. The reason for this is because Gabrielle has now gone too far. She has approached MY husband. Over the past 2 weeks, I have found SEVERAL emails from Ms.Gabby. When does this woman stop? Although my husband is not innocent, as he did give Gabrielle his email address and phone number, he was smarter than to engage in her UNACCEPTABLE behavior. This is a woman whom I know, and have spent time around. I cannot grasp what goes on in her mind. I asked my husband why he was not inclined to be drawn in by Gabrielle and he gave me an honest answer, he said “she’s DANGEROUS”. When will this woman stop? To me, she seems to have Dwyane fooled…so why not continue to fool him and leave other women’s men alone. At almost 40, it is revolting to be acting as a 20 year old. Someone help her please. I will post this article AS MANY PLACES as I can to ensure that women (especially those with rich and famous men) are aware of this woman. I hope no other man or woman has to fall victim to Ms. Gabrielle Union.

Damn, Gabby.

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scambuster
San Diego, US
May 15, 2009 11:45 am EDT

To members of this "13" or whatever it's called, I'm sorry about your hurts but you all sound like a bunch of desperate women who got played and are now crying over spilt milk. Its not like he put a ring on your ring finger and then left you! If that was the case I'd totally understand and be on your side, but all he did was talk sweet nonsense to you and he had you swooning. Maybe he really was trying to build something with you. And shame to your nivea because you got played over the web... meaning you had no physical contact and you fell in love with him? Ok seriously ladies, you need to grow up and get wise. Nothing personal against an HIV positive person, but if this dude who is HIV positive is sweeping you off your feet, what would a man without HIV do to you? If you cant put your head above your heart in certain decisions, then you are permanently doomed to making bad choices. For all thirteen of you, this has happened in the past (whether in reality or in the virtual world) but you need to let go and move on from this. Coming to bash him on some website does not (and will not) reverse what he did to you. In fact I promise you that its not gonna deter many women from making the same mistakes you made, so in reality while you are actually trying to defame him, you are just enabling his character get more women. Ladies grow up, get a life and get blessed, instead of holding on to past hurts. You are all just better off ignoring him and forgetting about that time in your life when you made an incredible mistake. It happens to even the best of us.

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Azriel
lima, US
May 14, 2009 4:04 pm EDT

here's a question, why are all these women trying to get with a guy who has a transmittable & potentially fatal disease? at least that's the way i am reading this online drama.
not meaning to tick anyone off here. i've been slightly following this. why would you put yourselves at risk? some of you might have kids, did you think of them when trying to get with lb? little bit selfish there folks.
like i said not meaning to piss people off here, but it seems there are a lot of lonely people in the world, why not get with one who won't take your life in their hands when you F**K em?
so, lb is being a male, not a GOOD one, but a male none the less.
ladies! go to school, find some hobbies, learn something new every day/week/ month/year. you REALLY need not allow yourself to be so desperate (that's how it sounds, whether you are or not) for a man. build yourselves up and a GOOD man will come along, when you are ready to accept and give love, he will be there. you will be able to SEE that love. & be in a position to do something positive about it.
Good day all!

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CrabCrab
Toronto, CA
May 14, 2009 3:46 pm EDT

I thought this was a site where you complained about services- although the whole thing has been entertaining. Does this guy have a full time job? I dunno how someone can pull off being so attentive to a girl to make her believe what he said times 13- it's a bit messed me thinks.

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Larry Bryant is the Greatest
Silver Spring, US
May 14, 2009 1:16 pm EDT

Are you ### still sprung from the sweet nothings this stank-breath ### whispered in your ear? Can you ### take a moment to GEAT A LIFE! Missy Islor, you need some dick... actually all of you hoes need some dick... vibrator or otherwise.

So what are you hoes gonna do to pick up the pieces? Larry hasn't thought twice about any of you. To keep this thread going only demonstrates that you ### are crazy as ### and that NO MAN would want you...

Spit, don't swallow!

Your Pimp,
Larry B.

*grabs crotch*

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innocent bystander
Saginaw, US
May 11, 2009 12:07 am EDT

REGARDLESS OF WHO IS SENDING WHAT, WHY IS SO MUCH ENERGY BEING USE ON BASHING LARRY BRYANT? LET GO, AND LET GOD. THIS IS CRAZY. IF YOU GOT PLAYED, YOU WERE CAUGHT SLIPPING. STEP YOUR GAME UP. IF YOU ARE DEFENDING HIM, WHY? LADIES, LET IT GO.

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missyislor
DC, US
May 10, 2009 4:59 pm EDT
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LOL...read your own posts.

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superman
funcity, US
May 10, 2009 3:32 pm EDT

Thanks Chesnee I don't need anyone defending me. I know the deal and this tricks knows also. It's it funny she name the same I did when I accuse of being the same. You think the it calling hisself mike remembers that from reading. I don't thinks so.

I can still get up in the morning, look in the mirror and love myself. Can you say that? I'm not your fight remember, but I can give you one better than anyone. I have proven that. Now I must go, but you know I will be back.

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chesnee
, US
May 10, 2009 3:26 pm EDT
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Wow! What is your point Mike? Why are you on Notahater case? She isn't the only one who don't agree with this complaint. You are only doing what she has done, but you chose to knock her for doing it. She maybe rude, but she has made points that make you question some of the things said. You are wrong for going at her like that. Like she said, unless you are one of the same posting, why do you care what she has to say.

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superman
funcity, US
May 10, 2009 3:19 pm EDT

If you had a dick to suck. Get your mama off of it and you might have a chance. Why would I be embarrassed? Who knows me? I could be anyone, your dumb ### the one getting angry. I'm fine! Why are you even posting, unless you are you know who. You are proving my point and I'm here to tell you stupid each time, now eat ### and die ###...

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Mike Jones
Brooklyn, US
May 10, 2009 3:12 pm EDT

Post all day, all night, say whatever you want...free country and PURE COMEDY! POST ON ANGRY, HATER!

Thats ALWAYS your answer when someone doesnt agree with you-"we are all the same person posting"! Is that the best you can do when someone calls you out for being a complete idiot? So I guess, Missy, Anon, Nivea and anyone else that thinks you are ignorant, angry and an embarrassment, is the same person. I would tell you to suck my D$$K, but I might catch something from that mouth (LOL)

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superman
funcity, US
May 10, 2009 2:27 pm EDT

Look ### hole, like I said before I have every right to write what I want. Just like you did. If you felt that way why did you have to say anything to me. Just read and move the ### on, but you are one of the same that has been posting. Until you are able to find me and stop me from posting what I want, I suggest you keep your comments to yourself because you are wasting your time. Now ### off again!

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Mike Jones
Brooklyn, US
May 10, 2009 1:26 pm EDT

From your anger and words, I thought you WERE BORED A LONG TIME AGO! Oh and I would pass on kissing your ### as it is probably as filthy as your mouth (lol) Oh, yeah laughing at you must mean I'm stupid...how generic are you? (lol)

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superman
funcity, US
May 10, 2009 9:38 am EDT

It's my right and I will continue until im bored with this and you can't do a damn thing about it. Who cares that you are laughing thats my plan because you are stupid. So laugh away and kiss my ### while you are at it.

I don't care about any of you, so please stoping wasting your time with your comments Missy.

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Mike Jones
Brooklyn, US
May 10, 2009 8:26 am EDT

this is some good stuff! Ladies, can I have the rights to it so i can put it in a book? No offense, but notahater, you do need help! You are being so hateful and the ones you are being ugly to are LAUGHING AT YOU as you get all bent...chill! But I must admit, your blatant rudeness is pure comedy! I'm laughing at you too (LOL)

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superman
funcity, US
May 09, 2009 10:49 pm EDT

### you need the therapy and I don't have to know your ### to dislike you. Hell I never met George Bush and I don't like him either. If it's not that serious why do you keep responding and making up lies... dog.

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missyislor
DC, US
May 09, 2009 6:15 pm EDT
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LOL@notahater...it's not that serious...relax...relax...
I agree notahater does need therapy to have so much hate and dislike for someone she's never met.

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superman
funcity, US
May 09, 2009 1:42 pm EDT

I typed that on the run, but i'm sure you can figure out what I was saying. But for those who can't figure it out. I meant to say that I wish someone would post her picture up so I can warn men to stay away from her.

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superman
funcity, US
May 09, 2009 12:14 pm EDT

Honey I have told Missy all that before. I just wish someone who post her picture up so when call tell all the men to stay away from here. She is the one that started the whole mess. I bet she look like the bottom of my shoe. I know that wasn't nice, but I don't like that chick.

Really all she wants is for us to keep posting so when you search Larry's name it will come up. So if anyone knows this trick, please send me her picture. I can do some real damage.

This isn't even about Larry anymore!

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wow
Maryland Line, US
May 09, 2009 10:27 am EDT

Checking the complaints and came across this entertainment. Bottom line: I cannot believe that 8, 9, 11 or 13 ladies are that gullible/pressed for a man that they had minimal contact with-- would post it on all these sites. Some may have supported it at first then went on with their lives and chalked it up as a learning experience and THE INTERNET FANTASIES. For those of you who are still hanging around and obsessed with getting back at this man, as a woman, you are making women look bad, gullible, stupid, naive and pressed. I don't need your warning because I'm not that gullible and if I were, I would not be letting everyone know about it on the internet. It seems that women are coming out of the woodwork all of a sudden--that is worth questioning if the author is trying to counter those that don't agree with their approach by showing they are not the only ones and posting more complaints to make him look bad.

As far as him being HIV+, you all knew it and that's what pulled at your heart strings and didn't stop you so that is a mute point. I wonder if he was not handsome would he be getting all this attention or your hearts. Yes, women are caring but we are not stupid and have a good "gut feeling" when it comes to men. And those of you who indicate that he may intentionally be involved in risky behavior and put people at risk, need to stop unless they are HIV+. From the comments, some women are praising him for being responsible and not putting them at risk. He does use his knowlege to have safe encounters--that's probably the reason why he likes internet relationships because they don't have to involve contact. Be thankful that he is not like all the other guys on the internet that what to meet and have sex with you and don't know what they have. I'd rather know LB because you know what you are getting up front. These other men have not been tested and are the real dangers.

On another note: What kind of idiot would post this man's address? I hope if he gets unwanted contact, that he will get legal advice to file a real complaint against you. Your actions are more dangerous than his. You should go to all the sites and take his personal info off of there...or you will reap what you sow. Oh, and BTW, before you say this person doesn't know anything about our situation, I have met Larry and he is nothing like you describe...he may have social development issues and still boyish...so he dates multiple women...you said you wanted a choice. He gave you a choice...to allow his behavior or not...don't blame him because you didn't know the right time to make the choice and got mad and petty, childish, ignorant...I know more COMEDY...just hope you are still laughing at the end of all this nonsense. Get therapy, Get a man or Just get off the internet!

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superman
funcity, US
May 09, 2009 2:27 am EDT

Psssssst, you couldn't come up with anything better than that, you need to shut the hell up! Weak ###!

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Azriel
lima, US
May 08, 2009 11:10 pm EDT

what makes you ladies think tangy isn't L.B. getting his nut off by the agony he has and is putting you all through? or perhaps, this is one of the new women he's mind ###ing now & she's bought it hook line & sinker.
by the way, anyone notice his initials are the symbol for "WEIGHT"! as in drag ya down?

ladies? i hope you all heal from this and love again!

Peace, Love & light !

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nivea
washington dc, US
May 08, 2009 10:04 pm EDT

Yeah, ok notaHATER! There is a comedy club in Laurel MD...LMBAO!

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superman
funcity, US
May 08, 2009 5:27 pm EDT

See just like I thought. GUILTY, GUILTY

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missyislor
DC, US
May 08, 2009 4:09 pm EDT
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lol...this is too much...pure comedy!

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superman
funcity, US
May 08, 2009 2:58 pm EDT

I know this hefner isn't trying to call me out. First of all that hateration wasn't funny the first time you said it, but I let it side because you are simple minded. For the last time what reason would I have to post under a different name. I don't know Larry and don't care if he done what was said. If your stupid ### would read what I said you would know that by now.

Yes I do believe Missy is behind all of this. And she knows I know it. You aren't going to change my mind so there isnt really a need to try. You said you wasnt going to post anymore then stop. But what you meant is that you wasn't going to post under Ann. You are the one changing up names because you are the only one that has a reason to do so.

I just don't agree with what you done or has said, who cares how many women Larry has or had. This whole complaint was stupid and you know it. Stop the madness girl. You know I know the deal, we have talked on different sites. Some of you may not know that.

So why all of the the sudden Nivea is posting, because she is Ann, anon, anonymous, Missy and the rest of the sad women who are upset because this man lied to them. Seek help because you really need it. See she keeps telling you to go to facebook page that Missy created with just names and no photos that she could have made up to. Now its only 9 first it was 13. lol Why are you trying to make everyone hate Larry? Just because your experience wasn't great doesn't mean the next person will be the same. HE DIDN'T WANT ANY OF YOU! Can you not find someone else and move on? This has to be getting to you by now. Damn I'm starting to feel sorry for you. NOT ### YOU!

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nivea
washington dc, US
May 08, 2009 2:10 pm EDT

Chesnee,
I, yes me Nivea, posted under your name to prove a point. And that is that all the non-believers are quick to jump and say Missy Islor (and all the other women are one person), or that all the posts against Larry are from one person, or anyone posting an opinion not in favor of LB is one person using various names! etc. You see, in this case too, your snap judgement is WRONG!

All of you who want to blame one person or say one person is signing in under different names have alot to say on this board! But I find it rather funny when you were told to go to the Facebook page were SEVERAL of our names/pics are posted, you are then unable to ignore/deny our exisitence!

WE ARE REAL, WE ARE NOT ONE PERSON! Come to the page, (Miss Islor on FB read our stories, and then deny WE are REAL! There are 9 of us there...DENY THAT!

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chesnee
, US
May 08, 2009 1:02 pm EDT
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Why did you sign in under Chesnee? If you had been honest up front maybe someone would feel sorry for you. I think you are the childish one.

Sign in under your true name or quit posting because your little complaint has backfire on you.

Just like its been said before, Missy is now posting under my name now. This is the person that some of you chose to believe. She couldn't tell me the sky is blue.

Signed the real Chesnee

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chesnee
Annapolis, US
May 08, 2009 12:32 pm EDT

It is clear that few of us know the real deal...we have had relations/relationships with larry bryant. Those of you who dont know him on a romantic level (or know him at all) should feel free to voice your opinions, but please know you are removing all doubt about your ignornace!

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chesnee
, US
May 08, 2009 10:48 am EDT
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Ann why are you upset with Notahater and Tangy, I'm the one who made the comment. I thought this was about Larry Bryant not people who has a right to their own opinions.

Now I am using Chesnee name, this is his girlfriend. Am I going to get cussed out too.

This really need to stop.

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tangy
, US
May 08, 2009 9:54 am EDT

Oh by the way, you will never be like me your jokes are lame and boring. Not to mention corny.

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tangy
, US
May 08, 2009 9:53 am EDT

Honey I'm far from upset. I'm not the one online crying because I can't get a man...a man that's HIV positive for that matter. Actually i'm laughing at you Missy. Not only did Larry do you wrong, you got people on the internet telling you how stupid you are. So deary wipes your eyes and get a life, my coffee is getting cold.

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msann
Acworth, US
May 08, 2009 9:39 am EDT

aaawwww! What da matter with da baby? Are you upset? You got a man but you're THIS upset? About a man you say you know nothing about, with people you don't know, never seen, never will see, wouldn't know them if you did see them and you're this upset?
Little girl how old are you? Bout 15? Learning how to use all the new cuss words you just heard? Does your mommy know you're playing on her computer? You better stop before she takes your cell phone. You don't want to miss a booty call with the man who won't be seen in daylight with you.

My self esteem is great. WWWAAAAAAY better than yours. Your anger proves it's in the toilet and getting screwed in the middle of the night isn't helping it any. You know there are names for women like you sneaking into a man's job and screwing him in the hallways, closets, and stinky bathrooms, back door hoe, tramp, skank, dirty leg...you probably shouldn't brag about that. I mean you really think you got something special. lol. wow.

And no I haven't responded to everything you have posted. That's what you and your shadow have been doing? Where is hateration this morning? You haven't given her permission to log on yet? You won't even see me on here again because unlike you, I actually have A LIFE.

Now stop getting so worked up over things and people that have NOTHING to do with you. Which is another sign of EXTREMELY LOW SELF ESTEEM. YOU HAVE TO MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU, PLACE YOURSELF IN THE MIDDLE OF EVERYTHING BECAUSE YOU FEEL INVISIBLE. EVEN AFTER GETTING SCREWED UP THE BUTT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT.

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tangy
, US
May 08, 2009 6:26 am EDT

You are so funny don't quit your day job. Like I told you before I have no reason to lie to anybody that has posted on this site. I don't know any of you. But on the other hand Ann do. If i'm a stupid fool then you are sitting right beside because you seem to comment on everything I said. What I have to say to you once again is to kiss my ###. Stop posting your lies. Larry didn't want you and you can't be mad at me for finding your pittyful ### out.

As for having a man, I wouldn't have made the statement if I didn't. You are the one thats bitter, you are the one online complainting that this man lied to you. How can you talk about anyone? How do you feel when you look into the mirror knowing that your ugly ### couldn't get or keep a man that is HIV positive? I know that was a big hit to your self esteem. You are a sad, poor excuse for a woman. Pick your bottom lip up and get a ###ing life ###.

As far as having a booty call, hell yeah I have them, but with my man. See he work nights and I have been known to meet him at his job ###. NOW WHAT! lol

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msann
Acworth, US
May 08, 2009 12:57 am EDT

no these stories are not made up. If anybody is logging on as different people it's tangerine and hateration, fool and fool.

all these stories just prove how long he's been doing this. the women who started this post have probably stopped because of the UTTER STUPIDITY of some of the people who have made it all about them and how evil they can be. there is no use in continuing to argue with a fool cause when you get done the fool is still a fool.

Tangerine no you didn't say one day you'll tell somebody how to get a man and keep one! So what you saying? One of these days you think you gonna get a man? Like I thought you're alone and bitter and mad at the world cause nobody wants you, probably except for an occasional booty call.

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chesnee
, US
May 07, 2009 9:45 pm EDT
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Isn't it funny that all these old loves of Larry's is coming out. Why would they just all of a sudden decide to do a search of him? It's also funny that the person that started the complaint has stopped posting. The stories they are telling are all the same, different dates and when it was mention that he hasn't slept with anyone, bam all of sudden another sappy stories saying they slept with him without protection. If my memory serves me correctly he found out that he was positive about 22 or 23 years ago. I'm not going back to look it up because I believe this is another lie.

Nice try but these stories are all made up by the person who started this whole thing. You should be ashame of yourself and you are going to hell.

She will do anything to keep this story going and for what.

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WISE ONE
Virginia Beach, US
May 07, 2009 4:30 pm EDT

If you've never encountered or had an experience with LB, your comments, opinions, name calling, etc...are irrelevent! I've known him for 22 yrs. and unfortunately, he never disclosed his status prior to our years of intimacy. Thankfully, God saw fit to spare me from contracting HIV because there were many instances where protection was not used.

I too found out about his status on the internet and was devastated because even though years had passed and several negative aids tests later, the thought that I could have been a part of the statistics of African American women with HIV/AIDS pissed me off.

My first thought was to find him, and hurt him physically the way I was hurting at the time but he isn't worth me spending the rest of my life in jail. I contacted him and he never acknowledged anything that I said. Even 3 yrs later, nothing!

The bottom line ladies is this...LET GO AND LET GOD! Be thankful that you haven't given him the most precious gift we can ever give a man. Everything that he's sown, he will reap. There's no greater revenge we can administer that will compare to what God has in store for him.

LB is empty inside and incapable of having any real emotions or feelings toward anyone including himself. He's getting off on all the attention he's generating on this and other websites dedicated to "putting him on blast". Ladies, don't be so consumed with hate that it's the fuel that gets you up in the morning and helps you make it through the day because you're more of a detriment to yourself than to him.

Your best revenge is to make better choices before getting involved with someone and for goodness sake, do your research. Most importantly, understand that it's not a relationship if it only exists online. Being gullible and naive' is unexceptable. Don't let the smooth taste fool you, there are some wolves out there and will continue to prey on unsuspecting woman but they can only succeed if you let them.

Pray for guidance and the ability to discern a person's character. All men aren't this way, there are some good brothers out there that respect and protect but again, you have to know what to look for. If it's too good to be true, then it is. The signs and red flags are there. PAY ATTENTION.

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superman
funcity, US
May 05, 2009 5:57 pm EDT

No JJ, what's funny about the whole thing is he didn't sleep with any of them. They were living in fantasy land. They thought they were going to land this handsome man and keep him because he was hiv positive. Never thought he would be a player just like most men. LOL

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Navy
brussel, US
May 05, 2009 5:03 pm EDT
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My comment was based on what you said, but it was a general comment to everyone. Knowing what you know now, it shouldn't have been made because negativity draws more negativity. Surely you have learn that in your sorority group. But this is about Larry and I'm not going back forth with you or anyone else.

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knubia
Charlotte, US
May 05, 2009 3:28 pm EDT

Unfortunately, prior to Larry, I didn't "know" anyone with HIV/AIDS. So, like most people who are ignorant about certain things, we make bad choices. No, Larry did not tell me initially and after 4/5 years I found out via the web. And even then, I traveled to TX, and DC to keep whatever we had -going. No he did not have to tell me as long as he was not putting me in danger but in "relationships" platonic or otherwise honesty is considered a good thing. Larry did not do anything to me that I did not allow and at this point in my life, he is respected for his hard work for those living with HIV/AIDS. This experience taught me great things, yet it is still my choice not to knowingly date anyone with a disease such as HIV/AIDS or herpes. I am a sexual person who practice safe sex and anyone that I date knows upfront about my past experience and my fear about intimacy prior to being tested. In addition, I am not as desperate to be in a relationship so yes, I take more time to get to know the men I date, and when the red flags go up, I now refuse to ignore them.
And Navy, for the record, My sorority is involved in HIV/AIDS prevention because I just happen to be a part of the community/group most affected.

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Navy
brussel, US
May 05, 2009 1:21 pm EDT
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There's no need to run from anyone who has HIV. It's unfortunate that this happen to him or anyone for that matter. It could happen to any of us, just feel lucky that it hasn't. Larry is to be commended for not spreading the disease and that's why I love him to this day. He doesn't have to tell his status, if he isn't sleeping with anyone and apparently he hasn't slept with anyone that has posted on this site. There are some people who would have slept with you and didn't tell you anything. Unless you are having unprotected sex or sharing needles with a HIV infected person, there isn't anything you have to worry about. You wouldn't want anyone running from you or someone that you loved. It's time for simple minded people to grow up. There more things you need to be worrying about.