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OkCupid stalker will not leave my friend alone on okcupid!

I just want to tell everyone to be on the look out for certain people on okcupid and this stalker is abusing my friend and other people from the site. Everytime I report him and his friends, nothing get's done. I got so scared, that I even deleted my own page from there. I don't understand why he and his friends do not get deleted from the website. Women becareful! It is no joke! I have read and seen all the abuse he has done to my friend and other people. He goes under other names to cover up himself and makes tons of fake profiles to disguise himself and abuse people from. It's sickening. It also seems like he is following her on the internet and if you see other complaints similar to this with wierd comments directed to her, it seems like it is the stalker trying to make her look mentally unfit, when in reality it's probably the stalker. He likes playing mind games. He steals user's email addresses. we have statements from the violated user's. I have advised her to go to the local police and I think she has done so. This is no laughing matter. It needs to stop.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

Beware of Driada on okcupid.com. yet another user and abuser on the site. this could be the worst one of all. this is one frightening person to have on the loose. to show these kind of photos on a dating site, this is not a porn site. if kids see this, it's corruptive and nasty. furthermore we get to wonder if this is a military person or terrorist because of the following journal entry.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/13059871269972822029/tunisiyat-al-arab
scroll down to where one of the culprits hopes for another disaster similar to 911. that's is horrific and unexcusable and should not even be said. but still why does okcupid allow these predators or terrorists on this site? they should be tracked down, banned from the internet totally, and apologize to all the 911 victims and to all the vicitms that they abused on okcupid.
RATED XXX DO NOT CLICK THIS LINK IF A MINOR CONTAINS NUDITY
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/3079562611864194159/Can-hit-an-apple-off-one's-head
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/9469992888417160371/:)-----*
The above linkS will show you the nude photos of a males exposed in the predator's journal.

The more I read these digusting journals, the more I find terrifying thoughts and pictures. These parasites should seriously be investigated! But apparently nobody is bothering.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

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http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-driada-on-okcupidcom-possible.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/am-i-dealing-with-terrorists-on.html

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OkCupid anti-american, terroist behavior, sexual predator, cyber stalker, pervert, harassment, threats, profanity,http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

Beware of Driada on okcupid.com. yet another user and abuser on the site. this could be the worst one of all. this is one frightening person to have on the loose. to show these kind of photos on a dating site, this is not a porn site. if kids see this, it's corruptive and nasty. furthermore we get to wonder if this is a military person or terrorist because of the following journal entry.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/13059871269972822029/tunisiyat-al-arab
scroll down to where one of the culprits hopes for another disaster similar to 911. that's is horrific and unexcusable and should not even be said. but still why does okcupid allow these predators or terrorists on this site? they should be tracked down, banned from the internet totally, and apologize to all the 911 victims and to all the vicitms that they abused on okcupid.
RATED XXX DO NOT CLICK THIS LINK IF A MINOR CONTAINS NUDITY
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/3079562611864194159/Can-hit-an-apple-off-one's-head
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/9469992888417160371/:)-----*
The above linkS will show you the nude photos of a males exposed in the predator's journal.

The more I read these digusting journals, the more I find terrifying thoughts and pictures. These parasites should seriously be investigated! But apparently nobody is bothering.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-driada-on-okcupidcom-possible.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/am-i-dealing-with-terrorists-on.html

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Stop sites profiting off misogyny yet
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Sep 18, 2017 12:21 am EDT

Okcupid is a site that profits of misognynist harassment. Their entire model is based off that: this a hatred-based business that has no place in civilized society:
http://okcupidprofitsoffmisogyny.blogspot.com/

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 13, 2011 9:52 pm EST

@micaa1755 get yourself a map and try to figure it out. I will draw the first line for you.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 13, 2011 9:32 pm EST

@zachary S., do you see how you are perverts and are proving to everyone that you are peverts. do you know the police are reading this and this is no lie. sexual harassment is no joke. don't you have a life outside of internet cyberbullying? this is not a pron site, so please take your filth somewhere else. do not comment here if it does not pertain to the complaint. you need mental help and it's sad and scarey that you get your jollies off of things like this.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 13, 2011 9:15 pm EST

@ jerseyguy46 you are the one that needs help if you are diagnosing people. please leave us alone. what don't you understand? you need serious help and it shows. you are leaving rude comments that does not pertain to this complaint so do not leave comments that make no sense and are not about this complaint. do you understand? probably not. we know it's public but your comments have nothing to do with this complaint so move along. but you still come back. like i said we already contacted authorities for this serious harassment. you are lacking in attention if you keep commenting here. go get medical help or meditate. this is for serious complaints only. unless you are apart of the harassment.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 13, 2011 8:00 am EST

you are a sick pervert and who let you out? you need help! seriously! you need to stop abusing people and yourself. I feel bad for you, and that you need to inflict whatever pain you are going through on other innocent people. This pertains to JDH55 and JerseyGuy46 and all the other fake accounts that harass humans. There is mental help for people like yourself. Please go get some now! How long are you and your pals going to do continue this for? you need a doctor for your mental issues. This is serious and you can hurt people. Leave my friend alone. We do not know you guys and we don't want to. We are just making you stalkers exposed, so other innocent victims are aware. Once again go get the mental evaluation and medication that you desperatly are in need of. Maybe you should find god and try church and cleanse your mind and soul. Seriously stay away from us. We already contacted the authorities on this disturbing issues. You need help if you stay on the computer all day long and harass and stalk people. Find something else better to do with your life. Find solace in God.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 13, 2011 5:46 am EST

WOW! the person that left you a comment above me by the name JerseyGuy46 needs to seriously stop following you alover the internet and harassing you! Your stalker somehow seems fascinated by you and can not leave you alone! I am your witness to all of this nightmare! It's a good thing you are putting this on the internet and making it aware! He needs serious help and possibly jail time. Leave her alone. You are busted stalker!

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OkCupid daavvee okcupid.com zoomingin okcupid.com, racisim, hackers, sexual harrasement, verbal abuse, nudity, explicit content, animal abuse, predators

help us hunt down these predators and hackers off the net! http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn
our mission is to keep these predators permantley banned from all websites because once and if they get removed, somehow they reappear again! if they are professional hackers/predators it is difficult to keep them controlled! the government should step in and assist the victims and future victims in ending this nightmare! we have to track their ip addresses to what internet service provider they use that way we have access to where they live or do their hacking and abusing from! just like they expose innocent victims identities, the victims need to expose these parasites identies as well! take a look here when stalker daavee exposes a possible teenager! what if he is a sexual pedophile/serial killer? we just don't know in this crazy world!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-daavee-on-okcupidcom-possible.html

this is no joke and should be taken seriously because you just don't know who is out there! we hear so many horrible stories on the news when authorities could have possibly prevented these but they failed to hear my plea!

take a look here when daavee asks my sister to expose her breasts! this is degrading and frightful! and also he degrades animals!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-sexual-harrasement-from.html

take a look here when daavee states, he will re-abuse my sister again! why should she have to be abused yet again! this abuse should have been stopped a long time ago!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavee-warns-me-of-continuing-abuse-to.html

take a look here where zoomingin tells my sister to commit suicide and as well tells other user's to end their lives! it's disturbing that these predators are playing professional pyschiatry with people's lives and give false information and instructions! especially if a person is really ill and in need of some comfort!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavee-and-zoomingin-from-okcupid.html

take a look here where these predators admit to hacking!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/pay-close-attention-to-this.html

take a look here where these stalkers speak of racisim and enjoy it and make fun of religion!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/okcupid-supports-racisim.html

take a look here where zoomingin shows us what she does to innocent photo's and their indenities!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html

these predators/hackers should be imprisioned and fined and never have access to internet again! they are harmful, destructive, and a threat to humanity! wake up! what does it take to get these perverts off the net? we should be able to prevent the worst from happening! my sister has to go on knowing her photo and identity are out there and violated for no reason! she does not know this person and fearful of going through it again as DAAVEE proposes to! why should she and other females be violated and harassed for no reason! okcupid still has not notified us or taken care of this serious issue! i advise not using this dating site! as you can see you can experience all the horror that my sister went through! if you been through this please contact us at [protected]@blogspot.com
thank you and be safe!

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

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http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

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OkCupid http://www.okcupid.com/profile/zoomingin

beware on okcupid.com you are not safe. when entering this domain be extremely cautious. here is what you can experience and not even know it. your privacy is not protected what so ever and it should be. there should be a law against such acts. look out for this user by the name zoomingin at

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

this predator enjoys taking other users photos and degrading them to her pleasure look here to see some of the filth
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html

beware of her journals as well
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn/journal

also another user by the name daavee at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

he places nude of females on the site...these poor females have no idea that they are being abused on the internet...look here and be cautious before viewing it contains sexual content

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee/journal/2363017985804448150/EWW%21%21%21%21%21%21%21-%28Don%27t-look-if-you%27ve-just-eaten

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavvees-porno-naked-women-on-okcupid.html

also here is a women's plea to okcupid to remove daavee off the site that he is sexual harrassing her but as you can see the company does nothing

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/women-by-name-robin-reports-sexual.html

how can this be allowed on a dating site?...the company should be responsible and also the users that are abusing the site should be held responsible as well...this is horrible and what if children viewed this being that it's a public site?...something should have been done a long time ago...i fear that it takes for something tragic to happen to a female or someone and make the news and gravesite to take action when these are the warning signs because you just don't know who is behind the screen today and who is out there...

www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

www.okcupid.com/profile/daavee

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OkCupid cyber abuse

beware on okcupid.com you are not safe. when entering this domain be extremely cautious. here is what you can experience and not even know it. your privacy is not protected what so ever and it should be. there should be a law against such acts. look out for this user by the name zoomingin at

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

this predator enjoys taking other users photos and degrading them to her pleasure look here to see some of the filth
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html

beware of her journals as well
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn/journal

also another user by the name daavee at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

he places nude of females on the site...these poor females have no idea that they are being abused on the internet...look here and be cautious before viewing it contains sexual content

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee/journal/2363017985804448150/EWW%21%21%21%21%21%21%21-%28Don%27t-look-if-you%27ve-just-eaten

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavvees-porno-naked-women-on-okcupid.html

also here is a women's plea to okcupid to remove daavee off the site that he is sexual harrassing her but as you can see the company does nothing

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/women-by-name-robin-reports-sexual.html

how can this be allowed on a dating site?...the company should be responsible and also the users that are abusing the site should be held responsible as well...this is horrible and what if children viewed this being that it's a public site?...something should have been done a long time ago...i fear that it takes for something tragic to happen to a female or someone and make the news and gravesite to take action when these are the warning signs because you just don't know who is behind the screen today and who is out there...

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UNABLE TO CONNECT, KEEP GETTING THE MESSAGE THAT WEBSITE HAVING TECHNICAL PROBLEMS, OUT OF NOWHERE MATCH.COM MESSAGES HAVE STARTED APPEARING IN MY MAIL.I CAN NOT REPLY TO ANY OF THE MEMBERS MESSAGES FROM OK CUPID...MY SCREEN NAME IS STRAITFELLOW... EMAIL...naveedsbutt@gmail.com

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leothelion88
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Apr 05, 2011 8:07 pm EDT

I am sorry that this has to happen. Heaven forbid someone be able to enjoy a free social network. This is a travesty and again I am sorry, people can be small.

As fot you Zachary, how dare you have the gull to question someones intelligence when your attacking by belittling someones emotions. What kind of man are you? Intelligence is not based on what you know it is based on the marits of a human beings actions. Marrycanary is obviously the winner in this case.
Not one soul said you had to visit those links, you are free individual with the right choose, I just hope you learn to choose a little wiser.

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on january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times...my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter?...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women...women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/where-davie-creep-exposes-my-innocent.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/part-1-daavee-his-infamous-followers-on.html

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On january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times...my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter?...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women...women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue...

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Feb 04, 2011 2:41 am EST

that's right angelo! tell everyone to stay away from okcupid! thanks for posting this! you are a great man for helping out! i deleted my okcupid! it is not a safe site! i can't believe josie had to go through this violating her! i told her to go to the cops! EVERYONE STAY AWAY FROM OKCUPID!

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OkCupid harrasment

on january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times...my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter?...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women...women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/where-davie-creep-exposes-my-innocent.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/part-1-daavee-his-infamous-followers-on.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRYM4zSVQXI&feature=feedu

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Update by JosieJojo
Feb 20, 2011 4:56 am EST

You need to stop following me everywhere and wanting to know my next move...

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 20, 2011 4:54 am EST

You won't stop Zack. Why can't you control yourself? I mean really give it a rest and stop. It's becoming quite stale. If you need attention go elsewhere. All your concerned about is commenting here when it doesn't pertain to you, and then you try to twist it on me when I am just defending her and I know her personally and you don't. No one is loosing it here but you, and you seem to be quite occuppied by Josie's life. Why is that? Why do you come back and comment on old posts and new ones. You have a sick obsession. And your comments make no sense. Nor do they help the complaint. Everyone can see this, but you can't. What do you care who I am. Why do you remember all contacts Josie had contact with. You seem to know and remember each and everyone's name and story quite well. Don' you think you are the looser if you stay online all day and leave useless comments here. I told you to move along many times but you can't seem to let go.

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 03, 2011 8:03 pm EST

I have dyslexia and speell things wrong i meant to say blogger do you work for okcupid you probably do

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 03, 2011 7:39 pm EST

the internet also has enough of women's photos being abused too...let them know and take care of it mr. amused.

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 03, 2011 7:38 pm EST

so if you didn't read it then why comment here?...are you part of the problem maybe you even know them...victims are not amused since this is a joke to you...maybe oneday when you get abused, i will be amused :) goodluck!

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Mar 22, 2016 10:31 am EDT
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This entry is for Plato scholar working on PhD at University of Chicago, who I met on online dating site OkCupid. These sites details and documentat how he gossiped, manipulated facts, and encouraged unethical and potentially illegal behavior:

http://settinghisrecordstraight.blogspot.com/

https://settinghisrecordstraight.wordpress.com/

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Jan 28, 2016 11:25 pm EST

Hi fellow ladies... This is my serious warning to you to stay away from Gary Woods (charmedwayfarer). He is using the site to lure woman into thinking he is after a relationship and only is after sex and casual dating. He sent his intro video to my friend today. I am sure you received one too.

Do not fall for his lies. He is a cheater, a womanizer, a narcissistic liar, and a player, and that will never change. He is unwilling to be open about his spreading clymidia. Gary Woods is not somebody you should get involved with. And I know he has procedures done to make him look younger than he is.

He wrote me on OKCupid. I started dating Gary Woods in Santa Clara. At first Gary Woods was very charming and attentive. He made me believe I was special to him. He texted me pics of random flowers to brighten my day. Called me “gorgeous”, “hotness”, “delicious”. etc. He seemed like a decent guy and we were attracted to each other. He played hard to get at first, but eventually I won him over (I thought). And that is where the complaint begins.

He would never make a full commitment but yet denied having sex with other women. We fell in love (I thought), but he was being sneaky until I finally caught him cheating on me.

He is not faithful. You fall in love while he's cheating on you. He is a womanizer. Gary Woods is a player.

His tactics are "has to work late at Kaiser, “need to focus on his business or his real estate projects”, ”need a “me day”, “cell died” etc. That's when he is meeting another woman.

Don't waste your time with Gary Woods. He will literally break your heart.

Gary Woods is on various dating sites as charmedwayfarer

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tiffany hughes
New London, US
Feb 27, 2011 5:17 pm EST

omg some creeper took my journal and said i was a call girl.
he even posted someone elses's naked photo with my journal.
i was even receiving odd text messages that i had to pay for.
i had to change my cell phone number.
i will never go on that website again.
i think they are con artists or something.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:53 am EST

It's a good thing you didn't find Josie's new blogger because we all know you would stalk her there too!

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:53 am EST

And anyways what do you have to do with Josie, and why are you so worried and concerned about her every minute for?

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:52 am EST

You should stop stalking Josie. It's really childish and sickening.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:51 am EST

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Sammuel
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Kris C
Should call the cops too.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:50 am EST

Why do you make up stories Zack? Can you prove all that you comment every minute? Then you should call the cops.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:49 am EST

You must be sooooo obsessed with Josie, that you keep coming back here for more. You should call the cops.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:48 am EST

Why are you still stalking if she need mental help then?
You keep coming back for more.

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