My biggest beef with the site is that it was free during one point in time. I asked for my account to be closed due to personal problems with myself. I made one friend on there, which I gave my contact information to a couple days before I decided to close my account.
I never heard from her, which led me to believe that she must have not signed on before my account was closed--causing my messages and any traces of my account to be erased. This past week, I decided to briefly check the site out to see if I could find her. At first, I thought the whole fee was a huge hoax, because I did not verify my e-mail yet.
Well, I finally verified my account and--DADA!--the fees are very much true. Half of my body laughed in amusement while I believe that the other side of my body went numb. I would not give the three cents on the ground to this website. Through my experience, connections are not often. I was there for a year and a half and made one friendship and met one empty girl (bless her soul), which braided my hair.
There are a lot of people that probably do not know what a fling is and they go on the website to honestly look for "a good man." There is some decent cam action--usually late at night--nothing to write home about, though. I am ashamed to say it, but Craigslist might be more helpful in helping one sex find a fling with the opposite sex.