I think they send you contacts or winks, e-mails ect to make you think someone in your area wants to contact you just to get you to sign up. Most of the contacts I have recieved and responded to I have got no answer back from thes people who so called wanted to contact me or just sent an e-mail. Do the even exsit ?? Or is this just a scam to get money to run this site and make a profit?? I get new people intrested in me and go to their profile and they are no longer ava. or havent been active for 3 or more weeks. How can this be?