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Every time I see a sight like this I almost want to cry. People do not always realize the kind of extreme poverty these poor Filipino women live under. They end up selling them selves out to a loveless marriage or relationship just to be in a better country, or send money home.
Also if you decide to be a "nice guy" and help someone out like this. You should seriously consider some of the effects and difficulties of your decision.
First as the one bringing this women into the US, this country will require that you provide all she needs for the next 10 years with no expectation of Social Services help. So if you abandon her, she will not get any help from the government, no medicaid if she is pregnant, no food stamps, and no litigation in child support payments.
Second most of the women have never been in the US. They come from a family oriented atmosphere where they learned to live with little materially but great respect from others. Considering the way most of these women come to be here, they hardly end up in a happy marriage.
For the few that do and live happily ever after well then kudos to you! But this for most never end happily, and causes much strife.
I wrote to a total of nine ladies from your service. I received five replies to date and am continuing to correspond with three of them. One of the ladies is becoming very special to me. We are able to correspond via email and this makes it a little easier to get to know each other. In a little over two months we have sent dozens of emails to each other and facetimed. We plan to meet this year. While the distance between the US and the Philippines is great we seem to be getting closer all the time. Thanks for providing an honest service and for delivering on what you promise.
That wasn't helpful information at all. If most girls live in a miserable marriage that's not my plan. I plan to have a happy marriage and they gave me no reason why it wouldn't be. Yes she wants to send money home to help her family I'm good with that. If she's pregnant I take care of the kid until the kid is grown and able to take care of his self. I heard not one valid reason why I should stay away from this site. A matter of fact it encouraged me to get a plane ticket and hit to the Philippines.