Unfortunately you are the victim of a scam. I am sorry this happened to you but your money is gone for good. Any time someone tells you you are a winner and than ask for money you can be sure it's a scam.
You can report this to your state attorney general and they will investigate.
By the way putting your name address and telephone number on a public message board is really dumb. If there is a way to have it removed, you should do that.