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12:23 pm EST

OkCupid continuing cyberstalking

As you all know after joing the dating website www.okcupid.com i have been having some ongoing issues and i just want to make everyone aware some more of what you can go through...users from the dating website okcupid are still stalking me and now took my youtube video after i disabled embedded on there and are using it...just beware of these unstable stalkers on the net that won't leave me alone...and keep following me...you can be a victim of this too...i just want to make people aware of what can happen to you after you join www.okcupid.com...from that site as you all know by now the predator(s) is still stalking me...but likes to twist things to make me the blame and feel guilt...typical behavior of a stalker that is seriously looking for a cry for help and should leave me alone but doesn't...i mean why keep stalking me if you this person claims to be so normal...why still keep my photo when you deleted other photos from your journal because he is stalking me in particular...becareful of this cyberstalker you can be apart of this unstable persons abuse and mind games...not to mention the stalker follows me on my blogger where he is not welcome and on my youtube where he is not welcome on there either but hey i tried to change the settings because of this stalker and he still took my youtube on video as you can see in the link below...clearly this stalker has serious issues...i only post to make people aware of what can happen to them and that nobody takes care of it...be safe! XO-josie

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3:25 pm EST

OkCupid cyber stalking and hackers

To all that use www.okcupid.com, let this be known that there are some hackers and cyber stalking people on that site... Stalking is a crime... Okcupid moderators do not remove these stalkers, therefore, letting these hackers take over the site... How would you feel if you were violated in more than one way and could not stop it or get help for it... Stalkers and hackers enjoy abusing their prey... They appear as normal people to throw serious user's off guard... Please becareful! This is no joke and should not continue... There have been many people that complained about this problem... Please read more about this at this blogger...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/

The stalkers and hackers take your photo and mess with it... They also control and report your profile from the dating website, ultimatley giving absolutley no access at all to the site, when you are the victim... The stalker also sexually harasses you... Places nude content on their journals, search for more victims to defame, slander, and abuse... It's a never ending vicious cycle... This can all rest in the hands of either one person or people... This stalker (S) should be banned from any internet service because they abuse it... They should also be jailed and fined... You can be victim of this and not know it... But we are here to help expose such criminals...

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2:22 pm EST

OkCupid okcriminals

It has come to my attention that okcupid should be okcriminals, because every-time I speak to someone, I think I am speaking to a criminal.

So I try to report these criminals, but they still are up to no good. What is a bro supposed to do on a dating website infested with criminals?!

This didn't happen just one time!

I am actually creeped out, and considering going onto another dating website, but now I am too afraid.

If I would have known it was infested with criminals, I would have stayed at the bar.

I thought I was over reacting, so I made another account, but I am still getting these criminals!

Is this possible that I can't meet a true friend without worrying if it's a criminal?!

It's one lie after another, and I can't tolerate this anymore.

At this rate, I am going to have to stay home and read a book!

This dating site made me sad and confused.

Don't go on this site! It is run by criminals!

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JSF17
Fayetteville, US
Nov 10, 2014 4:23 pm EST

I was on OK Cupid and had 4 different men ask me for a "loan". Their profiles listed them as living in the US but in chatting with them (they usually wanted to use KIK or Yahoo Messenger, I could tell they had very poor grammar- broken English), but claimed to be from the US. The pattern is they will tell you they "love you" early on and then they have to go to anothe country for work. Then they'll feed you some line of crap about not having enough money to get the "contract" for work, their "equipment broke down" or they are on a special mission in the Army in Africa and want to deposit their military check into your account and ask for your bank info. Another guy showed me a pic of $850, 000 check made out to him and said he was good for it, but the bank wouldn't clear the check for 7 days and he needed a loan to pay for his son's hospital bill and he'd pay me back. I asked if his son was still in the hospital, he said yes. I said they don't even know how much the bill is yet since I used to work in hospitals. Then the guy changed his tune and said they were in Europe! SCAMMERS. NEVER loan money or give out bank info. These people are leeches.

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2:12 pm EST

OkCupid too many fake profiles on okcupid and it's misleading!

There are too many fake profiles messing with actual people that want to date on okcupid.

I am tired of speaking to fake people!

This website needs a major cleaning and wipe out of all the fake profiles.

It is misleading.

If it continues to swarm with fake people, there is no sense in keeping this website functioning.

Who are we supposed to date, if we are not talking to a genuine person on okcupid?

Isn't the point of this dating site to find an actual person or friend to date?

How can I, with all these misleading profiles!

Stay away from WWW.Okcupid.com!

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Jean Grae
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May 17, 2015 4:02 pm EDT

Registered last weekend on this Site although I am not done with my profile yet, somebody send me a message who said he is "Honest" to a fail - we exchanged e-mails. On his letter he said he is "Brutally Honest" and expect me to be the same (Brutally Honest). Saw another profile with his Picture on it .On that Profile he is 54 y.old from New York another profile is a 50 y.o from Tel Aviv.They are all looking for someone Honest on there - besides, the messages i received are of similar if not of the same contents. This afternoon I talked to one of their member who said he is a pathologist working under US marine deployed in Doha for a peace keeping mission and told him my experienced on that site. He was really shocked and can´t even believe how people can do such thing . I googled his name, and I found out that he is an Actor and a Producer and even uses ths Persons photos on his profile, OKCupid is 75% scammers who uses other peoples photos to fool and take advantage of other people. Haven´t met a true person since I joined last week. Don´t be fooled by this dating site. Beware.

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11:23 pm EST
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OkCupid okcupid never ends

Still ongoing cyberstalking and harassment from okcupid…how is it that this pest is finding me on the internet?…hacking?…possibility that all these profiles are fake and rests in the hands of one deranged cyberstalker…as you can see they refuse to let it go by still speaking about me and posting things about me on the net that are untrue, slanderous, and defaming…therefore making them obsessed about me…typical behavior of a cyberstalker/hacker/predator…since this predator keeps searching and finding me on the net I had to change my identity and make other annonymous accounts and change the settings on my previous accounts so they can leave me alone because I want nothing to do with them, but as you can see they still fail to dismiss the issue and leave me alone…a typical cyberstalker likes to twist things around and make you the stalker or the loon by manipulating your words or the truth to make them the victim and make you feel guilty…once again this is typical cyberstalking behavior…they even took my youtube video and combined it with a coolio song possibly insinuating I am a troubled child when in reality the person doing all these actions against me is super diluded and troubled…furthermore we have to similar statements made from two separate profiles possibly proving that it is one stalker with many profiles talking to themselves all day long with multiple personalities a true chameleon and looking for victims to abuse and project their issues on…the question here is why doesn’t this unfit person leave me alone it’s because they are a cyberstalker that is obsessed with me and I am posting this to make everyone aware of what can happen to you too…this doesn’t make me the loon this makes me the vicimized humanitarian here…and like I said a typical cyberstalker enjoys victimizing his victims over and over plus there are other victims that have complained about this issue on the site…clearly this is an existing issue…so why does okcupid allow this again?…possibly to keep the site functioning to entice people to go on it and get trapped…but how long is this going to on for?…people won’t stand for this much longer and you have to expect someone to voice this just like I am…what kind of marketing skills are these, when one has such pristine educational backround?…they caused this problem and we wouldn’t be here if they never started it…they also try to accuse match.com for this event but I have nothing to do with match.com…so can we say paranoia sets in on their part here? Possibly…. They also claim my photo and I are fake…this does not sound like a normal character…my photo and youtube video are real…if he is fake like he states then why be on a dating site where real people just might be searching for an actual human being to date…plus if people are looking for serious mates, nobody wants to speak to a fake profile because it’s is misleading and messes with ones emotions and mind… if thedating site is doing bad and they have to resort to such petty tactics then it might be time to shut the site down and face reality…if the site is doing great then hats off but this problem needs to end…everytime I make a complaint this unfortunatley feeds into the cyberstalkers obsession because they find me and they look to keep the convo continuing or in their confused world the relationship going on the internet by seeking my attention that they crave…typical cyberstalking behavior…they confuse reality with cyber…it is also a crime…but how long do they plan on cyberstalking me for? Get over the obsession…and get this parasite the clinical psychiatric help that they desperatly need…

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Feb 20, 2011 5:09 am EST

I really think you should stop accussing me, end all contact with me, and move along already...What's the hold up on your part?...I see you enjoy this and that's all you look forward to...Find a complaint that compatible with you. I can't stress this enough...Thee end...

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Elad Madrer
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Aug 13, 2018 8:46 am EDT

I got suspended from okCupid a week after I purchased A-List membership.

I did not violate any rule.
I got no explanation and no answer after I opened a ticket.

The email I used for registration: eladm@onoapps.com

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Escondido, US
Mar 02, 2011 3:38 pm EST
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Dear God. First off I couldn't read the entire post at the top BECAUSE OF ALL THE FRIGGIN CAPS.

Cyber stalking? Meh. It's childish and over rated. I was stalked in real life. Got a gun. Ended the stalking for some reason when the guy saw me cleaning it. Go figure.

Stop feeding the monster. Ignore it. If it's all true, call the cops. JUST DON'T FILL OUT YOUR REPORT IN ALL CAPS BECAUSE IT'S HARD AS HELL TO READ AND YOU LOSE INTEREST.

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Touchy610
Winter Garden, US
Feb 28, 2011 3:14 am EST

I met my favorite person ever on OKCupid, but this was a long time ago, when it was still a very little-known site.

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tiffany hughes
New London, US
Feb 27, 2011 5:16 pm EST

omg some creeper took my journal and said i was a call girl.
he even posted someone elses's naked photo with my journal.
i was even receiving odd text messages that i had to pay for.
i had to change my cell phone number.
i will never go on that website again.
i think they are con artists or something.

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georgecaptain57
l.a., US
Feb 27, 2011 5:00 pm EST

Wow! I thought I was the only universe with this problem. First they removed my profile, second they sent me threatening messages, and third they took my photos and made a whole new account with them.
I wrote to the tech's at okcupid, but they never took care of the profile, and the page is still up there with my photos. What are citizens supposed to do? The website is lame too. I was going to delete my profile anyways, but they beat me to it.
This also happened to my co-worker but her fake profile was removed. It's really an outrage.

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D Lawson 912
Butler, US
Feb 27, 2011 1:27 pm EST

Yeah this has happened to me too You do know they take your info and use it don't you. Yeah I found out about it the hadr way They used my name contacted and even called this lady and made a date where she came out to meet me. I had no idea what was going on untill she gave me the info and I checked it out. Had a different pic on my profile some actor or something Yeah they use people

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aa012
, US
Feb 27, 2011 6:17 am EST

Ha ha, no. Is ellagirl a user on OkCupid? I've gotta admit, I barely read this complaint because the caps was hurting my eyes!

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aa012
, US
Feb 27, 2011 6:06 am EST

I actually met my girlfriend on OkCupid.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 4:00 am EST

So Mica, are you done here, or are you still busy stalking us as usual.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 3:59 am EST

I sense your marriages are stale. Is this how you cope by abusing real women. Wow you must be proud men!

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8:53 am EST
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OkCupid cyberstalkers, stalkers taking my video on youtube and using it

users from the dating website okcupid are still stalking me and now took my youtube video after i disabled embedded on there and are using it...just beware of these unstable stalkers on the net that won't leave me alone...and keep following me...you can be a victim of this too...i just want to make people aware of what can happen to you after you join www.okcupid.com...from that site as you all know by now the predator(s) is still stalking me...but likes to twist things to make me the blame and feel guilt...typical behavior of a stalker that is seriously looking for a cry for help...i mean why keep stalking me if you this person claims to be so normal...i only post to make people aware of what can happen to them and that nobody takes care of it...

http://youtubedoubler.com/?video1=sRYM4zSVQXI&start1=0&video2=-SPVU_M4wtY&start2=0&authorName=Crazy+Monsta

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Shiprock, US
Mar 11, 2012 12:38 am EST
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The hackers went into my personal space, and like it reads they too put a bunch of nude photos with profile and on my email. They even posted this complaint board logo on the site, making a mockery of this site, but I believe these complaints, advice: if you're on OKC get out/off and don't go there again it's not a worth site, they'll rob your identity and smear it with their sick perverted crap. I totally agree with these complaints, not only there but they well go onto other sites as well. following you, they won't show themselves, they do thi from behind a hidden distance, just as the chicken crap they are.

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tiffany hughes
New London, US
Feb 27, 2011 5:17 pm EST

omg some creeper took my journal and said i was a call girl.
he even posted someone elses's naked photo with my journal.
i was even receiving odd text messages that i had to pay for.
i had to change my cell phone number.
i will never go on that website again.
i think they are con artists or something.

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8:58 pm EST
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OkCupid cyber stalking and hackers on okcupid

To all that use www.okcupid.com, let this be known that there are some hackers and cyber stalking people on that site...stalking is a crime...okcupid moderators do not remove these stalkers, therefore, letting these hackers take over the site...how would you feel if you were violated in more than one way and could not stop it or get help for it...stalkers and hackers enjoy abusing their prey...they appear as normal people to throw serious user's off guard...please becareful! this is no joke and should not continue...there have been many people that complained about this problem...please read more about this at this blogger...
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/

the stalkers and hackers take your photo and mess with it...they also control and report your profile from the dating website, ultimatley giving absolutley no access at all to the site, when you are the victim...the stalker also sexually harasses you...places nude content on their journals, search for more victims to defame, slander, and abuse...it's a never ending vicious cycle...this can all rest in the hands of either one person or people...this stalker(s) should be banned from any internet service because they abuse it...they should also be jailed and fined...you can be victim of this and not know it...but we are here to help expose such criminals...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-hackers-and-stalkers-on.html

BEWARE OF THESE CYBER STALKERS/HACKERS
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/clerval_redux
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

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OkCupid okcrimals equals the peanut gallery

Sometimes I feel and wonder if I am speaking to an insane person on okcupid!
One minute we speak about flowers, and how the day has progressed, and then it's like talking to Satan!
It's like the devil lives on.
If it is a person that needs help, then they shouldn't be on the dating site. I feel terrible that they don't have help, and it makes me very frightened!
I just can't go on with my day after speaking to such a person with so many problems in their life.
I need to take a nap after this.
I think okcupid should filter out all the profiles, and make sure that these people are there for dating reasons only, or networking.
This seems to be out of hand
Every-time I try to have a descent conversation with someone on there, it makes me disappointed that I get nowhere!
I am sorry but I just don't recommend this dating site, if you are looking true love, or a relationship in general.

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Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:15 am EST

Zack? I thought you were my friend? Now you just seem like a creeper :(
Please don't scare me!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:13 am EST

Really who can they be? How can we report them? Are you One of them?

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OkCupid fake profiles overrun by criminals

There are too many fake profiles messing with actual people that want to date on okcupid.
I am tired of speaking to fake people!
This website needs a major cleaning and wipe out of all the fake profiles.
It is misleading.
If it continues to swarm with fake people, there is no sense in keeping this website functioning.
Who are we supposed to date, if we are not talking to a genuine person on okcupid?
Isn't the point of this dating site to find an actual person or friend to date?
How can I, with all these misleading profiles!
Stay away from WWW.Okcupid.com!

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Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:58 am EST

I don't think I will enjoy Louis, because I don't like little boys :( but good night dear!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:52 am EST

I allready choose door number one, norman, and thank you! goodnight everyone! don't let www.okcupid.com, bite!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:50 am EST

Norman, I must go to bed. I have had a full day.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:48 am EST

Oh Mica, I thought you were from that dreadful dating site www.okcupid.com! Don't go on there either, there are some dreadful people!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:46 am EST

Just open both doors, norman!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:44 am EST

Oh dear Mica! You are a married man! Then what are you doing on a dating site?! That is shameful to your poor wife!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:43 am EST

Please don't try to get sassy with me. I have had enough of that treatment on www.okcupid.com

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:42 am EST

I have to go to bed now. It was nice talking to all you REAL people? O_o

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:40 am EST

I'm an old goat if that helps!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:40 am EST

So am I! I am very real!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:38 am EST

Mica are you fake?

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:36 am EST

I have had enough people from okcupid, and I don't need anymore fake's on here too!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:35 am EST

You are all crazy! Stop talking about fake people to me, if you are not real!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:34 am EST

Thank you Norman!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:29 am EST

Hi Norman! Can you take care of Ian, Brenda, Mica, and Zack? Thanks.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:28 am EST

I don't know who Ian is, Mica.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:26 am EST

Mica, If you want to speak to Brenda, then speak somewhere else to her, and not here. You are confusing me.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:23 am EST

Oh Mica, but I am. I thought you liked boys too. I guess I heard wrong about you too :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 3:19 am EST

Who is ella? I never heard or saw of her! But Mica you sound lovely too!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:49 am EST

where is sweet Brenda! Oh how my heart is aching :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:48 am EST

who is that? I want Brenda!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:42 am EST

Please speak to me!
I need someone to speak to after using that dreadful okcupid dating site! :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:40 am EST

Hello?
Are you guys there?

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:37 am EST

Zack speak to Brenda for me.
I feel lost, bring Brenda back to me! :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:36 am EST

Brenda why are you laughing at me?!
I am a 60 year old man, and wanting a serious relationship, and I thought you were that gal! :(

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:33 am EST

Zack are you there still?

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:32 am EST

Oh no but have you heard of Amway in Houston?!
I am so happy that you are familiar with it!
I have made a friend now!
Hi Zacky!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:17 am EST

I was telling her about this great book I was reading, about the enchanted island, and she burst with such harsh language!
Then another lady with venomous words said, that I should go to hell! And I am a southern man!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:15 am EST

I never did drugs in my entire life, and she was talking about marijuana!
I am appalled!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:13 am EST

I was talking to this one nice lady about fried chicken recipe, and she was talking about pornography!
I was caught off guard.
I am old fashion, and wanted to test the waters of online dating, and I didn't expect such an abundance of criminals!

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:11 am EST

I have encountered so many fake profiles, and mean people!
I can't understand why can't it be like the good old days.
It's misleading especially if I have to meet someone.
All the fake profiles should be removed not to confuse people and hurt their feelings.

Update by douglas jacks
Feb 14, 2011 2:09 am EST

Then why are these services available?!
Especially if they are no good, and misleading?!

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Orchard Park, US
Feb 24, 2011 4:25 pm EST
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@douglas, are you a troll?

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Rafael26
, US
Feb 23, 2011 3:16 pm EST

Have a relationship in person, not thru a keyboard.

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WTstandUP
Coatesville, US
Feb 23, 2011 9:28 am EST

Some of these comments are absurd one guy talking about a chicken recipe/first of all what are you thinking but then because she wants more than talking about freaken recipe and some real down porno come get me and he's lost as he is just a talker virgin at 34. The we got that other heavy who thinks all personal sites are fake and they won't talk to her, hey maybe it has nothing to do with the site and it's you! Once they find out what you are all included size and all they want nothing to do with you, maybe change you then trying to change the world!
WHINERS

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frederico112
Pikering, CA
Feb 21, 2011 1:53 am EST

why is everyone so quick to defend?

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OkCupid ok criminals

It has come to my attention that okcupid should be okcriminals, because everytime I speak to someone, I think I am speaking to a criminal.
So I try to report these criminals, but they still are up to no good. What is a bro supposed to do on a dating website infested with criminals?!
Don't go on this site! It is run by criminals!
okcupid is now okcriminals

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Mar 17, 2013 7:00 am EDT
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OK CUPID SUCKS!
I had been using the site for 2 months. Except for one photo that did not show my face clear enough, I never had a problem. NEver. Nothing. NADA !
And then one day, they just flat out, erased my account. No explanation, no email, no answer. Nothing.
If you put so much energy into something, and they just erase it for no apparent reason, it is not worth it at all.
AVOID IT OR REGRET IT!

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OkCupid stalker will not leave my friend alone on okcupid!

I just want to tell everyone to be on the look out for certain people on okcupid and this stalker is abusing my friend and other people from the site. Everytime I report him and his friends, nothing get's done. I got so scared, that I even deleted my own page from there. I don't understand why he and his friends do not get deleted from the website. Women becareful! It is no joke! I have read and seen all the abuse he has done to my friend and other people. He goes under other names to cover up himself and makes tons of fake profiles to disguise himself and abuse people from. It's sickening. It also seems like he is following her on the internet and if you see other complaints similar to this with wierd comments directed to her, it seems like it is the stalker trying to make her look mentally unfit, when in reality it's probably the stalker. He likes playing mind games. He steals user's email addresses. we have statements from the violated user's. I have advised her to go to the local police and I think she has done so. This is no laughing matter. It needs to stop.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

Beware of Driada on okcupid.com. yet another user and abuser on the site. this could be the worst one of all. this is one frightening person to have on the loose. to show these kind of photos on a dating site, this is not a porn site. if kids see this, it's corruptive and nasty. furthermore we get to wonder if this is a military person or terrorist because of the following journal entry.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/13059871269972822029/tunisiyat-al-arab
scroll down to where one of the culprits hopes for another disaster similar to 911. that's is horrific and unexcusable and should not even be said. but still why does okcupid allow these predators or terrorists on this site? they should be tracked down, banned from the internet totally, and apologize to all the 911 victims and to all the vicitms that they abused on okcupid.
RATED XXX DO NOT CLICK THIS LINK IF A MINOR CONTAINS NUDITY
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/3079562611864194159/Can-hit-an-apple-off-one's-head
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/9469992888417160371/:)-----*
The above linkS will show you the nude photos of a males exposed in the predator's journal.

The more I read these digusting journals, the more I find terrifying thoughts and pictures. These parasites should seriously be investigated! But apparently nobody is bothering.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-driada-on-okcupidcom-possible.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/am-i-dealing-with-terrorists-on.html

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OkCupid anti-american, terroist behavior, sexual predator, cyber stalker, pervert, harassment, threats, profanity,http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

Beware of Driada on okcupid.com. yet another user and abuser on the site. this could be the worst one of all. this is one frightening person to have on the loose. to show these kind of photos on a dating site, this is not a porn site. if kids see this, it's corruptive and nasty. furthermore we get to wonder if this is a military person or terrorist because of the following journal entry.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/13059871269972822029/tunisiyat-al-arab
scroll down to where one of the culprits hopes for another disaster similar to 911. that's is horrific and unexcusable and should not even be said. but still why does okcupid allow these predators or terrorists on this site? they should be tracked down, banned from the internet totally, and apologize to all the 911 victims and to all the vicitms that they abused on okcupid.
RATED XXX DO NOT CLICK THIS LINK IF A MINOR CONTAINS NUDITY
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/3079562611864194159/Can-hit-an-apple-off-one's-head
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada/journal/9469992888417160371/:)-----*
The above linkS will show you the nude photos of a males exposed in the predator's journal.

The more I read these digusting journals, the more I find terrifying thoughts and pictures. These parasites should seriously be investigated! But apparently nobody is bothering.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/driada

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-driada-on-okcupidcom-possible.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/am-i-dealing-with-terrorists-on.html

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Sep 18, 2017 12:21 am EDT

Okcupid is a site that profits of misognynist harassment. Their entire model is based off that: this a hatred-based business that has no place in civilized society:
http://okcupidprofitsoffmisogyny.blogspot.com/

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Feb 13, 2011 9:52 pm EST

@micaa1755 get yourself a map and try to figure it out. I will draw the first line for you.

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Feb 13, 2011 9:32 pm EST

@zachary S., do you see how you are perverts and are proving to everyone that you are peverts. do you know the police are reading this and this is no lie. sexual harassment is no joke. don't you have a life outside of internet cyberbullying? this is not a pron site, so please take your filth somewhere else. do not comment here if it does not pertain to the complaint. you need mental help and it's sad and scarey that you get your jollies off of things like this.

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Feb 13, 2011 9:15 pm EST

@ jerseyguy46 you are the one that needs help if you are diagnosing people. please leave us alone. what don't you understand? you need serious help and it shows. you are leaving rude comments that does not pertain to this complaint so do not leave comments that make no sense and are not about this complaint. do you understand? probably not. we know it's public but your comments have nothing to do with this complaint so move along. but you still come back. like i said we already contacted authorities for this serious harassment. you are lacking in attention if you keep commenting here. go get medical help or meditate. this is for serious complaints only. unless you are apart of the harassment.

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Feb 13, 2011 8:00 am EST

you are a sick pervert and who let you out? you need help! seriously! you need to stop abusing people and yourself. I feel bad for you, and that you need to inflict whatever pain you are going through on other innocent people. This pertains to JDH55 and JerseyGuy46 and all the other fake accounts that harass humans. There is mental help for people like yourself. Please go get some now! How long are you and your pals going to do continue this for? you need a doctor for your mental issues. This is serious and you can hurt people. Leave my friend alone. We do not know you guys and we don't want to. We are just making you stalkers exposed, so other innocent victims are aware. Once again go get the mental evaluation and medication that you desperatly are in need of. Maybe you should find god and try church and cleanse your mind and soul. Seriously stay away from us. We already contacted the authorities on this disturbing issues. You need help if you stay on the computer all day long and harass and stalk people. Find something else better to do with your life. Find solace in God.

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Feb 13, 2011 5:46 am EST

WOW! the person that left you a comment above me by the name JerseyGuy46 needs to seriously stop following you alover the internet and harassing you! Your stalker somehow seems fascinated by you and can not leave you alone! I am your witness to all of this nightmare! It's a good thing you are putting this on the internet and making it aware! He needs serious help and possibly jail time. Leave her alone. You are busted stalker!

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OkCupid daavvee okcupid.com zoomingin okcupid.com, racisim, hackers, sexual harrasement, verbal abuse, nudity, explicit content, animal abuse, predators

help us hunt down these predators and hackers off the net! http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn
our mission is to keep these predators permantley banned from all websites because once and if they get removed, somehow they reappear again! if they are professional hackers/predators it is difficult to keep them controlled! the government should step in and assist the victims and future victims in ending this nightmare! we have to track their ip addresses to what internet service provider they use that way we have access to where they live or do their hacking and abusing from! just like they expose innocent victims identities, the victims need to expose these parasites identies as well! take a look here when stalker daavee exposes a possible teenager! what if he is a sexual pedophile/serial killer? we just don't know in this crazy world!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-daavee-on-okcupidcom-possible.html

this is no joke and should be taken seriously because you just don't know who is out there! we hear so many horrible stories on the news when authorities could have possibly prevented these but they failed to hear my plea!

take a look here when daavee asks my sister to expose her breasts! this is degrading and frightful! and also he degrades animals!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/beware-of-sexual-harrasement-from.html

take a look here when daavee states, he will re-abuse my sister again! why should she have to be abused yet again! this abuse should have been stopped a long time ago!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavee-warns-me-of-continuing-abuse-to.html

take a look here where zoomingin tells my sister to commit suicide and as well tells other user's to end their lives! it's disturbing that these predators are playing professional pyschiatry with people's lives and give false information and instructions! especially if a person is really ill and in need of some comfort!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavee-and-zoomingin-from-okcupid.html

take a look here where these predators admit to hacking!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/pay-close-attention-to-this.html

take a look here where these stalkers speak of racisim and enjoy it and make fun of religion!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/okcupid-supports-racisim.html

take a look here where zoomingin shows us what she does to innocent photo's and their indenities!
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html

these predators/hackers should be imprisioned and fined and never have access to internet again! they are harmful, destructive, and a threat to humanity! wake up! what does it take to get these perverts off the net? we should be able to prevent the worst from happening! my sister has to go on knowing her photo and identity are out there and violated for no reason! she does not know this person and fearful of going through it again as DAAVEE proposes to! why should she and other females be violated and harassed for no reason! okcupid still has not notified us or taken care of this serious issue! i advise not using this dating site! as you can see you can experience all the horror that my sister went through! if you been through this please contact us at [protected]@blogspot.com
thank you and be safe!

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http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

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http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

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beware on okcupid.com you are not safe. when entering this domain be extremely cautious. here is what you can experience and not even know it. your privacy is not protected what so ever and it should be. there should be a law against such acts. look out for this user by the name zoomingin at

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

this predator enjoys taking other users photos and degrading them to her pleasure look here to see some of the filth
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html

beware of her journals as well
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn/journal

also another user by the name daavee at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

he places nude of females on the site...these poor females have no idea that they are being abused on the internet...look here and be cautious before viewing it contains sexual content

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee/journal/2363017985804448150/EWW%21%21%21%21%21%21%21-%28Don%27t-look-if-you%27ve-just-eaten

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavvees-porno-naked-women-on-okcupid.html

also here is a women's plea to okcupid to remove daavee off the site that he is sexual harrassing her but as you can see the company does nothing

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/women-by-name-robin-reports-sexual.html

how can this be allowed on a dating site?...the company should be responsible and also the users that are abusing the site should be held responsible as well...this is horrible and what if children viewed this being that it's a public site?...something should have been done a long time ago...i fear that it takes for something tragic to happen to a female or someone and make the news and gravesite to take action when these are the warning signs because you just don't know who is behind the screen today and who is out there...

www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

www.okcupid.com/profile/daavee

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OkCupid cyber abuse

beware on okcupid.com you are not safe. when entering this domain be extremely cautious. here is what you can experience and not even know it. your privacy is not protected what so ever and it should be. there should be a law against such acts. look out for this user by the name zoomingin at

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn

this predator enjoys taking other users photos and degrading them to her pleasure look here to see some of the filth
http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/stay-away-from-user-zoomingin-on.html

beware of her journals as well
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ZoomingIn/journal

also another user by the name daavee at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee

he places nude of females on the site...these poor females have no idea that they are being abused on the internet...look here and be cautious before viewing it contains sexual content

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Daavee/journal/2363017985804448150/EWW%21%21%21%21%21%21%21-%28Don%27t-look-if-you%27ve-just-eaten

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/daavvees-porno-naked-women-on-okcupid.html

also here is a women's plea to okcupid to remove daavee off the site that he is sexual harrassing her but as you can see the company does nothing

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/02/women-by-name-robin-reports-sexual.html

how can this be allowed on a dating site?...the company should be responsible and also the users that are abusing the site should be held responsible as well...this is horrible and what if children viewed this being that it's a public site?...something should have been done a long time ago...i fear that it takes for something tragic to happen to a female or someone and make the news and gravesite to take action when these are the warning signs because you just don't know who is behind the screen today and who is out there...

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UNABLE TO CONNECT, KEEP GETTING THE MESSAGE THAT WEBSITE HAVING TECHNICAL PROBLEMS, OUT OF NOWHERE MATCH.COM MESSAGES HAVE STARTED APPEARING IN MY MAIL.I CAN NOT REPLY TO ANY OF THE MEMBERS MESSAGES FROM OK CUPID...MY SCREEN NAME IS STRAITFELLOW... EMAIL...naveedsbutt@gmail.com

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Apr 05, 2011 8:07 pm EDT

I am sorry that this has to happen. Heaven forbid someone be able to enjoy a free social network. This is a travesty and again I am sorry, people can be small.

As fot you Zachary, how dare you have the gull to question someones intelligence when your attacking by belittling someones emotions. What kind of man are you? Intelligence is not based on what you know it is based on the marits of a human beings actions. Marrycanary is obviously the winner in this case.
Not one soul said you had to visit those links, you are free individual with the right choose, I just hope you learn to choose a little wiser.

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on january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times...my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter?...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women...women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/where-davie-creep-exposes-my-innocent.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/part-1-daavee-his-infamous-followers-on.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRYM4zSVQXI&feature=feedu

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On january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times...my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter?...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women...women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue...

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that's right angelo! tell everyone to stay away from okcupid! thanks for posting this! you are a great man for helping out! i deleted my okcupid! it is not a safe site! i can't believe josie had to go through this violating her! i told her to go to the cops! EVERYONE STAY AWAY FROM OKCUPID!

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OkCupid harrasment

on january 26, 2011 on okcupid.com i was surprised with an email stating my photos were reported and deleted off the site...i couldn't understand why i followed proper guidelines...to my next surprise i received an email from a mature woman stating, "my profile is featured in another okcupid users journal by the name DAAVEE, titled "And the psycho profile award goes to"...once you clicked on that title, it would direct you to my personal page...i was engraged and afraid...i begged the user to please remove me from his page that he had no buisness with me...instead i had to deal with comments full of profanity, abuse, and threats...along with the my stolen photo being exposed and exploited for no reason...he made a link by the name "this is a mustache" in the journal and when you click this link my photo appears...now my photo was being harassed as well...i scan through the journal to discover he is also degrading other female users photos as well...i decided to report him and contact okcupid staff about this menace numerous times...my sister who was also a witness contacted okcupid via email and phone with me...okcupid owners and staff are ignoring me and the situation...i take it further by contacting the local news, cable, dell, DA office, authorities...and my only solution is to take this to the NYPD detective squad and file a complaint and then go back to the DA office with it...also threats were said such as, "blood on the streets" and "i stole josie's ip address" " i have mpgs of josiemetal eating monkey jizz omlets" i wasinformed that the journal and my photo would be reposted and reapper later on...i am fearful of going through this torture again...why should i have to be degraded, stressed out, fearful, threatened, and putup with sleepless nightstrying to take care of this harrassment when okcupid should have taken care of it from day one...instead his page is still up and running while mine the innocent one is deleted and blocked...it makes me believe it could be ockupid staff sabotaging me...i wonder how many innocent women and victims this has happend to and they could not voice it...how would you feel if this was your wife, mother, sisters, daughter, or girlfriend going throught this harassment... it is not fair and unjust... isn't there a law on privacy wether it is on the internet or not, why should i have to be exposed and harassed for no reason...this creep should not have my photo and play with it, or anyone else's...i have documented and filmed all evidence of these horrifying events...i have started a video on youtube of this discoveryand more shall come...i have made a blooger and will post the links at the end of this report...no woman or person should have to be degraded and harassed on any site along with their identity in their photo beingexposed...please help me take care of this parasite and his followers because their are a menace to the internet...no one is safe while they are out there and getting away with this harmful cyberbullying needs to be put to an end immediatley...okcupid.com should be taken off the internetbecause they do not care for the users, there is no hotline to call when issues arise and emailing them is an obstacle especially that this is considered anemergency...i also sent them urgent messages and went further by contacting them on facebook...why aren't any of them resloving this matter?...since this incident my friends are fearful of this website and have since deleted their accounts because they do not want their photos abused by whomever these hackers are...i am also blocked from the site and can not access it when i need to because i have another account that i desperatly need to delete before Daavee and his parasites find this one as well and bully it...i don't understand how okcupid staff can block mefrom their dating website but not remove a user that is a possible threat to women...women have to be cautious on this dating website with this stalker on the prawl because they can be harmed by him and not know it...how can a dating website endanger the lives of women and justify this user's actions...thank you for your time and i hope you can help me resolve this dreadful issue...

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/where-davie-creep-exposes-my-innocent.html

http://datingdisastersexposed.blogspot.com/2011/01/part-1-daavee-his-infamous-followers-on.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRYM4zSVQXI&feature=feedu

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Feb 20, 2011 4:56 am EST

You need to stop following me everywhere and wanting to know my next move...

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 20, 2011 4:54 am EST

You won't stop Zack. Why can't you control yourself? I mean really give it a rest and stop. It's becoming quite stale. If you need attention go elsewhere. All your concerned about is commenting here when it doesn't pertain to you, and then you try to twist it on me when I am just defending her and I know her personally and you don't. No one is loosing it here but you, and you seem to be quite occuppied by Josie's life. Why is that? Why do you come back and comment on old posts and new ones. You have a sick obsession. And your comments make no sense. Nor do they help the complaint. Everyone can see this, but you can't. What do you care who I am. Why do you remember all contacts Josie had contact with. You seem to know and remember each and everyone's name and story quite well. Don' you think you are the looser if you stay online all day and leave useless comments here. I told you to move along many times but you can't seem to let go.

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 03, 2011 8:03 pm EST

I have dyslexia and speell things wrong i meant to say blogger do you work for okcupid you probably do

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 03, 2011 7:39 pm EST

the internet also has enough of women's photos being abused too...let them know and take care of it mr. amused.

Update by JosieJojo
Feb 03, 2011 7:38 pm EST

so if you didn't read it then why comment here?...are you part of the problem maybe you even know them...victims are not amused since this is a joke to you...maybe oneday when you get abused, i will be amused :) goodluck!

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Mar 22, 2016 10:31 am EDT
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This entry is for Plato scholar working on PhD at University of Chicago, who I met on online dating site OkCupid. These sites details and documentat how he gossiped, manipulated facts, and encouraged unethical and potentially illegal behavior:

http://settinghisrecordstraight.blogspot.com/

https://settinghisrecordstraight.wordpress.com/

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Jan 28, 2016 11:25 pm EST

Hi fellow ladies... This is my serious warning to you to stay away from Gary Woods (charmedwayfarer). He is using the site to lure woman into thinking he is after a relationship and only is after sex and casual dating. He sent his intro video to my friend today. I am sure you received one too.

Do not fall for his lies. He is a cheater, a womanizer, a narcissistic liar, and a player, and that will never change. He is unwilling to be open about his spreading clymidia. Gary Woods is not somebody you should get involved with. And I know he has procedures done to make him look younger than he is.

He wrote me on OKCupid. I started dating Gary Woods in Santa Clara. At first Gary Woods was very charming and attentive. He made me believe I was special to him. He texted me pics of random flowers to brighten my day. Called me “gorgeous”, “hotness”, “delicious”. etc. He seemed like a decent guy and we were attracted to each other. He played hard to get at first, but eventually I won him over (I thought). And that is where the complaint begins.

He would never make a full commitment but yet denied having sex with other women. We fell in love (I thought), but he was being sneaky until I finally caught him cheating on me.

He is not faithful. You fall in love while he's cheating on you. He is a womanizer. Gary Woods is a player.

His tactics are "has to work late at Kaiser, “need to focus on his business or his real estate projects”, ”need a “me day”, “cell died” etc. That's when he is meeting another woman.

Don't waste your time with Gary Woods. He will literally break your heart.

Gary Woods is on various dating sites as charmedwayfarer

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tiffany hughes
New London, US
Feb 27, 2011 5:17 pm EST

omg some creeper took my journal and said i was a call girl.
he even posted someone elses's naked photo with my journal.
i was even receiving odd text messages that i had to pay for.
i had to change my cell phone number.
i will never go on that website again.
i think they are con artists or something.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:53 am EST

It's a good thing you didn't find Josie's new blogger because we all know you would stalk her there too!

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:53 am EST

And anyways what do you have to do with Josie, and why are you so worried and concerned about her every minute for?

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:52 am EST

You should stop stalking Josie. It's really childish and sickening.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:51 am EST

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:50 am EST

Why do you make up stories Zack? Can you prove all that you comment every minute? Then you should call the cops.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:49 am EST

You must be sooooo obsessed with Josie, that you keep coming back here for more. You should call the cops.

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ellagirl
bk, US
Feb 20, 2011 2:48 am EST

Why are you still stalking if she need mental help then?
You keep coming back for more.

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