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Gilbert Gissendaner / my whole life with him was a lie

1 San Clemente, CA, United States Review updated:

I met this man in 1995!I was 17, he was 30...I had children for him, married him.and it was all a lie!I believe he lived a secret life!He was mentally and physically abusive.Noone would help us not even the military!He made me and my children homeless.i'd like to sue him and take him back to court for child custody, child surroprt and his sorry behind and family pay for abusing my children.I want them charged for child abuse.my children have disorders and are awaiting SSI!!!because of this man and his brother Curtis Gissendaner and his family!

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  • Hu
      11th of Mar, 2009
    -1 Votes

    Calm down

  • Si
      11th of Mar, 2009
    0 Votes

    Dude...your personal life is sooo not my, or anyone's problem. So he did you wrong, move on, get a life, and keep it to yourself.

  • Hu
      11th of Mar, 2009
    0 Votes

    Rite, move on, and leave bad things back

  • Ce
      12th of Jun, 2009
    0 Votes

    Well I think a better site would be Don't date him.com you can post this on there and women will see it and hopefully before they ever date him.

  • La
      4th of Aug, 2010
    0 Votes

    When you have a particular problem with someone you blame them and the person or people that's involved. You can't say family because it didn't involve the family and if so certain members and in that case that's what you point out. You should say "Certain family members and they no who they are". And another note if he was so abusive why did you stay around and have children for him. A lot of women come off as victims but should think before they speak and not allow themselves to stay in situations.

  • Ch
      1st of Dec, 2010
    +1 Votes

    This woman got just what she had coming to her!! You don't mess with a MARRIED MAN and then think God is going to Bless you!!! I was married to him when she started messing around with him, and when it was all said and done she calls me and ask's me what should she do? Was he mean to me or did he hit me!? Hell NO he NEVER HIT me HE wasn't STUPID! He was VERY, VERY ARROGANT AND A CONTROLLING [censor]! He was cheap and didn't like to buy things, but didn't want you to work! He couldn't control, mold or handle me because I was too strong willed and minded! He went from a STRONG, BLACK, COLLEGE EDUCATED WOMAN to a DITSY WHITE WOMAN he thought that he could control and mold!! Who in turn [censor]ed up his military career and life! He use to tell me that his next woman was going to be either white or Asian someone who didn't "TALK BACK"! lol! As far as his family, I still talk to his mother that is the most soft spoken, sweetest lady
    I've ever met! Curtis is a PILL!! But I never had a problem with him or anyone else in the family!! He put down a beautiful "SISTER" who had his back, and supported him and all that he did, for a woman who has no education as you can see she can't even spell "SUPPPORT"! And a woman who thought by popping out a few babies, he would change! Yeah right, I had a baby too but he NEVER NEGLECTED US, and she needed something it was bought whether he wanted to buy it or not, or he knew my mom and his mom was going to mess him up!!! As a matter of a fact, he helped me pay for our daughters prom dress, her senior pack for graduation and whatever else I need him to do! It was something about you that made him treat you like the trailer trash that you are! What happened to Jaimie was the works of our GOOD GODD!!! You don't interfer with what God unites! To the people who made comments above, you all are absolutely right, SHE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND GET A LIFE AND TAKE CARE OF ALL THEM KIDS AND GET AN EDUCATION!!! And yes he does HAVE A BIG DICK!! But ALL THE BIG DICK ISN'T WORTH THE ALL THE STRESS! Let the past stay in the past! I moved on and I couldn't be happier, our dauaghter is a 3rd year law student she wasn't scarred or damaged by his jacked up ways, she's like him though!, and I'm married to someone great! You should have stuck with your own race and you may not have went through any of this!!! Don't look for the WORLD to give you sympathy, because you brought all of this on yoursel[censored] God is a GOOD GOD and He sure don't LIKE UGLY!!! Grow up, get in church, and stop posting your mistakes, your problems that happened years ago, on the web and get them kids into counseling if they are that messed up to where they have to get disabilty checks! It sounds like your trying to find some free money since you can't get any from him!!! GET A JOB!!! Welcome to MC DONALD'S!!! Be Blessed

  • Ur
      8th of Apr, 2011
    0 Votes

    Only you cares about how I spell! As far as taking your husband, you messed that up by writing bad checks and seeing a man named Rico! I saw the proof so you messed up his military career and his bank account! I was raised by a wonderful mother and got my education, but for some reason you want to make it a point that I was not.Dont blame me because you messed up your marriage to him by letting other men inside you that wasnt your hubby! And the man had to be brought back from duty.Tell the whole thing honey not what you want them to hear.I believe your GOD says only he can judge.My goddess sent me a very good man.Me and my babies couldnt ask for a better life!And your a racist!!!But you know what you can do, shove it cause i know you like it that way HOE! and as for your daughter, shes yours and your stepfathers not Gilberts!!!I love black men and soooo do alot of other women, dont be jealous get over it in 2011.its people like you that makes my childrens life hard with your racist [censor].You go to your church and pray to your god for forgiveness that you cheated on gilbert and you judge others!!!Your GOD sure doesnt like ugly does he? Dramatic scank!!!whose daughter is NOT GILBERTS!!!ITS YOUR STEPFATHERS!!!only your kind of trailor trash has kids with their parent!!!So make sure your life is good to go befor you talk [censor] to me.

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