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OkCupid fake profiles

About a month ago, several users messaged me regarding a profile that had verbatim copied my profile, but used different photos. I verified that they had indeed copied my profile and submitted reports daily - sometimes several times a day - to OkCupid using their "Report" feature. I also reached out to the founder through their messaging platform. In light of the "Catfish" scandals that are becoming more and more common day by day, OkCupid has a responsibility to its users to delete fake profiles when it is brought to their attention. In particular, when one user has copied another user's profile verbatim. They have refused to even acknowledge my messages and I want everyone to know about their shady business practices before signing up for this site. The URL of the fake profile is attached to this complaint.

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Nov 15, 2018 5:10 am EST

Ravish Mattoo Alias name Zephyr Me Or way2Zephyr@gmail.com
Caste Kashmiri pandit from j&k (Srinagar)
Age 35yrs D O B 18/07/1983 24/11/1983 either of one
Height 6.2 feet
Marital Status Separated ...but depends on situation it changes
Works as Manager at Gemalto Noida
Presently at Gemalto Canada Safenet. Ottawa ON K2E 7M6 Canada
Contact no +[protected]
Canada +[protected]
Home address
Shipra Suncity, near CISF CAMP INDIRAPURAM, Ghaziabad, Uttar Pradesh 201014 India
Hobbies Watching almost every movie and listening music
Favorite food chola bathura, gobi, icecreams butterscotch&American Nuts
U LIVE IN HOPES AND THE HOPES TAKES OVER
He says he’s single, honest and looking for love.he say's he is like a open book..curious to know everything about your life but never share about his own and if he shares anything that all is just perfect enough to make you believe that its true..
“ I was an easy target.”
“I don’t really know who I was talking to because I discovered he was married . The emotional abuse is devastating.”
Not everybody on the Internet is whom they seem to be.
I meet Mr Ravish Mattoo Online on a site Ok Cupid 3yrs back in 2015 were his status was SEPARATED we talked for about a month or so but things seemed so skeptical his behavior always hiding something that I preferred not to continue talking ... But suddenly few months back 2018 aug.. I got a message on whatsapp “hey how are you” it’s has been 3yrs now he remembered me why is he messaging me out of the blue .. then I thought it been years now people change don’t know what circumstances he had 3years back .. at least I must reply ..he was good to talk to beiside all skeptical behavior .. so I replied.. We started chatting on Whatsapp everything thing was going great entire day chitchatting were we both were very happy that after this long we talking again .. he introduced himself as Single were I had a blurred memory of something SEPARATED.. on asking about the marital status he told me that “he had a school time affair with a girl from J&K .. and after school his dad (who is now a EX SDE from BSNL)got transferred to Noida (UP).. and to keep the relationship alive he use to make frequent visit to j&k to meet the girl .. then the girl for further studies moved to Gwalior and then to Pune ..where he was always connected by webcam chats and talks and frequent visit to place she was studying at .. and one day when she was in Pune and Ravish went to meet the girl she told she is seeing someone else ..which broke his heart and left him in ocean of pain.. the long relationship of 11years is gone.. and for what reason he put so much effort .. and she left him without any reason ...(Now she is married and settled in Australia)”.. this incident make his life upside down and he call himself as SEPARATED for this reason .. and it’s been 5 years now he never got into any relationship and preferred staying SINGLE .Presently as 2018 Ravish Mattoo is in CANADA Ottawa .. and the reason Ravish moved to Ottawa was because the time we left talking in 2015 he felt so bad ..That when the company offered him the opportunity to work in Ottawa Canada he just grabbed it and move away .. the story made me feel bad for him as well made me thought “I never realized that I was so important to him .. he had a bad relationship past and I was so rude and ignorant in the past .. let this be a new start” after few chats we started with voice calls which soon was in video calls for hours and hours long .. sharing Selfies ..Voice calls or Whatsapp chat was all day long .Ottawa time going to the office morning 9 O’clock a video call .. this was fixed rest there were no number and time frame for our talks ... everything was amazing .. we started thinking that at this age he is 35 I am 34 we can seriously look for a future together get married have family.. we love each other’s company .. we both are Single we can have a great future together ...but something was not right Ravish never use to answer my calls in front of his friends on weekends he seemed some sort of mystery .. whereas during office days and hours he gave me ample of time but why is he keeping this so secretive.. why is he not sharing with his friends .. he is making futuristic plans he is planing coming to my place spending time together meeting parents . Some grand destination wedding plans ..kids .. fantasies .. sex .. he is so much into this relationship so serious then why is he hiding from his friends ... why is he a total different person the way he behaves everything made me very suspicious..never sharing name of his friends .. the first fight we had was on 13th sep when Ravish was gone DC to help his extended family in shifting to Chicago.. and no calls hardly any messages .. is he so busy he don’t have 5min for me .. and then this sort of behavior was often and skeptical which was the reason for fight on every weekend .. and suddenly he wanted to over this relationship he thought it was not worth .. blaming everything on me my behavior..I was heart broken thinking what I did wrong .. was I expecting too much .. was I too demanding ... I spoiled everything .. I hurted him ... how can I be so childish .. he needed his personal space and time I was just over demanding..he had a bad past a 11year relationship which didn’t work .. might be he want to be sure before disclosing our relationship in front of other ..
BUT then I saw him not on indian whatapp number but on the ottawa whatsapp number the entire time chitchatting with some one else the way it was with me..(Ravish was too tired talking to me but busy managing being online entire day) I thought let me explore things instead of blaming myself and ease my pain .. the facts which came were shocking and dirty dirty truth which was never expected .. MR Ravish Mattoo was married from last 7-8 years don’t know separated or divorced or whatsoever ..his society were his parents live in not much of information about Ravish’s wife or past was known ...he framed me but for what reason for fun Casual hook up for some phone sex, orgasm on video calls, sharing naked pics ..which he was not able to get from me and lost his interest soon and moved for a new target .. good I got saved that was the only reason he never talked in front of his friend living a double life .. when he ended things with me he said I know you are a good person at heart don’t let insecurities impact your life .. be positive live life happily .. take care baby ... and the day I messaged him telling his truth he was not ashamed for what he did .. he blamed me again Saying “Are you trying to defame my family and eventually kill them?“ And when I asked for what reason he did this breaking my trust, love hopes, breaking me .. he so emotionlessly answered “I never wanted to on purpose. I have never wanted to harm you in any way. And I am not sure if you realize this or not.” Goshhh .. I really don’t know how Ravish plans to use my Selfies ...but that’s all what he is doing as a source of entertainment fun in his life I am just one among many girls who must have been a victim of this narcissist, Self-centered, male chauvinist, Sex addict, charming, knowledgeable, expert lair..who will slowly take your heart away and ask you to show yourself on video calls send dirty pictures ...masturabate ...

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Jun 26, 2015 10:36 pm EDT
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Does anyone know if this person is a scam. Goes by the name Lyn. Philippines

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Jun 29, 2014 11:07 am EDT
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i agree theres alota scams on ok cupid, i had 1 girl turn me down cause of my photo, well she brought in a friend who said sorry to bother you but n2women13 did that crap to me, did you report her? shortly after n2women13 disappeard then this last month showed up with mejgirl, they have known each other all this time proably longer, before they both disapeared, mejgirl before she deleted her account cause her & her girl were getting serious, how serious? your still on the site. anyhow i wondered if there was a legit way to check ages on these groups of girls cause most are not women, pretty sure the 2 i had playing me are 16 or 17 someone helped with the profiles, got fake pics, i am in no way hurt but the thought of those 2 kids make me sick, talk about chicken ### mejgirl said some things i am glad i did not read then she deleted her fake account before i could reply that was the plan. i know theres alota worse stories out there, i want a beautiful intelligent fun loving woman, not these 2 girls with undeveloped brains, who are liers, frauds, fakes & snakes, & proably hook on the side, & do drugs.

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OkCupid deletes you account

OKCupid is so automated that they just delete accounts without warning based on some computer-generated flag. There is no instructions provided on how to use the site (signing off or multiple browsers) and there is no customer support to help you after you have invested time into creating a profile. This is the worst dating site ever!

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Aug 28, 2017 12:38 am EDT

Same problem; I haven't even sent any messages or replied to any post! I just liked and bookmarked a few profiles and answered about 300 questions of them on different topics; nothing on my profile was offensive in no possible way. But I'm banned for some unimaginable reason! It's really disrespectful that they don't even explain the reason for banning you. We need an alternative to this ------ site.

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Jan 24, 2014 8:51 pm EST
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my account was deleted from ok cupid for no reason and they gave no explanation. they also did not respond to any of my inquiring emails!

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OkCupid - deleted account

I have the same problem with okcupid as another person here. They seem to have banned me from the site with no apparent reason after about one week. I cannot access the site from any browser, with or without cookies. The message i am given is "we're having technical difficulties, check back later". It has been about 5 days. If i try to get in from a link...

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OkCupid - account deletion

Let me tell you about OKCupid... I've had a dozen different profiles on there, basically because, well, the a!*#$le "moderators" keep deleting them! They last between 3 days to 3 weeks then you Can't log in for "technical difficulties" I've never violated their rules. In fact, I've nicely polished off my profile, generously expanding and adding things to...

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OkCupid oppression of unattractive men

They design the entire site around females and attractive men. They only enforce their "rules" against men they deem unattractive. They make it as hard as they can for unattractive men to find people. If you break even the most minor rule they ban you on the spot but they don't even have the nerve to tell that you are banned. They just delete your scree name and say they are having "Technical Difficulties." Meanwhile female members and attractive male members can break almost any rule other than the nudity one and the mods will do nothing. They discriminate against men they deem unattractive and I ask that all men who use that site to take down your picture so they cannot judge and discriminate against you. I put up a picture of a bug on my pants as a joke. Within minutes I had moderators from multiple states in my account deleting the picture and disabling my ability to message people. This was from 2 girls reporting it. I reported a girl who had a pet as a picture. I waited and waited, nothing happened. Just more proof of their discrimination against men they deem unattractive. Remember, women consider 80% of men on Okcupid as unattractive so you may think you are attractive but the odds are, you aren't to them.

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Sep 28, 2013 8:29 am EDT

I agree 100 percent Rob 783, they completely discriminate against men. This is actually the IAC corporate policy of all of their websites. Discriminate against men... but its exponential discrimination on the free sites. Why? Then, you will buy or keep active your subscription to their pay sites. It's that simple... customer service on IAC dating sites like Match.com even admit it. Hey, they don't pay those over seas Indian helpers enough to hide the truth. Women get special treatment, men get scammed.

The ultimate proof is what the moderator above replies! "we sometimes give people a break if they have multiple pictures but also have a pet or bug..." and that is ###. He had other pictures, he had a NON NUDE (bug was on PANTS as a joke) picture, and he was banned. Look through all the fake, old profiles of women long gone from the site, and you can still see them getting away with whatever pics they want. Not so for men, they get banned immediately and with no recourse. It's all about the money and cashing in on people who are sad and lonely. IAC is the ### of the earth, and if you "moderate" for them you ought to quit ruining your own karma, if you believe in anything.

And this moderator doesn't even know what he's talking about... here's a lovely stat of his ... there are more men (I THINK?) really, do you think? I don't THINK you do.

On an IAC dating site, any woman can complain and you will be officially warned once, and then when the second one hits you will be banned without recourse. It's that simple and it's at all ten of their dating sites.

It doesn't matter if the second woman is just another false profile that the same woman creates. No one cares or investigates for the above mentioned monetary reason. And, much worse and more discriminatory, you can get warned once for something as harmless as a bug on your pants... and then, six months later a woman complains or flags about something harmless... and you are gone. This is the policy and it is not the same for women at all. Don't believe it? Ask any IAC dating site customer service rep. and listen for the truth.

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Dec 16, 2012 2:21 am EST

The moderators are just other users. I'm a moderator. Even though the rule is to delete anything other than a (non-nude) picture of the user, we sometimes give people a break if they have multiple clear, real pictures of themselves up, but also have a pet, or a bug, or whatever. Also, if you try to use the pet/bug picture as your main profile picture, that's more likely to get thrown out.

As for women and good looking men getting more breaks than unattractive men, well, I suppose there's a human element, so maybe there is bias. But I can assure you that at least as many women are banned every day as men. Really. Since there are more men on the site (I think?), there are more people looking at (and flagging) women. At least half the flags are for women's sites.

Anyway -- not much help, I guess, but just some info...

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OkCupid scammers!

I joined OKCupid last week. Within a day I had met 3 different men who all seemed nice and genuine! One said he was a Major General in the Army, 51 years old, sent me some really nice pictures, and said he would be retiring in 2 months. I felt suspicious at this dating game, so I googled "major generals of the Army". Much to my surprise, I found several photos of the man I had met (different name of course). The general is actually retired and 67 years old! I found the real retired general on another search and let him know what was going on, and gave him the email address being used by an imposter.
The 2nd contact did not exist where he told me he did. I was told by him to text him at a number which turned out to be a landline. He said he was 51 and was very nice to chat with. There was a man by his name who lived in his hometown but he is 32. (I am 51).
The last man who contacted me was not only the nicest guy, but also the scariest of all. I did a whole criminal background check on him and he has over 10 felonies and at least 3 of those are class x! A lot of theft, and domestic battery! (and he lives very close to me!). How he is not in prison, I don't know!
If anyone uses this site, they need to #1. don't give out your phone #! # 2. do your homework and spend a little money to do a background check and #3. get the hell OFF of this FREE site. As they say, if it sounds too good. it probably is!

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Feb 03, 2016 10:18 pm EST
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This guy is on the Okcupid.com website as Alesmark or Aleski123. Very smooth talker. He has a real good scam going. He was heading to Istanbul, Turkey on a business trip. Has a letter to back up an "oil contract" he was awarded from Shell Oil UK. Sent me copies of his airline ticket. Started with problems as soon as he got there. All kinds of sob stories. Having to pay lawyers, fines, hotel bill, got thrown in jail and needed bond money, there was a mob guy that he owed money to. He needed money to get back home. Didn't have money to eat. And finally was held at the Anaturk Airport by Immigration for overstaying his VISA. Scammed $7, 000.00 from me. He had four accomplices. An interpreter named Oscar Arebun, his secretary Gladys Idemudia, a kid named Gift and a guy from the "bank". They had a whole network going on. Complete with internet websites from the airlines to the bank. Fake bank account. Claiming to have an offshore bank account. So, if you've seen this guy. Beware. He hides behind being "a man of God". That's how I was scammed. I think he works for an organization of individual who are all scammers. Because in the beginning he claimed that he called me from work and I could hear lots of commotion like you'd hear at a call center.

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Ellensburg, US
Oct 25, 2014 5:40 pm EDT
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SCAMMER: A_Steve007
Phone # [protected] from Phoenix (supposedly currently working in West Africa and his son, Nelson, is living with him)
Asked my for $$
Took profile OFF OKCupid after we started chatting

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Cocoa Beach, US
Jul 10, 2014 10:49 pm EDT
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Yes for men it is even worse - for every man with fake profile there are 100 women using pictures NOT of themselves but porn stars and models such as Adrienne Manning, Lia 19 and many others(ofcourse the person actually doing the scamming could be a male posing as female - one has no way of knowing). Ofcourse okcupit is not the only and probably not the biggest offender of this.For example Zoosk, match.com, and Facebook has so many females who put a profile with pic's of porn stars and models claiming them to be pictures of themselves. Now it would be very easy for match and facebook and others to use the automatic picture scanner :http://www.google.com/imghp?hl=en&tab=wi to get a readout which will come up with the celebrity associated with the picture. For example I have heard that the owner/founder of facebook M.Zuckenberg or some like that is worth over 10 million dollars so it is likely the company is worth a million or more and they could very easily implement this type of check along with match.com, Zoosk and others ! Also all these scammer girls always end up asking you for money - i have been taken for a total of about $64, 000 from them.

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OkCupid low quality

OkCupid is a strange name for a site, like some Russian or Nigerian not so comfy with English would come up with. And it's not quite free: you have to pay for the best features – IM (Instant Message) included -- that are free on other sites. It has alot of ghost members: the ones with just a nickname and no profile, while others didn't login for the past 4 to 14 months. I contacted them 3 times and they never answered, so I gave up on them: as for Customer Support they are a big 0 (zero).
Their matching system is dubious to say the least (apparently they use an infantile algorithm). And Spam is rampant ...

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Dec 16, 2012 2:59 am EST

Oops, sorry, I guess I was responding to the other commenter.

You do NOT have to pay to IM on OKCupid -- how'd you come up with that? IM might not work from your phone, but that's your phone. Use a computer.

As to people with a nickname, but no profile, who hasn't logged on for months -- WHY are you trying to contact those people? The only thing I can think of is they have a picture up that you like. Is that it? Okay, so you're a shallow loser, and so are they. What's the problem?

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Dec 16, 2012 2:53 am EST

OMG. Ok... These aren't "fake" or "ghost" profiles -- they're just not good ones. What does it have to do with you? How does it affect you? So, they don't put a picture up (you don't have to), and they don't fill out the essays (they don't have to). They answer questions so they can be shown the people who might be of interest to them. What's confusing about that? I can understand people (especially female) who want to do the picking, not be contacted by strangers.

This "shooting gallery" as you call it, is dumb, but harmless. I don't know what you think is "very clever" about it... It's pictures of people, that you can rate, if you want to. No one is told that they've gotten a low score -- you're only told if someone scored you a 4 or 5. How in the world is that cruel? Just don't do it (I don't).

If everyone you try to contact isn't contacting you back, could it be because YOU'RE the shallow one? Or just as shallow as them? Do you write to average looking girls, or to the same top 10% that everyone else writes to, too.

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Long Beach, US
Apr 13, 2012 3:46 am EDT
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Okcupid is a Great Big Old Scam... I've complained on this board elesewhere about the site... I very recently returned to it just to see if anything had changed? But, Noooo... Same Old, Same Old... In fact, over the past month or so, I've even seen at least three of those Empty or "Ghost" profiles ANSWER A QUESTION! Like, how does an "Icon", -- No profile, No picture, No Data answer a question, e.g., "23 minutes ago", etc.? It's simply a "Formula", a "Shooting Gallery", like mechanical Ducks at a carnival shooting Booth... The profiles simply circulate and randomly "Pop up" for you to take a "Shot at", etc. Then, they collapse down and circle around again for the next one to "Pop up", etc. Very clever, but very CRUEL, because you are playing with people's emotions. Of course, some people are going to connect on there, however, I think very, very FEW... The majority of people on there probably just "give up" and move on, disappointed.

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OkCupid fake/false profiles

Fake user profiles should be exposed! I have lodged a complaint with screenshots as evidence, but so far the admins from the site have not contacted me or acknowledged my complaint. The user "Jollily" on OkCupid recently (up until a few days ago) used a fake photograph of a different woman in order to lure innocent and trusting men to her. I was one of her victims. she is still active on this site, and still won't use her own photo! ID verification should be across the board - be wary of sites that don't take fraud seriously. The attached photo of the blond girl is the fake photo she used. The OTHER photo of the woman with dark hair is apparently her real photo, because that is what she sent to me afterwards. I fell for this person and her deception caused me a lot of hearbreak and sorrow.

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OkCupid harassment cyberbullying hackers

On january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site…i couldn’t understand why i followed proper guidelines…to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, “my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled “And the psycho profile award goes to”…once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page…i was engraged and afraid…i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me…instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats…along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason…he made a link by the name “this is a mustache” in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears…now my photo was being harassed as well…i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well…i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times….my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me…okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation…i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities…and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it…also threats were said such as, “blood on the streets” and “i stole josie’s ip address” ” i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets” i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on…i am fearful of going through this torture again…why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one…instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked…it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me…i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it…how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment… it is not fair and unjust… isn’t there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason…this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else’s…i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events…i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come…i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report…no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed…please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet…no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley…okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency…i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook…why aren’t any of them resloving this matter?…since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are…i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it…i don’t understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women….women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it…how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user’s actions…thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue…

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OkCupid harrassment

on january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site…i couldn’t understand why i followed proper guidelines…to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, “my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled “And the psycho profile award goes to”…once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page…i was engraged and afraid…i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me…instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats…along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason…he made a link by the name “this is a mustache” in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears…now my photo was being harassed as well…i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well…i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times….my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me…okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation…i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities…and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it…also threats were said such as, “blood on the streets” and “i stole josie’s ip address” ” i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets” i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on…i am fearful of going through this torture again…why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one…instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked…it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me…i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it…how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment… it is not fair and unjust… isn’t there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason…this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else’s…i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events…i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come…i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report…no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed…please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet…no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley…okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency…i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook…why aren’t any of them resloving this matter?…since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are…i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it…i don’t understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women….women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it…how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user’s actions…thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue…

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OkCupid continuing cyberstalking

As you all know after joing the dating website www.okcupid.com i have been having some ongoing issues and i just want to make everyone aware some more of what you can go through...users from the dating website okcupid are still stalking me and now took my youtube video after i disabled embedded on there and are using it...just beware of these unstable stalkers on the net that won't leave me alone...and keep following me...you can be a victim of this too...i just want to make people aware of what can happen to you after you join www.okcupid.com...from that site as you all know by now the predator(s) is still stalking me...but likes to twist things to make me the blame and feel guilt...typical behavior of a stalker that is seriously looking for a cry for help and should leave me alone but doesn't...i mean why keep stalking me if you this person claims to be so normal...why still keep my photo when you deleted other photos from your journal because he is stalking me in particular...becareful of this cyberstalker you can be apart of this unstable persons abuse and mind games...not to mention the stalker follows me on my blogger where he is not welcome and on my youtube where he is not welcome on there either but hey i tried to change the settings because of this stalker and he still took my youtube on video as you can see in the link below...clearly this stalker has serious issues...i only post to make people aware of what can happen to them and that nobody takes care of it...be safe! XO-josie

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OkCupid cyber stalking and hackers

To all that use www.okcupid.com, let this be known that there are some hackers and cyber stalking people on that site... Stalking is a crime... Okcupid moderators do not remove these stalkers, therefore, letting these hackers take over the site... How would you feel if you were violated in more than one way and could not stop it or get help for it... Stalkers and hackers enjoy abusing their prey... They appear as normal people to throw serious user's off guard... Please becareful! This is no joke and should not continue... There have been many people that complained about this problem... Please read more about this at this blogger...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/

The stalkers and hackers take your photo and mess with it... They also control and report your profile from the dating website, ultimatley giving absolutley no access at all to the site, when you are the victim... The stalker also sexually harasses you... Places nude content on their journals, search for more victims to defame, slander, and abuse... It's a never ending vicious cycle... This can all rest in the hands of either one person or people... This stalker (S) should be banned from any internet service because they abuse it... They should also be jailed and fined... You can be victim of this and not know it... But we are here to help expose such criminals...

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OkCupid okcriminals

It has come to my attention that okcupid should be okcriminals, because every-time I speak to someone, I think I am speaking to a criminal.

So I try to report these criminals, but they still are up to no good. What is a bro supposed to do on a dating website infested with criminals?!

This didn't happen just one time!

I am actually creeped out, and considering going onto another dating website, but now I am too afraid.

If I would have known it was infested with criminals, I would have stayed at the bar.

I thought I was over reacting, so I made another account, but I am still getting these criminals!

Is this possible that I can't meet a true friend without worrying if it's a criminal?!

It's one lie after another, and I can't tolerate this anymore.

At this rate, I am going to have to stay home and read a book!

This dating site made me sad and confused.

Don't go on this site! It is run by criminals!

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Nov 10, 2014 4:23 pm EST

I was on OK Cupid and had 4 different men ask me for a "loan". Their profiles listed them as living in the US but in chatting with them (they usually wanted to use KIK or Yahoo Messenger, I could tell they had very poor grammar- broken English), but claimed to be from the US. The pattern is they will tell you they "love you" early on and then they have to go to anothe country for work. Then they'll feed you some line of crap about not having enough money to get the "contract" for work, their "equipment broke down" or they are on a special mission in the Army in Africa and want to deposit their military check into your account and ask for your bank info. Another guy showed me a pic of $850, 000 check made out to him and said he was good for it, but the bank wouldn't clear the check for 7 days and he needed a loan to pay for his son's hospital bill and he'd pay me back. I asked if his son was still in the hospital, he said yes. I said they don't even know how much the bill is yet since I used to work in hospitals. Then the guy changed his tune and said they were in Europe! SCAMMERS. NEVER loan money or give out bank info. These people are leeches.

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OkCupid too many fake profiles on okcupid and it's misleading!

There are too many fake profiles messing with actual people that want to date on okcupid.

I am tired of speaking to fake people!

This website needs a major cleaning and wipe out of all the fake profiles.

It is misleading.

If it continues to swarm with fake people, there is no sense in keeping this website functioning.

Who are we supposed to date, if we are not talking to a genuine person on okcupid?

Isn't the point of this dating site to find an actual person or friend to date?

How can I, with all these misleading profiles!

Stay away from WWW.Okcupid.com!

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Jean Grae
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May 17, 2015 4:02 pm EDT

Registered last weekend on this Site although I am not done with my profile yet, somebody send me a message who said he is "Honest" to a fail - we exchanged e-mails. On his letter he said he is "Brutally Honest" and expect me to be the same (Brutally Honest). Saw another profile with his Picture on it .On that Profile he is 54 y.old from New York another profile is a 50 y.o from Tel Aviv.They are all looking for someone Honest on there - besides, the messages i received are of similar if not of the same contents. This afternoon I talked to one of their member who said he is a pathologist working under US marine deployed in Doha for a peace keeping mission and told him my experienced on that site. He was really shocked and can´t even believe how people can do such thing . I googled his name, and I found out that he is an Actor and a Producer and even uses ths Persons photos on his profile, OKCupid is 75% scammers who uses other peoples photos to fool and take advantage of other people. Haven´t met a true person since I joined last week. Don´t be fooled by this dating site. Beware.

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OkCupid okcupid never ends

Still ongoing cyberstalking and harassment from okcupid…how is it that this pest is finding me on the internet?…hacking?…possibility that all these profiles are fake and rests in the hands of one deranged cyberstalker…as you can see they refuse to let it go by still speaking about me and posting things about me on the net that are untrue, slanderous, and defaming…therefore making them obsessed about me…typical behavior of a cyberstalker/hacker/predator…since this predator keeps searching and finding me on the net I had to change my identity and make other annonymous accounts and change the settings on my previous accounts so they can leave me alone because I want nothing to do with them, but as you can see they still fail to dismiss the issue and leave me alone…a typical cyberstalker likes to twist things around and make you the stalker or the loon by manipulating your words or the truth to make them the victim and make you feel guilty…once again this is typical cyberstalking behavior…they even took my youtube video and combined it with a coolio song possibly insinuating I am a troubled child when in reality the person doing all these actions against me is super diluded and troubled…furthermore we have to similar statements made from two separate profiles possibly proving that it is one stalker with many profiles talking to themselves all day long with multiple personalities a true chameleon and looking for victims to abuse and project their issues on…the question here is why doesn’t this unfit person leave me alone it’s because they are a cyberstalker that is obsessed with me and I am posting this to make everyone aware of what can happen to you too…this doesn’t make me the loon this makes me the vicimized humanitarian here…and like I said a typical cyberstalker enjoys victimizing his victims over and over plus there are other victims that have complained about this issue on the site…clearly this is an existing issue…so why does okcupid allow this again?…possibly to keep the site functioning to entice people to go on it and get trapped…but how long is this going to on for?…people won’t stand for this much longer and you have to expect someone to voice this just like I am…what kind of marketing skills are these, when one has such pristine educational backround?…they caused this problem and we wouldn’t be here if they never started it…they also try to accuse match.com for this event but I have nothing to do with match.com…so can we say paranoia sets in on their part here? Possibly…. They also claim my photo and I are fake…this does not sound like a normal character…my photo and youtube video are real…if he is fake like he states then why be on a dating site where real people just might be searching for an actual human being to date…plus if people are looking for serious mates, nobody wants to speak to a fake profile because it’s is misleading and messes with ones emotions and mind… if thedating site is doing bad and they have to resort to such petty tactics then it might be time to shut the site down and face reality…if the site is doing great then hats off but this problem needs to end…everytime I make a complaint this unfortunatley feeds into the cyberstalkers obsession because they find me and they look to keep the convo continuing or in their confused world the relationship going on the internet by seeking my attention that they crave…typical cyberstalking behavior…they confuse reality with cyber…it is also a crime…but how long do they plan on cyberstalking me for? Get over the obsession…and get this parasite the clinical psychiatric help that they desperatly need…

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Feb 20, 2011 5:09 am EST

I really think you should stop accussing me, end all contact with me, and move along already...What's the hold up on your part?...I see you enjoy this and that's all you look forward to...Find a complaint that compatible with you. I can't stress this enough...Thee end...

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Elad Madrer
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Aug 13, 2018 8:46 am EDT

I got suspended from okCupid a week after I purchased A-List membership.

I did not violate any rule.
I got no explanation and no answer after I opened a ticket.

The email I used for registration: eladm@onoapps.com

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Mar 02, 2011 3:38 pm EST
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Dear God. First off I couldn't read the entire post at the top BECAUSE OF ALL THE FRIGGIN CAPS.

Cyber stalking? Meh. It's childish and over rated. I was stalked in real life. Got a gun. Ended the stalking for some reason when the guy saw me cleaning it. Go figure.

Stop feeding the monster. Ignore it. If it's all true, call the cops. JUST DON'T FILL OUT YOUR REPORT IN ALL CAPS BECAUSE IT'S HARD AS HELL TO READ AND YOU LOSE INTEREST.

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Touchy610
Winter Garden, US
Feb 28, 2011 3:14 am EST

I met my favorite person ever on OKCupid, but this was a long time ago, when it was still a very little-known site.

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tiffany hughes
New London, US
Feb 27, 2011 5:16 pm EST

omg some creeper took my journal and said i was a call girl.
he even posted someone elses's naked photo with my journal.
i was even receiving odd text messages that i had to pay for.
i had to change my cell phone number.
i will never go on that website again.
i think they are con artists or something.

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georgecaptain57
l.a., US
Feb 27, 2011 5:00 pm EST

Wow! I thought I was the only universe with this problem. First they removed my profile, second they sent me threatening messages, and third they took my photos and made a whole new account with them.
I wrote to the tech's at okcupid, but they never took care of the profile, and the page is still up there with my photos. What are citizens supposed to do? The website is lame too. I was going to delete my profile anyways, but they beat me to it.
This also happened to my co-worker but her fake profile was removed. It's really an outrage.

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D Lawson 912
Butler, US
Feb 27, 2011 1:27 pm EST

Yeah this has happened to me too You do know they take your info and use it don't you. Yeah I found out about it the hadr way They used my name contacted and even called this lady and made a date where she came out to meet me. I had no idea what was going on untill she gave me the info and I checked it out. Had a different pic on my profile some actor or something Yeah they use people

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aa012
, US
Feb 27, 2011 6:17 am EST

Ha ha, no. Is ellagirl a user on OkCupid? I've gotta admit, I barely read this complaint because the caps was hurting my eyes!

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aa012
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Feb 27, 2011 6:06 am EST

I actually met my girlfriend on OkCupid.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 4:00 am EST

So Mica, are you done here, or are you still busy stalking us as usual.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 3:59 am EST

I sense your marriages are stale. Is this how you cope by abusing real women. Wow you must be proud men!

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OkCupid cyberstalkers, stalkers taking my video on youtube and using it

users from the dating website okcupid are still stalking me and now took my youtube video after i disabled embedded on there and are using it...just beware of these unstable stalkers on the net that won't leave me alone...and keep following me...you can be a victim of this too...i just want to make people aware of what can happen to you after you join www.okcupid.com...from that site as you all know by now the predator(s) is still stalking me...but likes to twist things to make me the blame and feel guilt...typical behavior of a stalker that is seriously looking for a cry for help...i mean why keep stalking me if you this person claims to be so normal...i only post to make people aware of what can happen to them and that nobody takes care of it...

http://youtubedoubler.com/?video1=sRYM4zSVQXI&start1=0&video2=-SPVU_M4wtY&start2=0&authorName=Crazy+Monsta

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Shiprock, US
Mar 11, 2012 12:38 am EST
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The hackers went into my personal space, and like it reads they too put a bunch of nude photos with profile and on my email. They even posted this complaint board logo on the site, making a mockery of this site, but I believe these complaints, advice: if you're on OKC get out/off and don't go there again it's not a worth site, they'll rob your identity and smear it with their sick perverted crap. I totally agree with these complaints, not only there but they well go onto other sites as well. following you, they won't show themselves, they do thi from behind a hidden distance, just as the chicken crap they are.

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tiffany hughes
New London, US
Feb 27, 2011 5:17 pm EST

omg some creeper took my journal and said i was a call girl.
he even posted someone elses's naked photo with my journal.
i was even receiving odd text messages that i had to pay for.
i had to change my cell phone number.
i will never go on that website again.
i think they are con artists or something.

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OkCupid cyber stalking and hackers on okcupid

To all that use www.okcupid.com, let this be known that there are some hackers and cyber stalking people on that site...stalking is a crime...okcupid moderators do not remove these stalkers, therefore, letting these hackers take over the site...how would you feel if you were violated in more than one way and could not stop it or get help for it...stalkers and hackers enjoy abusing their prey...they appear as normal people to throw serious user's off guard...please becareful! this is no joke and should not continue...there have been many people that complained about this problem...please read more about this at this blogger...
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/

the stalkers and hackers take your photo and mess with it...they also control and report your profile from the dating website, ultimatley giving absolutley no access at all to the site, when you are the victim...the stalker also sexually harasses you...places nude content on their journals, search for more victims to defame, slander, and abuse...it's a never ending vicious cycle...this can all rest in the hands of either one person or people...this stalker(s) should be banned from any internet service because they abuse it...they should also be jailed and fined...you can be victim of this and not know it...but we are here to help expose such criminals...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-hackers-and-stalkers-on.html

BEWARE OF THESE CYBER STALKERS/HACKERS
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/clerval_redux
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

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OkCupid okcrimals equals the peanut gallery

Sometimes I feel and wonder if I am speaking to an insane person on okcupid!
One minute we speak about flowers, and how the day has progressed, and then it's like talking to Satan!
It's like the devil lives on.
If it is a person that needs help, then they shouldn't be on the dating site. I feel terrible that they don't have help, and it makes me very frightened!
I just can't go on with my day after speaking to such a person with so many problems in their life.
I need to take a nap after this.
I think okcupid should filter out all the profiles, and make sure that these people are there for dating reasons only, or networking.
This seems to be out of hand
Every-time I try to have a descent conversation with someone on there, it makes me disappointed that I get nowhere!
I am sorry but I just don't recommend this dating site, if you are looking true love, or a relationship in general.

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Feb 14, 2011 3:15 am EST

Zack? I thought you were my friend? Now you just seem like a creeper :(
Please don't scare me!

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Feb 14, 2011 3:13 am EST

Really who can they be? How can we report them? Are you One of them?

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OkCupid fake profiles overrun by criminals

There are too many fake profiles messing with actual people that want to date on okcupid.
I am tired of speaking to fake people!
This website needs a major cleaning and wipe out of all the fake profiles.
It is misleading.
If it continues to swarm with fake people, there is no sense in keeping this website functioning.
Who are we supposed to date, if we are not talking to a genuine person on okcupid?
Isn't the point of this dating site to find an actual person or friend to date?
How can I, with all these misleading profiles!
Stay away from WWW.Okcupid.com!

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Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:58 am EST

I don't think I will enjoy Louis, because I don't like little boys :( but good night dear!

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Feb 14, 2011 3:52 am EST

I allready choose door number one, norman, and thank you! goodnight everyone! don't let www.okcupid.com, bite!

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Feb 14, 2011 3:50 am EST

Norman, I must go to bed. I have had a full day.

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Feb 14, 2011 3:48 am EST

Oh Mica, I thought you were from that dreadful dating site www.okcupid.com! Don't go on there either, there are some dreadful people!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:46 am EST

Just open both doors, norman!

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Feb 14, 2011 3:44 am EST

Oh dear Mica! You are a married man! Then what are you doing on a dating site?! That is shameful to your poor wife!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:43 am EST

Please don't try to get sassy with me. I have had enough of that treatment on www.okcupid.com

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:42 am EST

I have to go to bed now. It was nice talking to all you REAL people? O_o

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:40 am EST

I'm an old goat if that helps!

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Feb 14, 2011 3:40 am EST

So am I! I am very real!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:38 am EST

Mica are you fake?

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Feb 14, 2011 3:36 am EST

I have had enough people from okcupid, and I don't need anymore fake's on here too!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:35 am EST

You are all crazy! Stop talking about fake people to me, if you are not real!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:34 am EST

Thank you Norman!

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Feb 14, 2011 3:29 am EST

Hi Norman! Can you take care of Ian, Brenda, Mica, and Zack? Thanks.

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Feb 14, 2011 3:28 am EST

I don't know who Ian is, Mica.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:26 am EST

Mica, If you want to speak to Brenda, then speak somewhere else to her, and not here. You are confusing me.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:23 am EST

Oh Mica, but I am. I thought you liked boys too. I guess I heard wrong about you too :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:19 am EST

Who is ella? I never heard or saw of her! But Mica you sound lovely too!

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Feb 14, 2011 2:49 am EST

where is sweet Brenda! Oh how my heart is aching :(

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Feb 14, 2011 2:48 am EST

who is that? I want Brenda!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:42 am EST

Please speak to me!
I need someone to speak to after using that dreadful okcupid dating site! :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:40 am EST

Hello?
Are you guys there?

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:37 am EST

Zack speak to Brenda for me.
I feel lost, bring Brenda back to me! :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:36 am EST

Brenda why are you laughing at me?!
I am a 60 year old man, and wanting a serious relationship, and I thought you were that gal! :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:33 am EST

Zack are you there still?

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:32 am EST

Oh no but have you heard of Amway in Houston?!
I am so happy that you are familiar with it!
I have made a friend now!
Hi Zacky!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:17 am EST

I was telling her about this great book I was reading, about the enchanted island, and she burst with such harsh language!
Then another lady with venomous words said, that I should go to hell! And I am a southern man!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:15 am EST

I never did drugs in my entire life, and she was talking about marijuana!
I am appalled!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:13 am EST

I was talking to this one nice lady about fried chicken recipe, and she was talking about pornography!
I was caught off guard.
I am old fashion, and wanted to test the waters of online dating, and I didn't expect such an abundance of criminals!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:11 am EST

I have encountered so many fake profiles, and mean people!
I can't understand why can't it be like the good old days.
It's misleading especially if I have to meet someone.
All the fake profiles should be removed not to confuse people and hurt their feelings.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:09 am EST

Then why are these services available?!
Especially if they are no good, and misleading?!

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Orchard Park, US
Feb 24, 2011 4:25 pm EST
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@douglas, are you a troll?

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Rafael26
, US
Feb 23, 2011 3:16 pm EST

Have a relationship in person, not thru a keyboard.

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WTstandUP
Coatesville, US
Feb 23, 2011 9:28 am EST

Some of these comments are absurd one guy talking about a chicken recipe/first of all what are you thinking but then because she wants more than talking about freaken recipe and some real down porno come get me and he's lost as he is just a talker virgin at 34. The we got that other heavy who thinks all personal sites are fake and they won't talk to her, hey maybe it has nothing to do with the site and it's you! Once they find out what you are all included size and all they want nothing to do with you, maybe change you then trying to change the world!
WHINERS

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frederico112
Pikering, CA
Feb 21, 2011 1:53 am EST

why is everyone so quick to defend?

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OkCupid ok criminals

It has come to my attention that okcupid should be okcriminals, because everytime I speak to someone, I think I am speaking to a criminal.
So I try to report these criminals, but they still are up to no good. What is a bro supposed to do on a dating website infested with criminals?!
Don't go on this site! It is run by criminals!
okcupid is now okcriminals

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Mar 17, 2013 7:00 am EDT
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OK CUPID SUCKS!
I had been using the site for 2 months. Except for one photo that did not show my face clear enough, I never had a problem. NEver. Nothing. NADA !
And then one day, they just flat out, erased my account. No explanation, no email, no answer. Nothing.
If you put so much energy into something, and they just erase it for no apparent reason, it is not worth it at all.
AVOID IT OR REGRET IT!

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