Met a 'shy humble' man on pof. As time went on he became controlling & abussive. He became a completely different person, I met his shell of an ex wife, I was slowly turning into her. He raged and wanted to choose my outfits, long silences, and sarcasm became the norm. I escaped after a vicious attack. He went straight into a new relationship so I felt safe. However he is now stalking me, I am recovered from the abuse but was suicidal after the final rage.
I reported him to plenty of fish, he appears to be a true predator, very plausible. He is in his new relationship, but continuing grooming more on the site he spends hours every day on the site.
I found out that he was sectioned and diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder & borderline personality disorder, his ex wife shared this with me after his final melt down. Plenty of fish have allowed him keep this activity up despite my report.
He is very attractive, a smooth soft, y spoken "shy" executive. His current partner is suffering right now, he continues to declare his true love to me and is grooming more of us daily.