Giordana Tocaccelli / coaching
Giordana Tocacceli is a self-admitted bipolar disordered woman defrauding her audience by pretending to be a psychologist that treats and diagnoses psychiatric conditions such as bipolar disorder, Borderline personality disorder and Narcissistic Personality disorder.
I happen to be a licensed medical professional and a member of her group. Seeinghow she manipulates these women is despicable. If you disgree with her she kicks you out of the group and accuses you to be one of the disorder she treats. She is highly manipulative and the women in her group are simply not in an emotional space to know better.
From her group:
"I also have to work with clients who have gone through severe PTSD from breaking off of cults, negative religious environments, abusive families etc."
This is the whole post:
Admin · October 26 at 12:43pm
Women with border line personality on the narcissistic spectrum
Alright let's dive into some psychology today-
I have never been a fan of labels or inflexible diagnoses as I see someone as complex and multi layered- and flexible depending on the healing available...
However today let's talk about borderline personalities in women on the narcissistic spectrum-
Borderline personality is someone with the inability to manage attachment, bonding and emotions effectively-
An example of the would be a woman who cannot attach but is desperate to have an attachment to a man or with a loving man-
So she goes to obsessive crushing, infatuation, flirting, and rushing through objectifying a man in order to create the illusion of a bond and healthy attachment- however she is at her current state incapable of it.
With borderline personalities you may not even know you are in a relationship with one until they abruptly end a relationship, rage at you or start attacking the core of who you are.
Typically they start off intense, and then are disappointed when you cannot give them the real love they are searching for- which is...you may have guessed it-
Their missing mother.
Or their missing father.
When it comes to leadership- leaders, healer and coaches will often find borderline personalities will put them on a pedestal and that pedestal is high. This is because a woman with BP, often lives chronically in a fantasy world and not in the real world, which they have a hard time with and often can't cope with- now believes they have found their missing mother, or father-
And I've spoken about this before- since as a child they had a missing mother, or father, or an emotionally absent relationship with parents that were there- as children they create fantasy versions of their parents that are on a pedestal, idealized and perfect.
So if you are leader, one of the first things I suggest, is get off any and all pedestals- they won't serve you long term. The woman with BP personality will always eventually want to rage at the missing parent, when the parent shows any signs of being human-
Because the woman with BP cannot handle humanity- they cannot handle imperfection, they cannot handle the reality and intensity of intimacy, the flows of relationship- and all they do is objectify others. Now a BP can do this to only one relationship in her life (with men) or be a chronic isolator who does this with everyone in her life.
The characteristic her is that a woman in this spectrum cannot see a man for the soul he is, but only can objectify him. She can only ever be in love with her idea of him, not the real him.
So she is desperate for love, starving for it- but cannot bond, cannot attach and doesn't know how.
Then when the attachment fails them, which it always does, their rage is- I'm going to destroy you for not loving me the way I need you to.
Wives do it to husbands.
Women do it to men.
Kids do it to parents.
Some people in a tribe do it to leaders.
Women with BP often believe in magical solutions- they are often enslaved to magical thinking- so they are are on the lookout for the next formula, or program, or teacher that allows them to not have to put any work in, or work on themselves, and magically the solution will drop out of the sky- the magic pill.
They often think you will magically fix it, women in this magically think a man will fix them- without owning it themselves.
Underneath they never attach because they are often constantly recreating fantasies-
they often don't see humans as complex beings- who are imperfect-
all they see is objects with human faces-
As I mentioned this is bc of lack of parental intimacy at childhood and a proper bond- they have a fantasy of what they are going to get-
They come in to a tribe or community and can't respect boundaries, and don't see other women in the community, they just see an audience for their own narcissism and demand to get their needs met.
They chronically isolate and start intense relationships which end abruptly, end in rage.
They put people on pedestals and then constantly say things like, "All people let me down."
They are looking for a magical solution that doesn't involve any investment, sacrifice or work from them to take ownership of their change and change their own life.
They keep attracting:
sugar daddies that reenact the parental role with objectification.
they attract low worth men
they attract narcissistic men.
They are in a cycle of intense, short lived relationships and friendships, and then end up alone again.
Desperate rage they don't have the love they want, oh my god I need love, Im starved for love, I am going to kill you because you don't love me-
"I liked him but he is a total douchebag"
"All men are cheaters"
"All women are needy and fake."
"This tribe hates me because I spoke up and got shut down."
"This leader is false because he or she didn't solve the issue I have to solve for myself."
Now does this mean someone can't have a real negative experience with a tribe or a leader, absolutely they can-
I also have to work with clients who have gone through severe PTSD from breaking off of cults, negative religious environments, abusive families etc.
That isn't what I am talking about today...I am talking about those that are desperate for attachment but cannot have real attachment, and so they are in a cycle of starting up relationships and when the realness of relationship emerges, they destroy it and go back to isolation.
Anyway, can you break free from this? Yes- you can. This is the crux of everything I teach, I just often don't go too into the psychology behind it"
This post is highly manipulative especially since she is talking to some of the women who are struggling with psychiatric disorders. You cannot practice psychology or psychiatry without a license. She is GRANDIOSE in her own thinking to believe that she can treat these mental disorders without ANY formal training. She goes on to tell her audience that she has treated and coached multi-billionaires, models, actors etc yet none of them have a testimonial for her
This is illegal is every state. Just 2 years ago this woman admits she was broke as a health coach and had not so much as a dime to her name and now she's all of a sudden had thousands of hours of experience treating women with these issues? Any of us in the medical field knows that it takes at least 3 - 7 years after formal training on the graduate level to begin seeing patients with these issues. She has no formal training.
Life coaching is a largely unregulated profession and she has ZERO credentials. She is not certified, not formally medically trained as a psychologist or psychiatrist. Yet she is admitting to treating women with these conditions and manipulating them in her group posts: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheHighValueWoman/permalink/524517204550209/ which I copied and pasted below. I will also add the screenshots.
This is highly problematic as any licensed pmedical professional knows better than to practice medicine or psychology on Facebook.
You cannot practice psychology pr psychiatry and make people pay you exhorbitant amounts of money to treat them for something that you are not licensed to treat yet she is charging women $10, 000 to work with them as a coach and if you don't want to work with her she makes posts like this to shame you.
Here's her formal work history from Linkedin:
Holistic Health & Life Coach
Company NameBody System Balance
Dates Employed2010 - Present
Employment Duration7 yrs
Founder of Online Health and Wellness Coaching Company Body System Balance: A Health & Wellness System developed after years of research and studies across the world. BSB programs are designed to tap into Bio-Individual needs and accelerate health and wellness goals.
Company NameHolistic MediSpa
Dates Employed2010 - 2011
Employment Duration1 yr
Nutritional Consultant working with Medical Professionals at Holistic MediSpa.
Founded Community CSA.
Events Coordinator for Healthy Living.
What peer reviewed research has she engaged in to make the claims or having developed years of reesarch?? With what training or license? She has been a health coach for a few years and that does not give her a license to treat or dignose.
Please avoid her at all costs as while she is claiming to helpwomen she is doing more harm illegally than good.