Craig Nicosia review: This person is a con man 1

My Name is Carri. Someone told me to check this site out and I was shocked to see my name here amongst a listing of so called crimes against other women here who complained about Craig Nicosia. So I am here to set the record straight on my account. Honesty always being the best policy... I am 54 years old and I was nineteen when I met Alvin Hegge. Everything Craig wrote about the man was true and Al will spend the rest of his life in prison. I Thank God that he protected me and my two small children at the time through all of this and gave me the strength to protect my children from alot of the abuse Al centered at us. Going through such extreme abuse during my so called as Craig put it common law marriage, (sadly to say that I thought I had married Al when I gave birth to our daughter but that was a sham marriage that I found out after he was arrested and then children and I were sent from the home to walk into town with the clothes on our backs to start life over) An unbelievable blessing in disguise... God saved us from harm... I have learned that God will always give us as many chances to start over, turn the page in our life, or begin again, if we simple want it, or desire it. My Children are a blessing and grown now, with family and lives of their own. They through love and care over came the fear that their father tried to instill in them, they have forgiven him as I have.. Not for him but for our growth, our healing, and our selfworth, which is so much more then the abuse we went through. I am sadly disappointed in Craig for bringing me into this whole situation. No where until right now Have I said, participated or made comment about him. But He chose to add me to his so called list of women he wants to defame, or slander and turthfully what he has just done to me, is no better then what he is accusing all you women of... Truth? Here is my Truth!
Craig contacted me on MySpace and we started talking, texing and calling... Craig told me many things, which I will not go into detail about. Long story short, very short, He was decent enough to come clean about so much with me and I accepted his apology. It took alot of responsiblity and honesty to do that. And for that I appreciate. After that I never spoke with him again, but I have and still do keep in contact with his daughter, who is a very strong, morally commited young lady who works hard and raises her daughter. Both are well. I have not spoken, nor have I had any contact with Craig since that last communication.
I mean no disrespect to anyone who has been hurt, or felt they were lied to or conned. But I have to say, truthfully, (just as I have to accept responsibility for the choice I made when I was young and was Part of Al's life.) We chose to want to believe. I know what I say is hard to swallow, but alot of times the reason we get so angry is because we allowed it, not intentionally and not looking for it. But honestly, when things start unraveling, or don't add up, we sometimes tend to ignore what is right in front of us, because we want it to work, we think that love will fix it, and we continue until we are left giving up our integrity... I am not here to tell you what you should do... But I am here to tell you that to admit where your head and heart were at the time, to realize that he couldn't have conned all of you women, including me, if we weren't a WILLING participant for love, or what WE wanted love to be, and now that it's over, you are angry at him, but you have forgotten to be angry at yourselves for buying the merchandise he was offering...
I pray for your spirits to fly higher then your need for revenge. I pray that you can forgive what happened so that YOU will find peace and move on with a heart that is stronger. I pray the the lessons learned from this sad situation will find a positive note in your awareness of how smart and strong you women can be in the future. And mostly I pray that you place the past qrief and hurt and (embarrassment) peacefully in the past, lay it to rest, and move forward towards a new start filled with hope... Life is love Ladies, and without Love there is no life... So please Love yourselves! Signed Carri Vibber- DeChenne...
PS... Craig... Hon! Sometimes the best defence is no defencse... I wish you peace