I am in the middle of my 12 matches & I have not actually met any of them yet- the phone calls are useless. The first two did not say more than 5 words in the call & they never asked me any questions at all. The third one turned out not to even match what was in my profile. It is a waste of $3000. How do they actually make these matches, what are their qualifications. How do we know that they are not just opening the phone book?