Surgeon fakhr Alkhairy / Botch surgery!
I have gone through the reply of the Surgeon, but instead of containing himself to the medical/surgical matters, he has made this a classical mix-up of lies, hear says, imaginations, tell tales and fibber stories. I can assume his problem, since he has nothing to say or explain so he has to rely on such fictitious and self made contentions. He has typed his designations and details of his association and the past history in about a whole page which itself explains his mental level as no one was asking about his qualifications here. The EMPTY DRUM always makes much noise. (pardon me for this). Also plz. forgive me if I happen to use some wrong medical words as I have no command over medical terminology and some times I mix-up wrinkles and fine lines.
First of all I have to clarify here that it’s totally false and an open lie that it was a mini face lift. In fact the 1st surgery was a complete face lift which included the full face procedure, an eyelid surgery (both upper and lower) and a liposuction of neck,( which I mostly call under-chin ). This surgery took more than 8 hours to complete and yet the surgeon calls it a mini face lift. How dare he is with his lies. The minor nose job was a part of the deal but since it was not possible to do it along with the aforesaid lengthy procedure so the surgeon himself suggested to get it done at some other time so getting it done does not mean that it was the sign of confidence in him, or in any way I was happy with his work. At the time of nose job still the swelling was existent all over my face and could not ### the result of his surgery.
At the time of 1st surgery the surgeon had promised that if any thing wrong happened, he will be responsible to correct it on his own without any further fees. Moreover it was a strange notion on the part of the surgeon that when I showed him some fine lines in my eye circle he suggested an eyelid surgery and as at the time I had no knowledge about the cosmetic surgery procedures and also about the tricks and gaming of the surgeons in this field so innocently accepted his advice . Nothing has changed and all the fine lines in eye circles are existent. Now after browsing many sites on the internet I have got some knowledge and can reveal the facts out. So before this I was like a blind man having my hands on his shoulder and following his foot-steps, However after the swelling subsided I noticed that my under-chin had became uneven and wavy, the lines along nose and mouth which were the main cause of my motivation for cosmetic surgery, had got no change and they existed with full force so I started showing my dismay and concern and on this he gave the explanation that since the fat was not removed from the lines , it gave no results. For uneven under-chin he explained that by the passage of time it will become smooth and leveled, which it didn’t till yet. I was shocked to know that as it was the duty of the surgeon to assess it prior to conducting the surgery but since a good and friendly relationship was eventually developed so I did not gave much stress on the matter and once gain left the things on his mercy. He suggested that he will conduct another surgery which will be done in 2 steps. As a 1st step he will do liposuction of face to remove excess fat from the lines and required areas and after few weeks he will conduct a face surgery. On my inquiry he asked me to pay a certain amount which I paid and this was the normal fees which usually surgeons charge and not a meager amount as narrated by him.
It is also absurd that there was a big gap between these 2 surgeries. The 1st surgery was conducted in Oct. 2003 and the controversy started in April – May 2004 when the swelling subsided and picture became clear. The liposuction was conducted in June/July2004 and subsequently the Surgery was conducted in the end of the year as I had gone abroad with that lumpy and wavy under- chin and a lot of cross lines all over my face as a product of that devastating LIPOSUCTION OF FACE. In less than an year the procedure started and he narrates that there was a big gap in 2 surgeries. The details of liposuction of face is itself an eye opening story, as for removing fat from the lines along nose he pierced a thick needle on one side of face from the jaw line to close to eye circle and little away from the nose line and extracted fat and on the other side of face did same but put his needle from the middle of the face. In both cases he didn’t touch the nose line so the result was obvious, The lines remained unchanged and depressions appeared in adjoining areas. Result was total disaster of my face, uneven, wavy and full of cross lines and so a base for a 3rd surgery. One can see the marks of his thick needle still visible on my face which he called a DIMPLE. Later he admitted that since he had not thin needles available at that time so uncontrolled fat was removed. He when visiting INDIA brought some thin needles from there and showed me. It means , he used thick needles meant for liposuction of stomach or neck ( under – chin ) into my face and ruined it all. Now by browsing I know that to remove fat from lines along nose and mouth a puncture ( incision ) is made right into the line and fat is removed but my surgeon did it in a strange way by putting 12 size(NO:) needle into my POOR FACE pushing it from bottom to top. Lolz.
After my return I became busy with my left over works and had not enough time to spare for the surgery. However when I got some time may be in Dec. 2004 I got the surgery conducted but as usual there was not a slightest change or improvement but contrary to it all the face remained uneven and wavy. Big spots of depressions spread all over my face. It is imperative to tell the fact here that on my 1st visit to the surgeon, he asked me if I was using any anti wrinkle cream? On my reply that I never used it , he was surprised and said that since my face was wrinkle free so he thought, I was using some kind of cream.
Very much concerned over the destruction of my whole face I consulted another cosmetic surgeon, without revealing the identity of my surgeon and he advised me to get the depressions filled with the filler. He asked me to bring the filler and he will fill it on a very nominal cost. When I laid much stress over my surgeon to undo the depressions he asked me for a huge amount and if I bring the filler than what he asked was 5 times more than that the other surgeon asked. So this is the kind of GENORICITY , my surgeon showed. Strange of all its like, a thief steals away some one’s belongings and asks him to purchase it from him on a high cost. What a level of morals and ethnicity.
I usually oblige and share my friends and relatives with sea foods prawns etc. which I get easily being in this business. It is our tradition and I m proud of it, so was the case of this surgeon, which he calls now a bribe. On the 1st day when we were mostly strangers and had only patient/client V/S surgeon , relationship, when I reached his clinic for surgery, I paid him his fees with it a handsome quantity of jumbo prawns. Did he return back some amount out of his fees to me as I gave him the prawns? Can one imagine, what he is uttering? It was just a gesture of good will and he did not refrain to even twist this as well.
I will paste the text of my letter handed over in his clinic and also later emailed him which will reveal all the story but here I give reply of some of his lies and fibber stories. It’s a bold lie that there are 2 very small areas which are lumpy, in fact that small areas are 4inch long and one and half inc wide, on right side of face starting from jaw line and reaching the mid ear, covering almost 2/3 of the whole face. On left its smaller but made the whole face uneven. Besides, above and below the bumps there are patches of depressions and small bumps. This is the kind of surgery this mega surgeon does. A normal smooth face has been turned into patches of ups n downs. He had applied the mentioned medicine Kenacort, well after 3rd surgery as these bumps are the product of his fantastic muscle tightening 3rd face lift surgery, but it didn’t work so this time I told him that this was not the solution as it has already been tried , and on this he became angry and slipped away from his clinic.
I went to his clinic after 4--5 days of 4th surgery and the bumps were created an year before so there is no question of raising this reason, besides I removed the bandage when reached his clinic. It will be a great help if he posts photos on the website and if he don’t I will be doing the same or may be I will get a website developed with all the Pre/post surgery pics. with a full version of story.
Don’t know how he assumed I am disturbed person, I m happily living, traveling to lots of countries every year . The letter which he quoted with the words of asking him to correct the things. It shows that I am a reasonable person and adhered to give decency a chance to resolve any problem or dispute and avoid violence . I f I asked him to correct the things, it means he had done something wrong or error so he was bound to correct it. I was not asking him to do me a favor or alter or further improve my looks. Every one knows what the word CORRECT means. It means to undo the mistakes and errors previously done.
Its shameful on his part that he claims to ban my entry in his clinic. As a matter of fact I hardly saw him busy. Only very little that he had some job or some patients on wait otherwise Mostly I found him sitting alone in his room playing with his computer and watching his own websites. When ever I visited him he never let me go till the time of his leaving the clinic. Yes when I got serious and fed up with his day to day change of words and slipping away from his commitments, he started getting annoyed. After the 4th surgery may be on 12th July 2007 when I got there for removal of the stitches I once again showed him the bumps and he injected the medicine Kenacort, I then reminded him that this medicine he used last year as well after 3rd surgery which resulted into these bumps, but it didn’t work, on this he became angry and left the room leaving me there. I had to wait for a while after the injection so after few minutes when I came back to have a final talk with him I came to know that he had slipped away. I had a memo to deliver to him but in his absence had to deliver it to his staff, later a copy was e mailed to him. So there is no such instance of banning me, may be in his dreams he may have done it. Contrary to it he himself slipped away from the scene and now from this text I came to know that I had been banned. He He. Yes I called him before signing an affidavit of my plaint and told him what I was going to do as I feel it’s a decent way to give the rival party an option to redress the grievances before loading the guns, but sorry to say that he was unable to realize the grim situation leading to the open controversy which could give him nothing but a bad name and spoiled reputation.
It was a funny thing that when he saw that he could not deliver me the results, he stated saying why I give so much importance to my appearance and I should not see the mirror too much. He He. Now he is mentioning some kind of psychic condition in which one looses his confidence and never is satisfied with his looks. If this was the case why he was conducting the surgery every year? Why he didn’t kick me out of his hospital knowingly, I was not a real patient? When he was grabbing money out of me I was ok and healthy but when insisted for the delivery of results its unhealthy. What kind of hypocrite he is? He is preaching , not to give that much importance to the looks and yet himself has got hair transplant over his half moon( empty scalp) recently. Couldn’t he live without his grass? These surgeons are living luxurious life thanks to my kind of patients other wise they could be worth nothing. He should have taken into consideration the risk that we ppl take. It may be the life itself, an injury to any nerve, resulting of disability, the pain and discomfort on the operation table, the time of healing, staying away from all usual activities and the money that they get out of us and if they don’t deliver or even destroy the whole field on which they have to play, what should be done to them? Still there is lot of stages and I am committed to go to the last stage. May be I will get a website with all the facts and will meet the other ppl. and victims not only from this surgeon but others as well and post all the stories in that website besides the legal steps. Posters and handbills are also under consideration besides the emails to 100s of recipients related to this profession. Media could also be involved if the medical council failed to make justice.
He has shown his so called generosity to take me back if I Bribe him again with Jumbo prawns. Seems funny and enjoying the game , but if he has really come out of the state of selfishness, humiliation, and tricks, may be it can ease the situation, but if still it’s a melodrama, it won’t benefit him, that I assure. Time is running out and soon we r going to stand side by side arguing against each other so if he wants to redress the grievances he should take the 1st step as I already have done it in the near past. TOO BIG A STORY NOW AND STILL FEW PAGES OF MY MEMO? If I go to details it will cover a 100 pages lolz. Oh one thing I forgot to tell, on the 1st surgery he placed my earlobe twisted and bent up and when ever it was pointed out, he just ignored and said it was ok later during his 3rd surgery he made it a little straight and then he said “look I have done it well”. It still little twisted still though he tried it more in the 4th surgery, but as he is not a real cosmetic surgeon, he cant do it. May god help bald ppl. as now he has started transplanting hair to bald ppl like himself without a proper experience.