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1 Adelaide Metro Area, South Australia, Australia Review updated:

To whom it may concern,

I just recently subscribed to sex in your city dating site and found out that a lot of the females on this site are not the real thing many of them are links to their own web cam and porno sites and their profiles are fake on the sex in your city web site . I did the subscription via my credit card for a period of 3 months for the price of 49 0dd dollars believing it was in Australian dollars then finding out I was actually charged 76.69 Australian dollars which I finally worked out the 49 odd dollars was in U.S. dollars.I'm writing this email kindly asking for a refund to the sum of 76.69 Australian dollars to be credited back to my credit card my ID number that was emailed to me once I subscribed to the site is [protected] that is the statement ID number.I'm now going back to the site to unsubscribe myself from that site so I don't get billed for any thing else.Thank you for your time in reading my complaint and looking forward to hearing your reply to my query and getting my money refunded.Wishing you all a happy new year from Australia and take care and good luck to you all in 2009.

Kind Regards,
Svetislav Krstic

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  • Dr
      7th of Dec, 2008
    0 Votes

    SCAM!!! NO real women, just CAM GIRLS. The site is a waste of your money

  • Ck
      1st of Jan, 2009
    -1 Votes


    No girls will message you back on this site. These profiles are not really girls. They are monitored by guys. You will understand after reading all of this.

    I sent out well over 100 messages to girls currently online (even in my city) and not one single response (NOT EVEN UGLY GIRLS). I even used a photo of a male model for my picture. When I message guys online I get an instant message back from them so the message system does work. I was wondering why 100% of the time I could never get a girl online to even message me back. Every single guy I have contacted is experiencing the exact same things. All girls (WHO IN REALITY ARE GUYS) want to instant message through Yahoo or MSN. They don’t want to respond here on this site. NONE OF THEM! It is more difficult for them to monitor or talk to multiple guys on here. All they want to do is con you into their webcam.

    This site is most likely managed from Europe or Some other continent. Many of the girl’s profiles are in broken English. One member was talking to a girl for a week before receiving one message back that was in half English and Half in another language. It did not translate correctly. She told him she was born and raised in the USA.

    I saw another girl’s profile which stated she was 36 in her profile and 29 in her about me! No one is that ###ing stupid. Look at likesitbig9briana, her profile states she is 20 and in her about me says she is 25!

    Cam girls are whores in other countries. One or two guy’s (PIMPS) sets up a studio, pays girls to come in at scheduled times, changes the scene around and the girls will strip in front of the cam. They guys charge you, pay the girl and keep most of the money. Many girls do this because for them in other countries it is good money or the only job they can find.

    Some of the messages you receive from them, they will claim to be in your town on a tour for models. They will tell you to go to a site and vote for them. You are supposed to enter your credit card for age verification only and you will not be billed. Well, you all know how this story goes! Many times they drain your credit card or debit card before you can cancel.

    Look at most of the girls pictures on here. Do you really think girls that look this good can’t get a boyfriend or can’t get laid without coming on here? Most of these photos are professional photos which have been copied and pasted on a made up profile. If you look close, many of them are blurry because they are copied and pasted. Do you really think these girls can take this good of a photo of themselves?

    Why do all of the guys photos look realistic and all of the girls don’t?

    I was personally blocked by NIKKI.SUMMERS. She is in a red shirt and supposedly from Australia. She is profiled on the home page of sexinyourcity. When it blocks me it tells me “The user you are trying to view does not allow you to consult HIS profile. If Nikki Summers is a guy then I am ###ing GAY!

    The exact same has happened with jnicole. I am blocked from harassing her but it also tells me that I am not allowed to consult HIS profile. Both of these profiles are in the FEATURED AREA of Sexinyourcity home page.

    I am now getting blocked by many girls who I have not even harrased or posted on their wall. WHATE DOES THIS TELL YOU! THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE EXPOSED!!! THIS SITE IS STEALING YOUR MONEY.

    I have now been blocked by multiple girls. Each and every single time it says “The user you are trying to view does not allow you to consult HIS profile. THESE PROFILES ARE ALL GUYS! HARRAS ONE AND GET BLOCKED AND YOU WILL SEE!!!

    Why does the featured girls on the home page NEVER CHANGE! These are the biggest scam and cam girls on here. Just look at the walls of all of the other guys. The operator of this site has something to do with that!!!

    Scroll through all of the guys currently online. When you get to pages 8, 9 or 10 it starts to repeat the exact same profiles over and over. I only assume they do this to make it look like there are many people online.

    Now Sexinyourcity has a new tool for narks like me. They limit you on how many messages you can send out in a 24 hour period.

    If anyone would like to help get the message out I am sure that many people on here would be very appreciative of it!


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  • Ma
      13th of Feb, 2009
    -1 Votes

    I met several in person off that site but I will not renew for every 10 that I talk to 1 might be real 3 have misleading gender info and 6 are cam girls especially if they are giving out the yahoo addresses to everyone.

    SO I bite and email them then when the poorly written message comes back I send it to and they send out spam reports. A lot of the girls are Nigerian from their email source trace. Many are immigrants from overseas and not even in their proper locations the profile says.

    It feels like so many are lead ins to keep you on the site. I had one tell me bye today after she told me how badly she wants me.

  • Jj
      13th of Feb, 2009
    -1 Votes

    Right. this is total B.S. I wonder if the Feds can do anything about this?

  • Ch
      27th of Feb, 2009
    0 Votes

    I tried contacting customer support (?) over an issue I had with them. I made several attempts and not one reply. I know what you mean about the message “The user you are trying to view does not allow you to consult HIS profile. " as well as the "be in your town on a tour for models." BS. I've had the same happen to me. Also, the cam girls...I ended up blocking them for all the good it did. Your e-mail address is sold to everyone and thier mother. Sorry, the feds can't do anything about it as the operations are run from and based out of the U.S.. Do they use epoch any more? I thought they were dropped and they now do thier own billing as too many people were getting thier money back. Also, there is NOTHING on thier site about how to contact them for billing problems other than

  • Ch
      27th of Feb, 2009
    0 Votes

    I can't even find anywhere on thier site to cancel! I e-mailed support for whatever good that will do. (I have never recieved anything other than an auto-reply from them.)

  • Ne
      27th of Feb, 2009
    +1 Votes

    Cam girls are a problem on all dating websites... I've had similar issues on adultfriendfinder as well. If the girl looks too good to be true, she probably just wants your money... just like in real life. If she doesn't want to msg on the website, she's probably fake as well.

    I got angry and contacted support at sexinyourcity and they told me to flag cam girls when I see them and they will disable their accounts, and they did! I got a bunch of them disabled in my city... it's much better now. It seems to be an industry wide problem, sexinyourcity is definitely not sponsoring these girls. It's actually the site that gets rid of them the fastest.

  • St
      11th of Mar, 2009
    +1 Votes

    Same thing with netaddict. Had one of the camgirls trying to lure me in but I put a stop to that pretty quickly. Also contacted sexinyourcity to notify them and they took the complaint seriously. Girl told me they are trying to rid the site of these people but it's never ending. THey're on all the sites not just siyc. Whatever. Been on sexinyourcity for a month or so. Haven't had any problems.

    Met up with one girl and we managed to have some fun together. That's all I can ask for now. We'll see if anything changes in the next 2 months.

  • Dm
      19th of Mar, 2009
    0 Votes

    i paid for a full years' subscription, found out it was a bogus site, and attempted to cancel. The whole site is bogus. They just give you the runaround. I want my $99.00 refunded. i removed my account from their site. only received auto-reply each time i attempt to contact them.

  • Ci
      19th of Mar, 2009
    -1 Votes

    I signed up, paid the $9.95 and the site was disappointing. I called the number, but it said no one is available and that it would automatically hang up. I went online and submitted 3 forms through online customer service to cancell immediately. NO REPONSE. Instead they posted a $39.95 charge to my account. I submitted another customer service request to refund immediately and that I had already requested to close my account. I received an email back saying that they will continue with the charge because I signed up for the full term. After 3 email attempts to request full refund (keep in mind I cancelled my account PRIOR to 5 days of sigining up) I have had no response and the charge is now posted and my bank says there is nothing they can do. THIS SITE NEEDS TO BE BANNED, IT IS A SCAM

  • Ge
      4th of Apr, 2009
    0 Votes

    Click on this link: and see that the server IS in San Antonio, Texas. Quebec, Canada is also involved. Their monthly traffic: about 2, 200.

    Also check out their traffic sources here:


  • Bo
      5th of Apr, 2009
    0 Votes

    I want to cancel my subscription a I no longer need your service

  • Ch
      6th of Apr, 2009
    0 Votes

    can someone tell me if it sends automated messages to women from the men? like messages you never wrote?

  • Pa
      27th of May, 2009
    +2 Votes

    The original poster is obviously a wierdo. Who sends over 100 messages? This isn't fishing it's dating. Do yuo go to a bar and buy every woman a drink hoping that one will go home with you? After reading this report through, I felt there was nothing concrete so I signed up after having wasted my time on I only came across two cam girls and actually have been on three dates in the last month. This site isn't a miracle like some people would like to believe, but if you take your time and approach the women like a NORMAL, sane man, you can meet some pretty cool girls. I had login issues and support cleared it up within a day so I have no complaints there. Dr. Love (the resident "expert") actually had some interesting advice which led me to get my first date. Too bad her picture was from 10 years ago!!! LOL, I guess it's bound to happen.

    My biggest complaint about the site is the colors and layout, looks very mid-90s to me.

    Online dating isn't for everyone... especially not the original complainer.

  • Ca
      27th of May, 2009
    +2 Votes

    I had no problem meeting people on this site but yeah, it's always easier for girls, it's the same when we go out in clubs, there is always more guys ready to pay you a drink than there is girl available. I can understand that it can get frustrating for some men, especially if you have not that much social skill, ckfromok, let me give you an advice that may help you in your future relation, you seem to be way too obsessive and you have an aggressive way to talk, it scares woman. Remember that we expose ourselves to some risk when we decide to meet a guy online so that's prolly why those girls blocked you.

  • Ro
      27th of May, 2009
    +1 Votes

    I've been a member of Sex In Your City for just over 6 months now. I use it for casual fun and experienced minimal problems.

    Tried Sex Search, and well let's just say the Search never ended! Then tried AdultFriendFinder and just couldn't seem to find any female friends willing to do more than chat.

    If you're respectful and straight up with the ladies on Sex In Your City, you'll get some play. Some girls will put up fake pics to get your attention, others will block you and then you'll get that auto generated message this dude is talking about, but that's all part of the game I guess. You cares if there's a typo and it says "He" instead of she. You've been blocked by her... get over it! There's plenty of fish in he sea!!! This guy has 2 bad experiences and is ready to throw in the towel. Do you know how many girl have given me the cold shoulder on the site and in real life? It's a numbers game... remember that. The ladies have all the control, CAN, and WILL be picky!

    Anyway, bottom line is I'm out to have adult fun, and it's happening here. As Paul said... If your an emotional biatch, then maybe online dating isn't for you. You should move to India and try pre-arranged marriage!

  • De
      8th of Jun, 2009
    0 Votes

    plz send me my password n id on my yahoo id plz

  • Fo
      30th of Jun, 2009
    0 Votes

    I had about a half dozen women in an older age group. almost twenty messages back and forth. The site takes hours to post messages. I wouyld get the e-mail telling me I had amessage from so and so then 5 hours later I could read in on my profile. I blocked those onvious scams but though the older ones were legit. Start reading what the write nad it becomes evident it is all a big game. Several people working for them play with each ( girl) because they will asked the same questions two or three times when you have answered it q copule otimes and in the message history. Sometimes she is hot and ready to met. no messages for 3 0r 4 days then the "we need to take it slow and become friends first" . I've been around the block enough to know that does happen but when you have 4 or 5 gonig at the same time and the same cycle evoles from all 5 then you start getting suspecious. I'd began doubting this site after two weeks, now on my third week I am convinced it is a scam. Watch your wallet.

  • Fi
      10th of Jul, 2009
    0 Votes

    cant get into site to cancell membership been to billing@sexinyouyrcity sends meet to faq page

  • Ri
      11th of Jul, 2009
    0 Votes

    I recently tried to have my account with in your city cancled but so far nothing has been done . And to make it even worse they do not have an automatic cancle subscription box...beware ...I guess ill just have to cancle my visa card...grrrr

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