I was only on the site 6 days, and got 3 very similar im's from 3 supposedly different men; California, Florida, and Texas. They all had eerily similar stories. They all told me within 2 days that we were meant for each other, God brought us together, one saying he loved me...referring to my son as our son...wtf???? Telling me that they travel a lot, then I googled datehookup.com scams, and found an identical story from a woman who had been duped by the guy in Texas...exact same experience.
They make you feel you are the only woman in the world for them, that they have finally found the one God wants them to be with, and start planning your life together after 2 days. Even a rock would know that there is something smelly about that!
Be very careful...they pose as regular Americans, then after chatting for a while, it seems like their chats are broken, poor grammar, bad English/spelling. Then it comes through loud and clear, they are probably from the middle east! BEWARE!!!