DITTO Barry... DOUBLE DITTO. Can't any of you tell most of the pictures of these women are professional shots? Do you really think a HOT woman like that shows her crack to just ANYONE? It never fails to amaze me how some of the oldest tricks in the book STILL manage to part men from their money. Then again, I guess it amazes me as well how the same old LINES still manage to part many women from thier panties... Maybe we need to start trying more of the "dumb" lines. At least THEY work... sometimes... maybe?
Anyway, let me also point out that craigslist is a FAVORITE hang-out for these people. They're all over the Women-seeking... and Couple-seeking... boars. Lots and lots of hot lonely ladies who don't have anything better to do than sit at the COMPUTER and solicit sex from strange men... YEAH RIGHT. Without re-stating the obvious (when something looks to good to be true, it probably is), let me point out a few key indicators:
1) You're not hot yourself and no woman worth having is THAT desparate;
2) If you write women on sites like craigslist or other places where access is free, ask something personal (not necessarily personally IDENTIFIABLE, just personal, like "What's your name?", and of course, give YOUR name). If the reply doesn't come back with a personal answer to anything you ask, or doesn't address you by your NAME, then it's probably a bulk response and just can it. Nodoby is going to address you as "Hey baby". I know we'd like to think that women have as little regard for themselves and thier sence of decency as we, but fellas it doesn't work that wya. Learn it, or it's going to (keep) cost(ing) you money.
3) A new gag that I've seen a lot lately goes something like this in a reply from a perspective female "...there are lots of weirdos out here so please contact me through this site..." one of these I know of is called safedating.com, but like these others, it's just another front for professional port marketers. These gals are, as Barry put it, "upgrade shills" who are just there to get you to go to the site to browse and hopefully buy.
Honestly, I'm not really into this kind of stuff, but sometimes it's fun to read the ads on places like craigslist and sit there in awe as I read the things that people are falling for, all on the promise of a blowjob or sadly, sometimes even less.
If you've read this far, then let me give you piece of constructive advice: Getting sex, GOOD sex, isn't that hard. It's not that aren't lonely women out there who are anxious to feel the heat of a man's passion... actually there is an ABUNDANCE of them, now more than ever. Not every woman is looking for the "romance of the century", and most aren't looking to marry you.. They just don't want to feel cheap or like a piece of meat. A woman wants to feel special, even if she knows she's only special for a very short while. The key here is that you have to be SINCERE. That means you can't pretend to be interested, or promise on what you cannot or have no intention of delivering on. If you take some time to sincerely communicate, get to know each other (this doesn't have to take months or even weeks... Sometimes it only takes a couple days or even a few hours, depending on how well you can communicate and open yourself up in a way that appeals to a woman, intrigues her, and leads her to follow where you want her to go.)
You don't have to be in love to have great sex (but honestly it sure helps, but that's not the point here now is it or none of us would be here), but you can't truly have great sex without having a CONNECTION to underly it. There's nothing more exciting or physically and emotionally gratifying than to watch a beautiful woman do her magic when she wants nothing more in this one moment to feel YOUR cock in her mouth... and she'll do that for you... REALLY... but there's got to be something in it for her. When you can understand what it is that WOMEN want, what burns in them with the same fire that burns in US for the way WE want our gratification, then you won't need porn or the dead empty promises of these "get laid quick" websites to satisfy your needs or your ego.
I'll leave you with this last thing... Women burn like we do, they just burn for DIFFERENT things. Women love sex as much as we do, they just approach it differently. WE burn like a lightbulb... CLICK! and we're on... bright hot... CLICK! and we're off... just like that. Women, in contrast, or more like an iron... They heat up slowly, but once hot, they STAY hot... but, burn, and burn... and then slowly cool down. If you can learn to find that balance between her drive and yours, and if you can approach her with SINCERITY (but not acting like a pussy or a girlie-man.. Women like real "manly" men)... then most women will do anything for you... and love doing it. After all, it's not really as ego satisfying (though it still feels good physically) to have a woman suck your cock, as it is to know she's DYING to duck your cock, now is it?
Geez... If only I could get every man who read this post to send me $5... :) Good luck fellas... Rock on! |