oh friend finder is a joke... really.. not only that. why are people looking for.. ? nothing. most are loser anyway. and everyone wants something that may not exist. look at to much hollywood crap you ask me. people are people.. they breath, eat, work, have issues, like every other american . or non american. geesh. lets get real people it's sad and everyone has a Modis Operandi on these sites. vultures, creatures, what ever. and they make it bad for the ones that are good people. I like the song by the eurythemics .. :Everybody's looking for something?