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This seems to be very common in IL. an emt worker called dcfs infront of me while my baby had an emergency and almost died, before the truck started moving, only to cover their tracks because they showed up an almost an hour late in a small town. 85%white and she racial profiled me when she called. it's these so- called professionals with government jobs reporting innocent parents calling for help and taking advantage at most vulnerable moments. Emergency calls to the paramedics...calling the police for about other situations such as domestic violence...because it's the easiest way to get information out of the victim and twist up words, and report it to DCFS, and what does DCFS do...believe them all because they are professionals, but they only take the case if it sounds easy. They never respond to real child abuse cases, or cases where a child is neglected...and it's a service...tell me why when they walk in on neglect cases...they never ask how? they just take the child...if it was a "CHILDREN AND FAMILY SERVICE" they would have things to offer before removing the child, maybe the parents lost their job and they need financial assistance, maybe they've applied and they're working slow, or maybe they have a job and get welfare or food stamps...but it's not enough because they count how much you get, not how many bills you have to pay, are they going to make things go faster or tell your job to give you a raise or the welfare office to increase the amount? No, but they really need to analyze the situations, and with all of the funding they're getting why don't they help these families with whatever needs they have, instead of separating and tearing families apart. In the end it's a business...babies are highly adoptable and there are people who adopt and take in foster kids and teens to medicate them get money from being a foster parent or get social security for them and use them for the check.
I'm not from IL so I was taken advantage of by medical, emt workers and DCFS. I no longer live in IL, they lied and said they sent out a letter to me to appeal the decision of abuse and neglect and never did. They should be shut down, for good, they're not helping they're only destroying and it's constitutionally wrong.
here is a link http://www.thebabyfold.org/justfixit/
Illinois dcfs needs to really get all their facts straight before they think about allowing a child to be in contact with grandparents that are child abusers, and liars. Even go so far as to brainwash the teenage parents to go along with them . Investigator and supervisors (you know who you are) beware of those forthcoming with multiple friends that will say anything that make them look good in the eyes of the system..
DCFS is so crooked it's not funny. They showed up at my house with police demanding to go thru my home. I told the worker if I could go thru her home first then she could go thru mine. Of course that didn't work and she said she was taking my children for not cooperating, Thank god, I got a hold of an attorney and he put her in her place, cost me $5000.00, and she had to leave and everything was unfounded. Now their back charging me with medical neglect, because my daughter was hospitalized and they wanted to put her in an institution that she had already been in and with whom I filed a grievance agaInst the nurses for standing the girls in a line and saying it smelled like vagina and whoever smelled would have to shower. HUMILIATING! Needless to say her records disappeared, they say she was never there. She was for 5 days. Don't ever sign anything for DCFS or think they will help because they won't they go home at night and forget about the children they are ripping from families. It's a sick system, full of loop holes so they can keep your children forever.
It's really sad, i just feel bad for all the children and their families who suffer, and all the foster parents who truly care about those kids treating them as their own, doing the least they could by taking the stress and sadness away of them being removed from their parents, then come dcfs out again to find fault in the best foster parents and place them in a more abusive home. just to make a profit. In the end its all about money. just playing with the lives and futures of children. It really hurts me deeply I have stress and panic attacks everytime i hear stories about children dying in peoples care that we trust or being abused and commonly neglected in foster care because they could care less about foster care over load, once kids are removed they place them in whoevers hands they feel like.
We weren't sure what happend until we got to the 2nd hospital who could treat her. All I know is, it was a hot day the day the day before everything happend we went to visit gramma came home when the sun went down, we were up late I had given her a bath that night and turned the baseboard heat on so she wouldnt get cold and I left it on over night. In the morning I saw she looked feverish sweating, with trouble breathing and it looked like she dramatically lost weight, I panicked being a new mom and called 911. I'm not bad mouthing all DCFS or all Emts and healthcare providers nor the police, but all the EMT worker could do is ask me my name then begin to profile me after asking me my name then saying "Im calling DCFS" I'm not from the state so I didnt know who DCFS was at the time I thought it was a hospital I figured maybe she was calling the hospital, because all the other EMT workers were working trying to figure out where to take her because there were no children's hospitals in my town, so at first it didn't phase me "But as she began talking she began to speak as if she had something personal against me, saying "This baby appears to be neglected" African American Mother"I don't believe she had food" She looks starved" "She's just skin and bone" "African American Mother the mother is black african american" "The baby is very pale" "She should have called us sooner". I found it unessesary for her to say those hurtful things infront of me. Im the one who saved my baby's life and she acted as if I was unwelcome to call them, when my baby had an emergency. I'm going to find out her name and press charges for child endangerment because while she was on the phone with DCFS my baby could have passed away I don't care, as a woman and if she was a mother no matter what the situation and no matter what your personal feelings are you do your job as an EMT, You're not a doctor, so stay in your place as an EMT and do your Job, while all she could do is talk on the phone and speak about how there's an african american female in town in which you don't see every day in a majority white small town. In the end my baby had gotten dehydrated and had underlying medical conditions. That we were unaware of, the hospital she was born at was overcrowded and they didn't thoroughly test her thyroid, like they should've. They were so busy I was sharing a room and bathroom with another mom who had an infection. The doctor at the 2nd hospital diagnosed her with a thyroid condition along with dehydration. Where I fault dcfs is that they did nothing in order. Investigate me, find out that, my baby always had food and food was never a problem, they never came to my house, but yet I'm being handed a paper at the hospital while my baby is fighting for her life the first allegation being from them, "Rolling over on her" implying that I don't have a bed for my baby all because someone else who probably was african american they said rolled over on their baby. Then I get handed another paper for" neglect" all of this while I'm hoping and praying for my baby's life, it took all I had being just 6 weeks postpartum at one of the most sensitive moments in my life where my baby is sick naturally blaming myself, and all you can do is play the blame game and toy with me. It took everything deep within me to keep my composure and not make myself into this black person in their imagination and turn it into a nightmare. I had to think about my baby, and they took advantage of the moment. they're not doctors, I don't even know why they were in the room. Where I fault the medical system in northern IL is they put their feelings about racial stereotypes before health and forget what their job description is. When my husband got to the hospital, all they could do is ask him more than once if he's the father, and if he is sure. Then ask him if he is hispanic, like he wasn't allowed to be white along with northern italian and have an african american wife the only way possible is him being possibly hispanic. They kept calling him my baby's father, we said we're married, they call him my boyfriend. Back to DCFS. When they hospital released my daughter and we went home with her. They never stepped foot in my house. They waited until way later, after her visiting nurse came and saw that we left because our baby needed treatment and I wanted a second opinion before giving a baby so young medication and being traumatized by the healthcare system in IL's corruption I wasn't sure, I found her a pediatrician in PA and ended up leaving the same week she was released, leaving everything behind everything. All I did is when I got to pa I called her visitting nurse to let him know we found a different pediatrician for our baby. He called DCFS way after the fact and said we left to avoid medical treatment for our baby? why? They come out Im not home, no door open they begin finishing the report making it as "indicated" for not having food "IN MY HOUSE" when they've never stepped foot inside. they had 30 days to investigate handled it really improperly. they knew I was in PA they should have transferred the case to PA, not open a case in PA when the case is almost closing in IL. Case almost closing and they make it look as if I'm this bad mother opening up a case in PA. PA did a thorough investigation of 60 days, which I commend who was working for them, she did not judge me on my race but around the last days of the investigation and she saw that me not having food for my daughter was all unfounded and IL dcfs had a problem faxing over paperwork to PA, PA found them to be faulty and the socialworker in the end asked me said before she left, she recommends me get a lawyer and expunge myname because she believes it was possibly about race, along with me being married and just me being investigated as if my husband wasnt an involved parent making everything unknown about him. I wrote this report a while back so I was really distressed about everything going on. I don't want to get in any legal trouble, for putting the message out about them but I just want to let people know, this people aren't as caring as they perpetrate putting Department Of Child And Family services, there is something going on, where they're losing money, and they open as many cases as they can, brainwashing medical staff who aren't even the doctor to mandate reports, almost like they're scouting, while they ease their way into trafficking your child into fostercare for profits. I had a gut feeling they had another motive with my infant, they thought because I'm a little bit younger and being not from IL that they could take advantage of me give me enough rope to hang myself with, by me wasting time trying to find a new 2 star credential pediatrician in a small town for my baby, while they tell me they're no longer taking new patients, so it could make their wishes come true of me quote "fleaing to avoid medical treatment for my daughter" so here I am with founded in one state on a registry for 20 years and unfounded in another state with a 60 day investigation apposed to 30 days and never coming in my home. Crooked. I'm starting back to where I left off of months of not being able to fully bond with my first and only baby, months of harrassment, months of stress, months of worrying what they were going to do next. I tried to expunge my name, but i was being told different things and it became too confussing, they judge said if i cant find a lawyer, that they were going to proceed with hearing anyway without me having a lawyer, while dcfs had their big time lawyer, against me. I eventually had to withdraw, my health began deteriorating when the incident occured i was 6 weeks postpartum and never had a 6 week postpartum checkup. I neglected myself in all of this, and began to forget who i am as a person, my dreams of working with children, the passion i had in being a mother, giving our baby that we tried for months to have the world on a silver platter, and i felt like everything i put my heart into was destroyed. I felt like my heart was ripped, then set on fire added with gasoline then put out with water and then being electricuted after all of that. While most postpartum new moms are putting their all into taking care of their baby and their baby being their only worry. I had to deal with missels being fired at me and me with no weapons just trying to protect my baby from this cruel system, while having to go to several appointments in one month, being put to test with overly booked appointments because the hospitals and doctors knew who i was dealing with, and make sure i went to every last appointment while being harrassed and treated like the skum of the earth by doctors. I'm really traumatized and it will be years before I fully recover. I'm just glad my baby is in good health now and I followed my gut instinct, and didn't stick around for the corruption amongst their organized crime, that goes unspoken about and using children as an aliby .
is chronic drug abuse in the home by both parents considered neglect or abuse
DONT LEAVE YOUR BABY IN THE BATHTUB FOR 24 HOURS STRAIGHT WITH YOUR PITBULL WATCHING OVER.