paxton capital services review: fraud company/money laundry 1

In last december 2009, I rec'd an approval email from paxton capital services for 5, 000 dollars. so, I called them driectly, I eas told that in order for them to proceed the loan they required a deposit of $800 dollars, but IfI want a higher loan then the deposit will be $990.00
so, I accepted the loan and went to wester union near palo alto. I paid $1076.00 including the fees. The money was sent to Wade Hailey, AJAX ontario. they said after them receiving the money it will take 3-4 hours for me to rec'd the fund. But then I waited and waited until the next day, checking my acct.if the fund is already there.but nothing was deposited. then I rec'd a phone call from them they want me to deposit more money to make sure that if ever I lost my job i will be secure for 1 year. so, I said this is a scam, because I am asking for a loan not to give miney away so, I questioned them why do I need to deposit more in. I cancelled the whole process and ask them to refund my money, they said it will take about 3-4 wks to get my refun. so, I waited for 1 month and it hasn't came. I called 02/04/10 spoke with the supervisor and said that I should be receiving the refund by 02/08/10 or 02/09/10 still haven't rec'd anything.I tried calling them today at noon phone was disconnected.
How can I refund my money from them. pls. help.

Thank you,
jane
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