Adam4Adam
reviews and complaints

This is the biggest garbage site I have ever seen. Literally 90% of all profiles are from Sedgewick Cheney Kansas. I block every single one that says Sedgewick Cheney Kansas. lot of them say they are military. I block all of those also. Hardly anyone fills out profiles or has pictures. A lot of scammers on here trying to get you to pay to meet up or send stuff to them overseas saying they are military.

I was a member of this site for over 20 years and back on July 13 Inwas chatting with someone who portrayed himself to be a 19 year old. We chatted for about a week and texted over rhe same period. Yesterday, Saturday i received a phone call from a person claiming to be a investigator with sheiffs office calling on his personal cell phone. Thats where i got suspicious, they would never call from there personal cell phones, to state the individual i was speaking with was only 17, then he says the father is willing to talk to.me about situation. Again the number that called me was a talk to te t number, when i tried toncall back and said the talk to text number is not available . Then it called back and said how could i talk to a 17yr old and he tried to commit suicide, i have reported this to the sheriffs.office

I received an email stating I have new messages on my Adam4Adam account at 8:12 AM this morning, Thursday, July 27, 2023. I tried to login at 9 o'clock and it is been telling me my account has been suspended?

Never once have I done anything to have my account suspended and in fact, I sent a screenshot and informed Adam4Adam that somebody on the account had said if I wasn't going to speak to them anymore, they would simply have my account suspended by reporting me and you will do it. My response was I'm sure they will read the emails and everything I've ever sent and show that I have done nothing and actually when you're done. Obviously, whoever's in charge of suspending these accounts, simply take whatever anybody says and hits suspend without checking anything out. If you would've simply reviewed any and all the text I've ever said you seen that I have never done or said, anything inappropriate, illegal, or even immoral.

I am hoping this was a mistake on your behalf, as I never even received an email stating my account was suspended. And I would like a response back or you lost a customer for good. This is totally unacceptable.

Kenneth Handler

Hackers/scammers are using other people picture to lure members into conversations that get endless until they get your private email and do not under any circumstances give them your cell number! They will pay for your information at one of the "people look up" websites and get you complete information, you, your family, your address, all your phone numbers, etc.! Then they send it all to you on your cell or email and they want $1000.00 to keep from sharing all of your conversations on adam4adam and photos you posted with your family and all social medias that you may be a part of! We are talking hackers, scammers and blackmailers! The best thing is to avoid this website completely... It can't be trusted! It is free to all and I mean all! So all you need is a fake name and email to get signed up. So this is a dark web and hackers, scammers, blackmailers dream come true! Some will go so far as to say they booked a motel room and give you a time & day to meet! Do not fall for it... You are being set up to be robbed or worse. Do not give them any info on your vehicle either to recognize it. Use your smarts and gut feelings and trust them. If you have a bad feeling about whom you are chatting with... Then break immediately. Do not risk your life, money or well being it is not worth it. Cancel you membership!

This is more a question of how to effectively use A4A as a legitimate user than a complaint.
Since being a member of A4A I am inundated by communications from users who seem to be close to me (in the USA) but end up being Russian or from some other Baltic nation far far away once you initiate conversation and find out more. They start off as very innocuous and innocent conversation, but it does become clear that they are gathering information to assess your wealth or location.
Unfortunately, I have fallen pray to the words from one of these profiles that led to us exchanging emails and establishing a relationship outside of A4A.
This is definitely on me, and I have realized my mistake and take full ownership of letting this go to far.
The individual has since emailed me continuously with promises of affection and a desire to come to the United States to "visit" me if I can just send him money and help him get here. Thankfully I have not done so, and have been skeptical of his motivations and true intent which is to solicit money. I am safe, and while he continues to email me, I am well aware of his ruse.
What is disheartening however, is that the original profile (now gone) indicated being close to me, and being verified and legitimate.
Since this event, I have run into so many more profiles that seem to fit this description, that I can no longer trust what profile is real and what profile is fake anymore.
I am inclined to discontinue my membership and resort to Grindr, who somehow seems to manage keeping the fake profiles at bay a whole lot better. (though they are not non-existent for sure).
I am disappointed by this as the A4A platform offers a lot in terms of getting to know someone, and is fun and easy to use. But it is filled with questionable profiles that cannot be verified or turn out not to be real. I every case it ends up being some far away international person (real or not) that has other motivations.

I have 10 A4A messages stacked up and am not able to retrieve them. Tried rebooting, caches, etc. I get a error message like ‘Oops, something went wrong -ok' that just keeps repeating. I'd certainly like to know what these guys are asking; it's the reason I'm on here.

How do I retrieve such messages?

How do I retrieve my messages?

How do I retrieve my messages?

Please?

This morning I had another interaction with a guy who initially wanted to have sex with me and use drugs..I blocked him..when I returned to the site this afternoon there was a threatening text from a fake profile..I reported this profile to your staff numerous times with negative results..all management emails re impossible to navigate..and impossible to navigate..this guy has said he is going to track me and harm me..it is even obvious from his handle that he is designed to get me...the profile is still up and I'm unable to navigate a response with your team

Hi I accidentally deleted my account after receiving tons of spam emails to my account, after I signed in using the same email address and a new username and account I was wrongfully suspended and was unable to log back in beyond changing my email address.Please tell me this is a mistake.

Las Vegas in on this because prostitution in nv, or your paying off ! Or what you allow prostitution on sites, this need wa dc law maker, charge you with I hoping your corrupt app

July 13, 2020

An Adam4Adam Member Nudenuts, contacted to regarding taking photos. I am not a photographer. I told him this, but I would take pictures of him...Not me. I told him to contact me, once this Convid-19 Virus is under control or manageable, and I would take some photos of him...Any way that he wanted me.

Well for some strange reason, he reported me as being a scammer. I am not a scammer. I have never scammed or attempted to scam anyone. I have been a member of Adam4Adam for about 20 years. SensuousOne ([protected]@NC.rr.com).

Why did you delete me messages, on my account? Why didn't you contact me regarding this user or member reporting me as a scammer? I simply do not understand why, you did this to me? Please correct this situation, and turn your attention to Nudearts...I think he is the scammer.

SensuousOne ([protected]@NC.rr.com)...or [protected]@Yahoo.com

Good Morning Sir/Ma'am:
My username for a4a is [protected]@yahoo.com

Every time I try to check messages or simply try to send a new message to someone, I get an error message that says: "error forbidden"

I currently have 24 unread messages, and a host of other saved messages that I really need to retrieve ... Please help me resolve this issue ASAP!

Thanks 🙏🏾,
DarkJB

When I go to Adfam4Adam, it takes a very long time (over 5 minutes) for my messages to appear. Also, when I try to go to a message, I first get the error message: "Alert
Forbidden Ok." I would like to get these resolved. My user name is:
[protected]@gmail.com
It is very annoying to have to click through that every time I want to read an email or profile.

They used to be ok about posting pro ads, but lately, they are TERRIBLE. After submitting ANY changes to ads, they send an automatic, "Unfortunately, your PROad was not approved because it advertises something illegal (like sex for money, drug or other illegal activities). Please be reminded that it is forbidden to do so on Adam4Adam and can lead to profile suspension." This is completely untrue and ridiculous. It is likely as a result of recent conservative legislation HR 1865, however, they don't seem to have the staff nor the desire to actually read the updates, but instead send this automatic message, and have not responded to emails asking why they did this. Also, you cannot enter prices (while existing ads have prices), also the message says to not upload nude pix to pro ads while there are pro ads with nude pix already, etc etc etc. So, the whole site is self-contradicting and very unprofessional. Is this how we treat each other, really? So sad...

On may 3, 2018 I made the mistake to meet up with user monstercocktyrel through the website adam4adam.com. I happen to leave my phone unlocked early on into the encounter and while I was in the bathroom he transferred $380 using a cash app from my phone to his in a manner of minutes. He left immediately after before I realized and could stop him. I messaged him several times asking him to return it. Or to at least give anything back, even half back me as i'm currently in debt and very desperate. But he ignored everything.

I wrote to adam 4 adam but of course they don't care one of their pro members is a thief. All they care about is maintaining the status quo, but he was aggressive with me, stole from me and will continue to be to others. He is a danger to users on the site, especially if they want to keep up their escort services underneath the eye of the law.

Date: 8/15/16
Location: New York City
Adam member screen name: hungdarkdriller_
Adam page link: https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/hungdarkdriller_
This guy, said his name Jamal, is a scam artist. The photos are not of him, though he was cute. I was supposed to have an hour massage. He arrived and asked if I do 3some, I said yes and he said his friend was with him outside my apartment. I did not want to have a 3some so declined. He asked for his fee upfront, began the massage and after about 10 minutes he leaves the room, I thought to the bathroom and he leaves the apartment. I see him just closing the door and notice his friend actually out in the hallway waiting. He's a fake, scam artist. Beware

Couple of month ago, I have found the website www.adam4adam.com. I registered there and created account, but unfortunately the website hasn’t been reliable and professional. I complained about it to the moderators, but they didn’t react and didn’t care. I wanted to do something about it, but the moderators suddenly blocked me. Not recommended website.

Today I went tryed to relog onto the site and It said I was banned from the site. I have noted three previous posts for falsely advertising scam on this website and now Ive been banned. I would like to know why I have been banded and not allowed to use the site from my home PC and my cell phone. I have followed all the rules for posting and have only reported other persons who are posting scams

Please let me know why this was done and for what reason.