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Married three times. Possibly four now? Lied to each wife about how awful, dishonest, hurtful the one before was. He just needs someone to understand him...his father abandoned him when he was just a child...he's a nice guy...cares about his community...loves his kids even though their "evil" mothers stop them from seeing their father...goes to church every Sunday...takes care of his mother and grandmother...seems great on the surface. And even just below the surface, if you're the type of woman to inquire a little and be cautious when you realize that you're falling in love with him...
Well, those statements above? Those descriptions he gave about his past and current life? One truth, two half-truths…the rest are complete lies. This "Christian" man, this "honest" police officer has three kids, each by different mothers (only two of them wives). Which by itself doesn't make him a bad guy...unless of course, he's lied to all of these women, sees two of his kids maybe once a year each, if that...one of the mothers actually fled the state. He has convinced at least three women to actually join their lives to his (and hurt numerous others), only to "change his mind" literally without any warning or concern about the effects of his actions...and then he skulks away. Basically, he is a "make-her-love-and-trust-me, stroke my ego, take advantage of her financially until she has nothing left, and then move on to the next gullible person" type of man. And now he’s set his sights on a woman in the Northeast...who has no idea about his past here in Texas.
So sadly, at least five of the women I know about (which includes two of the wives) are strong, intelligent, professional women, not easily duped, who would never have thought they'd fall for a guy like this. That’s probably the hardest part. We are all women, who before this, would have said, “I’d never let a man treat me that way!” Now we have to face that we DID. That woman that we used to think should have been smarter, less gullible, more careful, less idealistic? Each of us has now been “her” at some point. Now we're all a statistic...he doesn't care about being married multiple times, but as Christian women who believe in the sanctity of marriage, we're left broken-hearted, angry at ourselves, embarrassed, possibly stigmatized (it is conservative Texas after all), trying hard to understand God’s will…. And we have nothing to show for the marriage, but egg on our faces and our empty bank accounts. Meanwhile, he's perfectly okay, ready and able to mess over the next woman who believes his nice guy, trustworthy cop, unlucky-in-love act.
We’re not asking for anyone to agree with us or feel sorry for us. We also know that it’s likely many women won’t believe us. But our hope is that at least one woman who begins to date this man will at some point Google his name and come across this posting. If you do, you can go down the courthouse in Houston and see the marriage licenses and divorce decrees for yourself.
Below are a few dates and facts to help you on your search and to confirm that we are telling the truth. Dates with periods (.) are certain. Dates with question marks (?) are approximate (if the estimated information is not found, try the year before or the year after). We’ve tried to put enough here so that a person can find and verify what we’re saying, but not enough to let innocent people or their children be identified online….
Born in Detroit, Michigan, November 1959.
1st Marriage – Date of marriage not certain.
One child during marriage - born 1977?
Divorced wife.
Second child - January 1995?
2nd Marriage – March 1996.
Divorced wife.
Third Child - January 1998?
3rd Marriage – September 1999.
Divorced wife – November 2003.
4th Marriage – Massachusetts or Maine 2006/2007?
These seems like large gaps, right. Like maybe not a pattern of behavior, but rather a man who keeps trying to find love?
Please keep in mind that these are only the women he MARRIED. Those that had enough money and resources that he could benefit from marrying them…. But if you count the women he was dating in between marriages, and those he dated WHILE he was married, there is no doubt that he is a PREDATOR. Recently, he dated one of us for several years, knowing she wanted marriage and a child, never disclosing that he had had a vasectomy. Once her money was gone, so was he…. Unfortunately, this information is just the TIP of the iceberg. Dig a little and you won’t believe what you’ll find.
Anyone with additional information to help warn other women out there? As long as it’s true and verifiable, please add it. Please don’t post any untruths or exaggerations, even if you have a right to be angry with him, because it will only make the true things less believable. And then, more innocent women will suffer….
So doubt us if you will, but please just check into what we’re saying. Or at least keep it in the back of your mind and be careful…keep your eyes open.
Please…take care and God bless.
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Dewitt Salter IV, but he is commonly known by others as Terry or T, is a Texas, board-certified, Registered Nurse. He goes to work intoxicated, high on marijuana that he smoked from a vape pen, and/or prescription pills that are not prescribed to him such as anxiety medication and muscle relaxers. He comes off to others as an intelligent man in his mid to late 30s, helpful, and genuine. However, during work hours at the several Emergency Rooms he works out of in North Texas over the years, he has had sexual intercourse with the women that he is working with nearly, if not every time he is there. He preys on singe mothers, empaths, the front desk women at his jobs that don't make much money (whom he gives money to), and just downright women that are in a sticky situation in their lives. He constantly is talking sexually to many women at a time, lying to each one of them that they are the only one that matters to him. He will make you believe that you are the only one and the other women that come forth are "crazy." He has a Sexual Assault case in Dallas that has been pending since December of 2017, potential CPS cases that were filed against him, protective orders, and possession of an illegal substance case in 2021. This man will coax you into believing what a spiritual man he is, but in reality he is abusive towards women and children. He has strangled women, pinned women against the floor or walls, sexually assaulted women, stalked women at their places of business or homes, and hit them with open or closed fists or objects. If that wasn't bad enough, he has information on women that if it were to be made public to co workers or their family and friends, it would be defaming. He states to these women that if they wrong him in any way that he will send out that information. He keeps women under this delusion that you will be a family, he will buy land, build a house, and you both will live happily ever after. Do not believe this fantasy. While the land purchase may come, he has stated to women that he will get them on the land far away so "no one can hear them." He drinks and drives many days of the week as well. This man is dangerous, and to be working on patients day in and day out with all these instances, is terrifying. Consider this information before you get involved with this man, or seriously consider detaching yourself from him.
Whatever you do, Please do not give this man your ear or tell him anything personal.
Poor, Terry (T) works 2 jobs so he can take care of Momma and his Grandma. His Dad mistreated him and is such a horrible person. He is not allowed to see his daughter. “Feel” bad for me. I am so miss understood. “I didn’t do anything,” to deserve any of this treatment. He will always play a victim. Imma take a “L”. At every freestanding he has worked at there are women that he is intimately linked to. Even to have the point he has sex with them in the facility they work in. Drives drunk. Chooses to work bedside on patients extremely intoxicated.
He will convince people what a great guy he is. If only, you could look and listen through the glass windows at the house. You will learn. Even if it is the hard way.
Think history repeats itself? Just as long as you play your part in his world. Give him props and admiration he deserves. Cause you know, “he earned that.” He will have you believe that, “you we are in a “committed” relationship.” All the while you’re in it by yourself. The words that come out of his mouth are slick as butter. He will make you feel special, desired, protected, wanted, and understood. For several months it feels like you found your “soulmate.” Proposes to you on one knee. Holding your ring finger in the bedroom. The next day he takes you to James Avery to buy the ring you want. The amount of oxytocin running through your mind. Feels like you are floating on CLOUD 9. He paints the picture of a great future together. Buy land together. Grow plants to live off the land. (All the while he is telling several women the same exact script and giving them money). Such a great painted facade. You know the ending right? Nobody will ever hear you. Have his son the “V” and a baby girl within the next 4 years. Preferably the baby girl first. Because it will make him feel better. Let’s not forget both children have to be born in August. He will calculate the ovulation to be in November of course.
A great day spent together will eventually turn into an ordeal. Out of nowhere he starts raging with anger. While he is yelling and screaming he says, “you are stupid, good for nothing, and you’re selfish.” What about his feelings?! (Did he not just express his feelings?) In the back of your head your thinking what and how did this just happen. He is 36 year old man child. When things do not go his way WATCH OUT! He has to have control.
Take note that his phone is always on silent or not on him. (Hiding something?)He is always on the prowl to satisfy his ego. As soon as you turn around (while in his bed) he is on his phone texting other women. While he says, “It is only you.” Understand he is simultaneously “with” plethora of women. To the extent of meeting up with 2-4 or more of them in a 12hr day. Is he MIA on a day that you had plans or ghosts you? TRUST- When you do not fulfill what his needs are. He believes the other women will. Confront him he will claim to live and die by the “G” code. Deny, lie, & deny (repeat).He is not by any means or definition a G. Got proof of any of the deceitful things he has done?. It does not matter. He will continue to spit his game to another female in front of you. Ask him about it? “It wasn’t me.” Yeah ok Shaggy. What is this a plyg group?! I know I did not sign up for one. Nor did any of the other women signup for one. A player would boss up. He is not a player. More like an emotional terrorist toddler with hormones and lots to say.
Who in their right mind would tolerate being handled like a rag doll. Pinned down to the ground, put up against the wall, only to be put on the floor again. Picking up the pieces of humility that is left inside. He will try to smear your character with anyone who is willing listen to his stories. Parents, children, cousins, nieces, nephew, and friends. That is exactly what it is. His side of a story. Ask around. Someone is always willing to speak up, IMMEDIATELY! He will tell anyone who listen to him that you’re his crazy ex who is infatuated with him. All the while he is making the adjustments to win you back. A multitude of NO CALLER ID phone calls. All times of the day/night. Showing up at the job/home to profess his “love.” Telling you to call in sick to work. He will pay that days wage. Talk about leading a double life. He will not hesitate to lie, cheat ,deceive, gaslight, and exploit you at every turn. Being treated like an object. Nothing more. When he is mean to you he is being nice to another and vice versa. The game of dog chases the cat. When the dog finally pounces the cat his games begin and the brain fog sets in.
It is sad to say that he claimed to have Prostate cancer and is having chemo and radiation therapy with only six months to live.
He is TREACHEROUS and a FRAUD.
Pay close attention what he says and his routines. He tells on himself.
Unless you have been linked to him you will not understand. The level of disrespect is REAL. Doubt this post and the one above about Dewitt Terry Salter IV if you will. It is in your best interest to swipe left. Do not entertain him. Take it up four notches and educate yourself about the statue of limitations.
I dated his son for about 2 years. great man, respectable, hard worker, etc. grant it I didn't know much of his personal life, even if this things are true, no one is perfect. hard to say when you've been cheated on an lied to, but that's the reality of it. it's not up to you or anyone else to try and condemn or slander a person; if that's the case then every person on earth should be on this forum. take it for what it is. don't question a persons Christianity. he is a Christian man, who makes mistakes. like all Christians. prayer is the best thing you can do if you feel this way about him. were all children of God, and we lose our way sometimes. i know it's a painful situation, especially if you're the woman in which this "happened" to... but you have to rely heavily on faith and move on. bitterness will get you no where.
The person who wrote this does not know Dewitt Salter. He is a very responsible, dedicated, and involved father who has been there for each of his children since the day they were born. I should know because he's my dad. My Dad has not only been a true Loving Dad to my siblings and me, but has helped many other kids. It is not some big secret how many children he has or how many times he has been married. He is a great Dad and a great person.
95% of the information in this rant is totally false. If you would like to clear your facts, come to the source. Better yet, ask all of the sources.