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Gary Direnfeld tv host, author, columnist for Hamilton Spectator and private practice therapist has plead guilty to 12 counts of professional misconduct with the Ontario College of Social Workers.  The College calls Mr. Direnfeld's case unprecedented and his actions dishonourable and disgraceful.  The case is still in session at the College today.  Members of the panel will decide an appropriate discipline of Mr. Direnfeld.

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I was abused verbally, overcharged, had do listen to a 1/2 hour of his beating his chest over his accomplishments, recorded against my wishes and our session was continually being barged in on by his wife. I was left to feel like I was unworthy, insignificant, invisible and of no value whatsoever. At the end, he told me how lucky I was to have seen him and...

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I am trying to reach a member on this board, John_Smit. I need to reach him since his posting of July 5, 2015.

Mr Smit shares that he was asked to leave Direnfelds office. Though not of a sexual component my husband was also asked to leave his office and wait in his hallway during sessions with his ex wife.

Fortunately Gary's strategy of collusion was left to be recorded as my husband waited to be invited back in.

Anyone who has a similar complaint/s please message here and to me personally.

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Sep 10, 2015 11:48 am EDT

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, HELP STOP THIS MONSTER BEFORE ANOTHER HUMAN LOSSES THEIR LIFE!

SUBMIT YOUR COMPLAINT IN WRITING TO:

Ms. Marlene Zagdanski, Director, Complaints & Discipline, Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers 250 Bloor Street E., Suite 1000 Toronto, On M4W1E6 Re: Complaint - I. Gary Direnfeld, ...

If you want to speak to someone who can help direct you to other victims, please send email to:
iliosellas5@gmail.com

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Just had to let everyone know that after perseverance there now is a group who has finally located one and other to band together against gary direnfeld. Please go to public vs direnfeld on facebook. Our newest find is maganey... Thank you maganey you are very very brave! Gary direnfeld must be stopped. He destroys lives daily... Every day a new contract...

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Mr Direnfeld is a very sick man. Mr Direnfeld was finally removed based on his conflict of interest on another file and allowing us to enter in to a contract with him without disclosure. He has since been removed. Please read the letter posted below, Dear Sir, A very disturbing matter has recently developed with my husband and Gary Direnfeld who ha...

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I sought out an appointment with gary direnfeld as I was engaged to a man with whom I had a 10 month old baby, and various anger management issues, etc., had gone beyond what I could manage on my own (since the birth of my son), and I had seen gary on tv and had appreciated his calm, forthright manner with the couples. My son's dad and I had already been to...

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Gary Direnfeld abuse of power

Keep in mind these are my opinions and mine alone. You need to formulate your own!

This man should have his license revoked as well as jailed for the misuse of power he continues to abuse! If you are a male do all you can to avoid usig this egomaniac in your divorce case. He will with certainty paint all fathers as abusive, and controlling. He will do all he can to engage you in his dungeon he calls an office, which coincidentally he runs from his house!

He will bore you with fabels from garlic, to a stupid analogy of "constantly being kicked in the groin" etc.

He will do all he can to burn through your 3 hour time limit and settle nothing, or at the very least settle on issues she wants resolved and will always favor her wishes! Once you burn through what little cash flow you have (because you are already having problems making ends meet with support payments, child care expenses of your own, your lawyers bills, your daily expenses for you to survive) etc.
He will kick you out of the process because you can no longer afford to pay for the service and will hold closed door sessions with your ex wife and will side with her on all issues!

Avoid this creep! He thinks hes an expert on everything! If you try to find anything on the internet written against him. You will find it difficult as he has done all he can to eliminate any bad mouthing of him on the internet... He threatens to sue anybody who has anything bad to say about him!

As a father embroiled in a divorce you just want the ex out of your life, all the while keeping her in check so that your kids are not adversely affected by her using them to get at you.

In the end I can not stress how important it is to never use this man and to ensure anybody you know is made aware of the havoc he can create if allowed to enter your lives...

Good luck...

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Jul 21, 2013 3:35 pm EDT

The comment above is probably written by him (Gary D) or his wife. The Guy is truly an narcissist who is out of control and should have his license revoked before he destroys other families, especially children. He works closely with CAS Hamilton, where is used to do their dirty work. He claims to be an expert publishing the opinion of "some" of the judges, who have agreed with him (3 of them) but he fails to publish the 99% of the judges opinions, who think this guy is a clown and should have his silence revoked!
His "opinion" in any spousal issue, is that the man is a narcissist and the women is the victim; can't go wrong with that "selling feature" in modern day society: According to him and many women's groups, men ARE ALWAYS the perpetrators and women are the victims. That is not to say that some men are not bad but if you admit that 99% of men are as this monster claims, then only "castrated" males like him, should exist: It is idiots like this monster, who create upheavals in our communities. BUT, Gary D. does have a purpose to all this, "money" at 300$/hour, he is cleaning up and with it his popularity grows, he has found the key to success is exploiting the weak: If he declares that a man is a narcissist, then ANYTHING that person says in his defense Gary D., will claim it is the narcissistic personality speaking - game over! I wonder if it is legal for him to make such a psychological evaluation when he is not a licensed psychologist; this should be reviewed by the Discipline Committee of the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.
http://www.ocswssw.org/en/complaints.htm

If anyone is a narcissists, it is this clown; have a look at his web sites on how he promotes himself, a true narcissist! Gary, I choose to publish this comment anonymously but if you think this is unjust, please publish a comment to this effect here on this site. My challenge to you would be let's both go before an neutral third party, psychologist for an evaluation and see who of us has psychological issues, especially being a narcissist: On the proviso, we allow the results to go public. I challenge you as a coward, one who will not go on record to have this done because you know of the outcome! STOP EXPLOITING THE PUBLIC, DESTROYING FAMILIES AND CHILDREN IN THE PROCESS!
If you read this comment and have been abused by this monster, PLEASE file a complaint with the Discipline Committee of the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.
http://www.ocswssw.org/en/complaints.htm
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I have been to see Gary on a few occasions and have found him to be extremely knowledgable and fair in his analysis of my personalmand relationship issues. My husband came with me and he in no way ganged up on him because he's a man. He called me on my issues and did the same for my husband. We did what he said and it saved our marriage. It sounds to me like you choose not to listen to him because you didn't like what he had to say. He tells it like it is, which I find refreshing from the pool of other useless therapists, who will drag out therapy for years and offer no advice. Maybe you need to start listening more and absorbing some of what he and you ex have tried to tell you. He charged us by our income on a sliding scale and didn't try to drag on our time together. If you make the changes he suggests it will help. If you choose not to listen, well you got result he likely tried to spare you from.

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This man misrepresents himself as an 'expert' in family relationships post-divorce. He lists 'RSW' in his associations. He acts against the rules and regulations of the Ontario College of Social Workers. He calls himself an arbitrator. He uses his self-inflated sense of importance to bully and abuse hapless parents at their weakest emotional state. Some of...

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