AdultFriendFinder
reviews and complaints

If you're venturing into the world of online adult dating, AdultFriendFinder might have popped up on your radar. It's a place that promises to connect like-minded individuals for casual encounters and adventurous dating experiences. From the myriad of reviews I've sifted through, it's clear that this platform has its fair share of both advocates and detractors. Many users have praised the site for its wide user base and the variety of ways to connect with others, including chat rooms, private messages, and more. There's a sense of freedom and openness that seems to resonate with folks looking for less conventional dating setups. However, it's not all smooth sailing. Some members have expressed concerns over privacy and the authenticity of profiles, which is a common challenge in the online dating scene. There have been mentions of fake accounts and potential scams, which is something to be mindful of. The user interface, while functional, doesn't always get glowing reviews for design or ease of use. It seems to be a bit of a mixed bag, with some finding it straightforward while others feel it could use a modern overhaul.In terms of success stories, they do exist, but like any dating platform, they're interspersed with tales of less fruitful encounters. It's important to approach AdultFriendFinder with a balanced set of expectations and a healthy dose of caution.All in all, AdultFriendFinder can be a vibrant playground for those looking for adult fun, but it's not without its pitfalls. As with any online experience, especially one as personal as this, your mileage may vary.

So I've been using AdultFriendFinder for a while now and I gotta say, there's a fair share of scammers and fakes on the site. It's kinda frustrating. You got a bunch of profiles that are clearly from African romance scammers. They use these profile pics that are a dead giveaway and they're always on about finding love or some scam where they need money to come visit you. It's not just from Africa though, you get the same kinda scams from Russia and other Eastern European countries too.

Then there's the fake profiles that might even be made by the site owners, which is pretty shady if you ask me. I've seen profiles like "laurencan4u", "ilikeballs", "11blacknthick", and "priest926" that just don't seem legit. The first three sound like they were written by the same person, all with the same bad spelling. Maybe it's a way for the site to make more money? And that last one, "priest926", is just full of porn pics that obviously weren't taken by the person who made the profile.

You also run into some women on the site who seem a bit off, mentally. I try to be nice to them though, 'cause you never know what they've been through.

But I gotta be honest, you can actually find real people on here looking for sex. I've chatted with like 20 women and met up with about 7 or 8 of them. My experience is mostly in North America and Europe. Not all the meetups worked out 'cause of distance and stuff. I've even made some good friends on the site.

Most of the women I met in Europe were clean, thankfully, but I can't say the same for the US right now with the whole opioid crisis going on.

I've also noticed that some of the American women I met were getting hit on by married men, which is just not cool. If you gotta lie to your spouse, why are you even married, right?

One thing to keep in mind is that women on the site get bombarded with messages from guys. The ratio of women to men is definitely skewed.

There are lots of couples on AFF too, usually looking for an extra guy to join them.

I'm giving the site a middle-of-the-road rating because even though you can find real people, there's still a lot of fakes and scams to wade through.

Just to wrap this up, my review is based on my own experiences, not like some of those fake reviews you see around. These are my honest takes on the site.

They stole my profile and my photos ( I'm a young woman) and then told me In my email I need to send my ID for verification and pose infront of it like excuse me ? Why?! I was using it for free and actually was getting alot of messages I did nothing wrong they are definitely selling info do not trust it I'm so disgusted and ashamed I even allowed myself on that kind of site and uploaded photos so not discreet!

My profile name: MayQueen2023

On the Adult Friend Finder main page, under MEMBER ACTIVITY>NEAR YOU

someone has uploaded a picture of my bare breasts. This photo is NOT on my profile, so I cannot delete it.

1. I have emailed AFF twice trying to get instructions on how to delete this photo but keep getting instructions on how to delete it from my profile -- after I've explained that this photo is NOT on my profile! It was sent to individuals via messaging.

2. On this photo of my bare breasts, it is visible for everyone to see, THERE IS NO "NAUGHTY PHOTO" covering up my bare breasts like there would be if it were a bare penis. The photo is visible to everyone AND I WANT IT REMOVED OR COVERED UP WITH A NAUGHTY PHOTO.

3. I have tried to explain this to your online customer support, but THEY HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO KNOWLEDGE OF HOW TO FIX THIS PROBLEM. They lack any knowledge of how to handle my issue!

After failing repeatedly on both ends to renew membership by paying with a wal mart visa, I bought a Best Buy gift card for $, the exact amount for annual membership. I inputted the card information and submitted it. It went through and said I had only 97 days membership. I called customer service to cancel the transaction, complain or have it fixed and made a one year membership. I got nowhere.

So last month I was charged twice, once for 24.99 and again for 27.99, I emailed and tried to call but number wasn't valid, imagine that. So I can't log in to the site which I have not been on in 6 months to cancel my subscription so I emailed them begging them to cancel my profile and everything associated with me. So a day ago guess what was on my bank stayement...yep, same charges, same day and I have not been on their website for even a second! What do I have to do to get them to stop charging me? Cancel my card? Pray for an act of God?

Tuesday September 5th I got on adult friend finder and picked the cheapest option and got charged for the more expensive one and it completely drained my bank account..I don’t know how I’m going to make it till Friday..I just need my full refund and I will never be using that site again…also the app says that there are plenty of user but there aren’t any active ones and if there is they are hundreds of miles away also there is to many fakes and scammers

The individual is named David Wagenbrenner and his user name on your site is

rocco82000. All of the pictures are of me, his ex-wife since 2007. He is violating your agreement and violating my right to privacy and is using these pictures unlawfully. According to Virginia's law, it is illegal to intentionally inflict emotional distress and that is currently happening. This has been reported to the police department and warrants will be served for each picture. All of the images uploaded by Mr. Wagenbrenner are violations. Please do your due- diligence and remove them from your website. The law in violation is Virginia Code 18.2-386.2 and the penalty is a class 1 misdemeanor. The city is serving warrants for all 8 of the pictures on his profile.

I purchased a Gold Membership on August 5th 2023. The charge was approved and my account was debited the associated fee.

I had access to the site for less than 24 hours. My credentials stopped working and I received no information regarding the issue. When I call AFF they tell me that someone from their fraud department will call me back. I have received no such call and my membership was only 30 days. Every minute I am denied access costs me decent money per ratio.

I signed up for a membership on adultfriendfinder.com I replied to an ad of one of the discreet 21 year old women I talked to her through an email once she wanted to meet so I set up later that night at Stewart’s she never showed up so I went to Walmart to but laundry detergent for my washer and a couple of other things for my house she then calls tells me she was sorry and she wants to meet now. So I ask her if she needs anything at the store she said get live and condoms so I get a bottle and some condoms on sale like a box of 24 or so. I pick her up at her house. We call up hotels they were highly priced so she takes me to an abandoned place in a parking lot I went down on her and then she put a condom on me and asked for the lube. She got on top of me reverse cowboy style and right when she did the cops pulled up I got arrested for second degree rape and served 2 years behind bars then 10 years post supervision. I lost my house assessed at 200,000 I lost my daughter, all my belongings, my 7 year job at Home Depot. My iPhone 4s had all the evidence and it wasn’t used supposedly my iPhone was lost I couldn’t retrieve it. The cops switched my statement and said I was on top of her which wasn’t true. The news slandered me. Still to this day I am registering as a sex offender I fought in court go get my level to a number 1. For 6 years I have been trying to get a job and I can’t . I was denied school at some colleges because of this I got h to o the point that I wanted to just end it all. Now I take meds to stay undepressed I keep filling out applications and hope one day I can work again all this happened because of a girl lying about her age I don’t even know how she got on the site but you needed Id and s credit card to make a profile. I paid. 80 dollars for mine.

My roommate tried to buy 500 points for me on my acct June 16th (my birthday), it initially approved before being flagged by fraud causing my acct to be put on hold, support said someone from fraud would call me but they didn't, when I called back, the guy from fraud was VERY rude to me, kept interrupting me, told me to shut my mouth and listen when I tried explaining the reason for my call and I expected the hold to be lifted after speaking to him but he apparently didn't even do that. When I spend money with a merchant and bring them as much business as I have with your company, I expect to be treated with at least the most basic level of respect and professionalism when speaking with anyone representing said merchant, I am extremely disappointed in the lack of customer service I received and almost called the BBB and FTC. I'd like someone to get back to me and tell me when i will have access to my account again?

Profile: bjo0649

I signed up and paid for 3 months and all I get is requests for more money! The first thing I tried was to add someone as a friend, but only received an upgrade request for $100+! I immediately canceled my membership. I called and was promised a partial refund even though I have received absolutely nothing from them! No contacts whatsoever from anyone. Very disappointing!

I paid for 3 weeks of gold on the aff website with a gift card on 4/20/23 and received a confirmation email at 1247 pm from the website. My account suddenly locked after 20 minutes and when I tried to log on it said invalid information. I emailed the help center and they have repeatedly asked me to provide my ID with a face pic for security purposes. They said if I failed to provide this my account would remain locked. I gave them my profile name and email which are the only identifying items on the website and they insisted I provide my ID for verification. They have stolen $25 and not provided the service.

I am a paid member but some one deleted my account with out my permission and I sent many many information they asked me and I sent them 6 handle they told they will choose one and reactivate my account but there is no action my account is 571337 and I changed my credit card in February 2022 for one year subscription and will expire in February 2023 and my account is 571337 and my credit card first 6 number are 510805 and the last 4 number are 9831 but no one help me so I need your executive email and phone so I can talk to them so they can resolve my problems thanks

I paid for gold membership and my log in credentials immediately stopped working. I tried to reset my password and it says my account doesn’t exist. I upgraded from my free account so it seems that I was scammed and as soon as I upgraded they locked me out and kept my money. I will be charging it back and reporting this to the feds.

Interestingly when I went to submit this it said it was too short and would likely not receive any attention. It suggested I attach bills, statements, etc. Yes…I bet you would like that information.

My name. Is John Magari and my profile is

Jmazaras22

I have been AFF for about 3 months

I have messaged many women with me photos

I have less than a handfull.of responses

I have more than adequate amount of photos

Why am I not getting any responses

Is it my LOOKS ?

Is it my PROFILE ?

Is it a COMBINATION?

I must say I am confused

Would look my situation over and then let me know why you yhink I am not getting any responses

Thank you in advance for your advice! !

HAVE A NICE WEEK

John Magari

Massive scam, fake profiles.

Ask for a refund two hours after paying membership.

They're obliged by law to accept a refund during the first 72h. Again, I asked for it after just 2h.

Their first response took almost 24h, trying to delay the refund frame.

Customer service (Liezel D.) neglected the refund three times, denying existing law and claiming that my membership doesn't accept refunds.

The way to trick you is that you have to pay first to see other profiles, so you don't know they're fake unless you have paid.

Account e-mail [protected]@gmail.com

My ex-husband is impersonating me and has created a fake profile on your website. He is using the name "Kittykatlioness" 41F Sydney.

He has messaged random men pretending to be me, and giving out my personal address. Men have arrived at the house expecting to meet me and expecting something that i have not consented to.

The random men turning up is extremely stressful and fearful, and i am very afraid for my mother's and mine well-being and safety.

i have reported the matter to the local police and to the eSafety Commissioner.

I do not know what contact details he has used to create the profile.

Well I went and signed up for the upgraded version instead of the free version and I don't like it much less I'm still having issues with the stalker that I had on your from a year ago and I've emailed them and I've told them this and they keep telling me they cannot issue me a refund which is really funny because they did last year when I had a different account