I totally agree with the above comments, this guy is committing fraud. I too went through this, though was careful enough NOT to pay for the membership. Instead I got a free trial by asking. Lo and behold upon replying to members from the UK, no response! False advertising and manipulation.
They will target you with ads from people too far away to matter, always hot chicks (why would they even be on the site), who remain active with the same pictures for years, change names but not photos, resend verbatim messages after years... So if they're real, they're skanks, or stooopid. Perhaps I'm stupid for bein on so long as well. If you read the subject lines of the mails, you'll see there are definite patterns. Also frequency of contacts, similarity of incomplete, flexible profiles. All this points to a lazy owner who is too stupid to even commit fraud intelligently.
I applaud the individual who went to the cops! Try plentyoffish.com, it's legit, it's free. I have no affiliation with them.
Let's hear from others!