I agree with the others about this being a scam. I have no problem meeting men but I thought that this program would be a good choice because they do background checks and being a professional woman who has been abused in the past, I figured I would give it a shot. I never expected to be put on the spot on my initial meeting to sign up. They won't allow you to go home think about it and come back if interested. I told them I wanted someone who doesn't drink and every one of the guys they matched me up with drank. My last match did the best thing...he called, sent a pic and it was decided by both that there was no real connection. This way, we still get another introduction to someone else. So, if your thinking of trying it...do it that way.