dewitt terry salter / Lies, Deception, Deceit
Married three times. Possibly four now??? Lied to each wife about how awful, dishonest, hurtful the one before was. He just needs someone to understand him...his father abandoned him when he was just a child...he's a nice guy...cares about his community...loves his kids even though their "evil" mothers stop them from seeing their father...goes to church every Sunday...takes care of his mother and grandmother...seems great on the surface. And even just below the surface, if you're the type of woman to inquire a little and be cautious when you realize that you're falling in love with him...
Well, those statements above? Those descriptions he gave about his past and current life? One truth, two half-truths…the rest are complete lies. This "Christian" man, this "honest" police officer has three kids, each by different mothers (only two of them wives). Which by itself doesn't make him a bad guy...unless of course, he's lied to all of these women, sees two of his kids maybe once a year each, if that...one of the mothers actually fled the state. He has convinced at least three women to actually join their lives to his (and hurt numerous others), only to "change his mind" literally without any warning or concern about the effects of his actions...and then he skulks away. Basically, he is a "make-her-love-and-trust-me, stroke my ego, take advantage of her financially until she has nothing left, and then move on to the next gullible person" type of man. And now he’s set his sights on a woman in the Northeast...who has no idea about his past here in Texas.
So sadly, at least five of the women I know about (which includes two of the wives) are strong, intelligent, professional women, not easily duped, who would never have thought they'd fall for a guy like this. That’s probably the hardest part. We are all women, who before this, would have said, “I’d never let a man treat me that way!” Now we have to face that we DID. That woman that we used to think should have been smarter, less gullible, more careful, less idealistic? Each of us has now been “her” at some point. Now we're all a statistic...he doesn't care about being married multiple times, but as Christian women who believe in the sanctity of marriage, we're left broken-hearted, angry at ourselves, embarrassed, possibly stigmatized (it is conservative Texas after all), trying hard to understand God’s will…. And we have nothing to show for the marriage, but egg on our faces and our empty bank accounts. Meanwhile, he's perfectly okay, ready and able to mess over the next woman who believes his nice guy, trustworthy cop, unlucky-in-love act.
We’re not asking for anyone to agree with us or feel sorry for us. We also know that it’s likely many women won’t believe us. But our hope is that at least one woman who begins to date this man will at some point Google his name and come across this posting. If you do, you can go down the courthouse in Houston and see the marriage licenses and divorce decrees for yourself.
Below are a few dates and facts to help you on your search and to confirm that we are telling the truth. Dates with periods (.) are certain. Dates with question marks (?) are approximate (if the estimated information is not found, try the year before or the year after). We’ve tried to put enough here so that a person can find and verify what we’re saying, but not enough to let innocent people or their children be identified online….
Born in Detroit, Michigan, November 1959.
1st Marriage – Date of marriage not certain.
One child during marriage - born 1977?
Second child - January 1995?
2nd Marriage – March 1996.
Third Child - January 1998?
3rd Marriage – September 1999.
Divorced wife – November 2003.
4th Marriage – Massachusetts or Maine 2006/2007?
These seems like large gaps, right. Like maybe not a pattern of behavior, but rather a man who keeps trying to find love???
Please keep in mind that these are only the women he MARRIED. Those that had enough money and resources that he could benefit from marrying them…. But if you count the women he was dating in between marriages, and those he dated WHILE he was married, there is no doubt that he is a PREDATOR. Recently, he dated one of us for several years, knowing she wanted marriage and a child, never disclosing that he had had a vasectomy. Once her money was gone, so was he…. Unfortunately, this information is just the TIP of the iceberg. Dig a little and you won’t believe what you’ll find.
Anyone with additional information to help warn other women out there? As long as it’s true and verifiable, please add it. Please don’t post any untruths or exaggerations, even if you have a right to be angry with him, because it will only make the true things less believable. And then, more innocent women will suffer….
So doubt us if you will, but please just check into what we’re saying. Or at least keep it in the back of your mind and be careful…keep your eyes open.
Please…take care and God bless.