what about dead beat moms! / Cassaundra Stevens, aka Casie
Casie Stevens Brought her two children to my husband in Sept. 2006 dropped them off with thier belongings and disappeared. In Nov. my husband gets a phone call from the police saying she attemped suicide and left a note to call him. Now in the state of ohio the woman automatically gets custody. So while he has the children he is also paying her support still. So In Dec. she attempts to contact him only to get mad because he has moved on, but she wants her life back with him and is denied. She seen the children on christmas. And then disappeared for another 3 months. In January My husband filed for custody of the two children. The court date was in May. In May he was ordered temp custody until the final hearing in sept. And she was ordered visitation rights, , well supervised. She showed to every visit over that summer. Then she agreed to give him full custody and drop his child support in return for her not having to pay anything for them. So we took it. And of course she disappeared once again. she would pop back in every so often promising the children she had changed and that she would come regular. Only to disappoint them over and over for the next couple years. In Oct 2007 she stopped coming completely and hasnt been seen since. Now she has a new daughter whom she left with her drug dealer and he hurt the baby and the baby is now brain damaged. its crazy what she has gotten away with. Now we took her for not paying child support and she says she cant pay bc she cant work bc she has a handicap daughter. She tells everyone we wont let her see the children. She even told me to support them since im their mother now. yet she refuses to signover rights. So it can go both ways. MOTHERS can be deadbeats too! And im afraid bc she is a woman they are going to take it easy on her. She has made maybe 3 cs payments in 4 years total ever! She doesnt keep a job, shes always getting evicted. etc... She faces jail time but cries to the judge she has a handicap daughter and cant work. She doesnt even know her childrens ages or bdays. I dont know what is going to happen but we go to court in 2 days, i hope she gets locked up honestly. Bc i think her new baby would be better off, and i know the two we have are better off. But a woman is obligated to pay just like a man. And im hearing more and more about deadbeat moms. And dads who have custody still get treated like dog crap.