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Wendy Abu-el-hawa / Con Artisit

1 Ocean Beach, CA, United States Review updated:
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Wendy Abu-el-hawa is a dead beat parent and a con artist. Wendy lies about her age, her education, her marital status, she denies her child publicly, she steals from the poor and the wealthy. Wendy has not been prosecuted though it is alleged that she has stolen hundreds of thousands of dollars from people all over the country. Wendy falsified urine tests when she worked for The Salvation Army, probably for money. Wendy has had people falsely imprisoned for abuse and has tried to have people physically harmed for abuse that never occurred. If she can be stopped, she should be stopped before someone really does get injured on her behalf.

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  • Th
      11th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Goodness, this is the girl that all the hub bub is about from Winstons. I heard of her, met her, thought her strange with a big o ego and sure nough my spider senses were right on. Wendy has developed quite the bad rap at Winstons, she just don't know it, or don't care, which ever. This is a odd girl and I have heard these stories now from people that don't know each other, that is always a good indicator of truth. Totally unaware she had a kid, and education, I am not sure she dresses with the lights on, so I believe the no education theory as well. There is a dude with a weird draw to her and if I see him I am going to show him this stuff, just like my bud showed me yesterday. Rock on!

  • Mo
      11th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    This is a long time comin. Wendy came out here 2 years ago and has messed with a couple of my friends and one of them talked to a guy in Virginia and we play her now too. She ain't so f'in smart, we got emails and letters and fake names and tons of stuff on her. She steals what she can get her hands on and we know it, we know it all, its pretty cool to con a con and she is clueless. There is more that one person in her so called circle of trusted friends that sends copies of her note book and tons of other stuff, so Wendy will be caught one day and we are gonna help the others she thieved and with all of it together get Wendy a nice cot next to a girl named Butch! Ha! Looking forward to it man, keep it coming she makes mistakes when she's freaked out.

  • Mo
      14th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    There is no doubt that this woman is a con and a liar. I know her better than I wish I did. She had me locked up on false charges and I will never forget it. it is nice to see people gettin together and reporting her all over the country. The west coasters are gettin peeved with her nonsense now and it rolls right back to here. Not surprised by the continuing abuse dealt by Wendy Abuelhawa. She has been pregnant by more men than can be counted, or so she says. There is always a miscarry or a forced abortion or whatever she claims happens to the dozens of children. Wendy only has one child and she never took care of her, so if you are a dude involved with this thing, run man, you are going to be next.

  • Mo
      14th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    We now are finding out about this woman. Trying to warn some is difficult, they believe in her sob stories of stalkers and abusers etc... Wendy knows how to play the pitiful card very well. There are a few coming around now though that have seen just the slightest thing or heard a misspeak on her part and questioning the authenticity of her stories...my friend spoke to someone related to someone in Washington and boy there is no love for Wendy on that turf...she buried the bridge after she burned it and no welcome mats are laid out...eventually we predict she will just move on again from here to another locale and make a whole new story set in a whole new town and time for the new victims...shame she was never picked up for her crimes...hopefully no one gets hurt...keeping the word out makes it hard for Miss Thing to go unnoticed though.

  • Mo
      16th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Wendy Abu-el-Hawa is a true sociopath in every since of the word. Wendy has created chaos with every word she has spoken, though it all be passive aggressive. She has a way of making one believe that she is their savior because of the hardships she herself has endured. The problem is that everything she has endured is either in her own mind and never occurred or it is something that she has blown completely out of proportion. Wendy may at some point become violent, truly violent. If cornered it is absolutely a possibility.
    It is important to keep information on her out there in order to warn others of the potential for violence on her part.
    I was once a friend of Wendy, I have heard her actually make things up, completely on the fly, either to cover her tracks or just to impress others. No matter, she is not a well person and I have nothing to do with her anymore, for that very reason.

  • Mo
      17th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    I also know Wendy from another time. This nonsense has been going on for years. Wendy has never really had anything in her life that was her own.Wendy has taken from everyone she was ever involved with, in one way or another. Wendy has lied about being pregnant to get men to write her checks for unneeded abortions.Wendy tells men she had a bad miscarriage or abortion years ago and cannot get pregnant, then by some miracle she suddenly is pregnant and ready to continue the relationship or give me money for an abortion. If the man says he will go through the pregnancy with her, oops, miscarriage and medical bills that she expects him to pay, though the checks always go to Wendy. This con has served her well for years. Now that she is nearly 45, she must lie about her age to continue. Wendy has stolen thousands and thousands of dollars over the years and never spent a day in even a county lock-up. Wendy will continue to do this, because she likes it. Those words were spoken by her, why not I like it and they give it to me so why not? Wendy believes her own lies, so to her this is all the way it is supposed to be. You give, she takes, simple as that. Wendy will not stop, she cannot stop it is her only means of survival. I agree with the last comment, in that if cornered she may become violent.

  • Mo
      18th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Just reading complaints through out this site and I must say this woman gets more bad press than anything. I feel for those that have been taken advantage of and for those that will be taken advantage of. I had a sociopathic girl friend once and man it is a long road back. Good luck with this Wendy person.

  • Mo
      19th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Wendy Orleans or Abu-el-hawa or the choice of the week is still here. Why? No one trusts her, no one even likes this hose bag. Wendy is a fricken thief. Why do criminals like this just get to keep it up. She is a criminal. Where are the fraud police when you need then. Wendy lives here with us now and I am afraid to leave my purse in the same room as her. Identity theft will be next. She get s a gleam in her eye at the thought. Scary woman.

  • Mo
      23rd of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Been down this road, I knew Wendy Abu-el-Hawa and that really is not even her name. Wendy boasts about her crimes if given the right circumstances and the right audience, so all that is printed about her is true. Her name now is Wendy Orleans, but she don't use it for fear of her husband finding her. Wendy, according to her, is practically royalty in the Middle East, could be Palestine, could be Jordan. Father was a arms dealer and a CIA agent. She married some cousin, yes a cousin, in an arranged marriage and on it goes to a life of mistreatment and body guards, I knew her years never laid eyes on this Mustofa body guard person. All of it is way out in fantasy land. Wendy can't use a social security number because there are people looking for her. Those people are Child Support and Student Loan Lenders not the CIA or ex's stalking her as she would have you believe. Wendy is small time, though she has left a trail of destruction, Wendy is old and unattractive now and the years of hard drinking and lying her ### of have made her unappealing. She still gives it the old collage try though. Just laugh in her face and say you know she is white trash and she will turn tail and run.

  • Mo
      24th of Jul, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Knew there was somethin off bout this one. Met her at Winstons months ago, heard thru the vine she was bad news. Keepin in the back of my mind and watchin my buds.

  • Sk
      31st of Jul, 2008
    -1 Votes

    Wow. Crazy man. Wendy is totally loved here man. I don't know what she did back East but here she is somebody everyone wants to catch at the open mike. Long crazy hair, skinny, looks like she's 23 if that. Freaking beautiful girl. She's a good poet. I talked to Andrew at Winston's and he doesn't know what you all are talking about man. Crazy ###.

  • Mo
      2nd of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Either you are Wendy herself, or you are the next victim on her list, or you are talking about some other Wendy...yes? Wendy has no supporters here, I haven't talked to Andrew, but Wendy Ab-el-Hawa hasn't looked 23 since she was 18. She is 45 on the 8th of this month. She has a daughter in Virginia that is about 23. Wendy Abu-el-Hawa is not freaking beautiful by a long shot. Have you seen her in the light of day...no? You must be very confused dear friend. Old Wendy will rob you and when she speaks, that is when her lips are moving, she is lying.Think again, or maybe its just old Wendy herself...Oh honey, you ain't all that...yes?

  • Mo
      3rd of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    No man, you definitely have this confused. Wendys got that wrinkled neck man, she aint no as you put it freakin beauty. No man you are way off. Agree with rather, she aint seen that side of 25 in 25 years, get some glasses and some insurance, you may be next.

  • Mo
      5th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    The reason Andrew at Winstons doesn't know what any of these folks are talking about is because, Wendy Abuelhawa is a CON ARTIST!!! That is what she does, that is all she does, Wendy writes poems, what ever, so did John Wayne Gacy, does that mean he was an artist, no he was a murderer. Wendy Abuelhawa, or Orleans or what ever the choice name of the week is remains a criminal. She obviously has several people tricked again, you will see, just like all the countless others that she fooled before. Good luck dumb ###...

  • Mo
      6th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    It is the same story, again and again. Wendy has a distinct talent for making people love her, feel sorry for her...want to help her and defend her. This Skaterpunck person, may very well be Wendy trying to make it seem as though someone is picking on her, or it could be just one of the many that she has fooled, with that way she speaks and looks so innocent and damaged, oh poor Wendy. If you buy that after reading all of the things that Wendy has done to so many people then you sir are the fool for sure. This many people cannot be wrong and as I previously stated I have seen Wendy work, with my own to eyes, I have heard her lie so convincingly with my own two ears and she LOVES doing it, so you will never convince me that oh Sweet Little Wendy has changed, no way...she can't because she does not want to.

  • Mo
      8th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY45 YEAR OLD WENDY ABUELHAWA!!
    you cannot fool em much longer, everyone at winstons is gonna know your a phony, and that is funny ms poet!

  • Mo
      9th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    wendy is 45. wendy abu-el-hawa, wendy howard, wendy hawa, wendy orleans, wendy phillips, wendy wendy wendy blah blah blah...she is a big bore and she is mentally unstable. i should know, i know her better than alison. wendy was born 8.8.1963 in michigan not friggin jordan. wendys mom is a west virginia redneck and wendy is just a good con, that is all she can do, believe me i should know. i know wendy in ways i don't like to admit. if you see wendy reading a poem or a short story or what ever the hell, she probably stole that too..she steals everything, her whole life story belongs to someone else..i should know i watched her make herself who she is there in cali now..sorry for you california saps that are falling for this complete lie. you will be the ones writing about wendy on here next year and i will fell sorry for you just like others felt sorry for me when they tried to tell me she was completely fake.good luck ocean beach you need it.

  • Mo
      9th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    Yes, this is exactly what she is, the con is the life she loves. There is nothing that she will not do to overwhelm those around her with dread and drama 24-7. This is all she is really good at, and seeing as how she has been at it for say 35 of the 45 years she has been on this horrible ride, she is really good at it. There is nothing about Wendy Lou Phillips that is true, except that she is a liar. Ironic isn't it?

  • Mo
      13th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    i don't like this whackado, i met her at dead poets and she is one high and awful mighty ###. that entry stating that she is longed for at the open mike is doodooo...she talks so low tryin to be sexy or somethin and she smells man. that hair is crazy cause it aint been washed in ages. i think that is whackado wendy herself that wrote that. i heard about her claimin to be half her age too. goodness woman you should look in the mirror first and bathe for goodness sake. do everyone a favor and bathe. wendy is no threat to me. i have a great girl but i have heard of her thievery from the others. andrew dont give a hot ### what she does, so whatever wendy stinky do, you are nasty from the nose to the toes.hah

  • Mo
      16th of Aug, 2008
    +1 Votes

    I am surprised it has taken some people so long. This is years of lies and years of taking advantage of people on the part of the Wendy we all know. Wendy will lie to anyone. She has lied to her daughter, all of her friends, all of her family even to herself. She will never ever stop. She is entitled to do this in her own mind and it will go on and on, so just stay clear and you are safe. Do not leave her alone with anything that you hold dear and let the lies go right over your head. The mental hospital is where she belongs and where she will someday be. That is all there is to it.

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